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Archived questions from: September, 2010 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

He's either upset with her and trying to keep me out of it or he's trying to break things off with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hello I am having a hard time figuring out what is going on with a guy I have been getting to know over the past 5 months. We met through an online dating site, and we live a few hours away from one another, so we don't see each other very often, b...

Really upset, not sure what to think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5157 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - My ex told me to back off and to give him peace because he's thinking I brag about my art. But I don't.. I was trying to talk to him about something. I sent him a quote and he came out saying he's sick of me or something, so I'm going to leave him ...

He wants his ex-wife back, but wants to have sex with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - This is a really weird question but please help me. I have been chatting with a 40 year old guy on the internet for about a year. I am 18. We started talking about all kinds of things when we first met, but now it's pretty much about sex. I'm not ...

My ex is really starting to creep me out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - not so long ago i wrote about not being able to broke up with my boyfriend because he wouldn't let me, he would start crying and begging and that broke my heart and made me unable to do it. then a week or two ago i finally did it. But now i have a ...

I'm not a mistress. or am i? I'm fed up with feeling lonely

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - What do I do? I've been with my 'boyfriend' for almost 5 years. I love him and he says he loves me! But, and it's a big one...I've never met his friends, he seens to 'jump' when his ex says 'jump'. This I understand as they have three children...

Is she blowing me off to start something with this other guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I think my ex is seeing someone else but she won't tell me that she is and its really annoying me because our break wasn't supposed to be permanent just until she found a way to deal with her problems IE severe depression and alcoholism. She said we ...

Is this being intimate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - Hi there, Are you being "intimate" If you cup your ex g/f face in yr hand when saying goodnite and giving her a kiss on the cheek and a hug?...

My insecurities about his ex wife are causing problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5157 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend who has 2 sons ages 19 and 25. I have moved in to their home with my son age 25. As far as our living situation everything is working out just fine. I am having trouble accepting the fact that the ex-wife (Mother of the ...

In a relationship with a wonderful gorgeous man but might have screwed up our future

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I am in a relationship with a wonderful gorgeous man but I might have screwed up any future for us. I was gone on a trip for my internship for a couple of months. I ran into my boyfriend's ex who told me that my boyfriend was done with me because he ...

Should I move to my ex's city like I had planned while we were together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - Here's my situation my girlfriend and I recently broken up we were together for a year and it was mainly a long distance relationship. When we were together I was planning on moving to her city and whenever I would visit her city I fell in love with ...

Am I getting played by my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5158 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - For the past couple of weeks, my ex-boyfriend and I have been acting like we did when we were dating and have expressed our feelings towards each other with flirting and suggestions, etc. However, the few times that we have tried hanging out, ...

Do I vanish or tell him how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hi....I liked this guy G for a while. We dated unofficially....then he hurt me a lot and I ignored him....I still like him a lot. I just found out he has an official relationship.... Should I just "vanish" and do what I do to supress my feelings...

I need to get over my ex so I can move on and give my heart to my new guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - ok so i dated a guy for 2 1/2 years! i did everything for him. bought everything, just showed him my love, gave him my whole heart.but he did nothing for me. never held my hand or told me how pretty I was, and he was controling. so i broke up with ...

2 Guys lead to 2 different futures. Which do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I'm in a little bit of trouble here. Y'see, I am dating a guy that I LOVE so much, and he loves me back. There are a few complications with him though, he's amazing and all, but I'm 2 years older than him, and he's got alot of issues that he NEEDS ...

What does my ex mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Well on saturday I made this sign for DJ Pauly D from the Jersey Shore and I posted it on his page on facebook he left me a comment saying he liked it and all that I was pretty happy about it so I told a few people and I even told my ex since we on ...

I keep having dreams about my ex, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I have been married for 6 months but keep dreaming of an ex boyfriend. I usually wouldn't be concerned about the odd dream but these are much more frequent sometimes a couple of times a week. Sometimes they are explicit, sometimes I tell him I am ...

Will I ever get over being abused in a previous relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I dated this guy about a year ago.he kept saying that is I didn't date hime he would kill himself.so I dated him..it was ok @ first..he bought me nice things and treatd me great.then I told one of my darkest secrets then he told me one of his..then ...

I need my ex to tell me its ok for me to date others

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have recently split up,i need him to put his hand on his heart and tell me this is what he really wants and for me to go date other guys,this is so if we ever consider getting together again he wont or cant say that we was on a ...

My ex is self obsessed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - Hi, my GF left me and wants us to "be friends". But its too painful even seeing her. How do i tell her? Also i think shes self obssessed, as apparantley she thinks that i was aiming a performance of the song "Sunny Afternoon" at her, what do i do?...

Also - how many arguments do you think "normal" people have in a healthy relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - whenever we had arguments (which is very frequent and lasts for several hours), my ex would be obsessed over it for a day. He said that it wrecked his day, he couldn't concentrate, and he can only think about ending the relationship (which he ...

My boyfriend seems to be choosing his child with his ex over our child!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has two kids, one by me and one by his ex. his ex decided to move to another state now he wants to drop our home and jobs that supports our child to hang out with his other son can you help?...

I found my bf's emails to his ex....Please help!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - The other day, my boyfriend of a year left his email account up on his computer. I know I shouldn't have looked through it, but I did. I know that was wrong, and even hesitated, but I still did it (I found out he was using his webcam in a sexual ...

I don't think he loves me as much as he loved his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Hi all... its a bit complicated story.. in summary.. i love this guy so much and i m ready to give up everything for him but he seems he dont love me as much as he loved his ex before...This is a nightmare for me..I cant remove this from my mind....

I think about my ex every day, I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I have been married for 3 years. I love my husband... a lot. Our marriage has been nothing but a fight for survival. I never thought I would ever be thinking this but I wonder if I married the right man. I am still in love with my ex. I have nev...

Why is my ex boyfriend delaying meeting up with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - My ex boyfriend and i have been broken up for about a month and during this period, he has called me a couple of times, sent me his vacation pictures, even called me the names he gave me when we were going out, "peach" and "beautiful". After about ...

I really want to speak to my ex... it ended badly

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - My ex broke up with me for her ex after she went to see him in hospital after he got beaten up. I had done nothing wrong to deserve this. The last time we spoke was when I told her that I had been threatened by him (he sent me emails telling m...

His ex is coming between us... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5159 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Hi :) I'd REALLY appreciate any advice anyone could give me. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and I am very happy. We have a great relationship and it's very healthy and happy in every way :) There is a problem though.. hi...

He said I love you... without being prompted!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Hi, I have been together with my boyfriend for a year and a half. We love each other and have talked regularly about marriage. However he remains in contact with his ex-girlfriend (who lives in another country). He was with her for 6 years and ...

What should I do with this ex who said we can't be friends? He keeps looking at me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5158 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I had a great relationship with a guy i met through friends. He dumped me after 9 months due to our 'differences' although he still loved me and meant all the nice things he had said. I handled the break up quite well and despite feeling sad at the ...

Ashamed and disgusted that I lied about being pregnant twice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - When I was younger (Im now 27), I had really low self esteem and a drug problem. When I started a relationship with a guy, it would always end badly because I would become clingy or too much for them. I could not deal with this rejection and on 2 ...

I cant deal with the fact all my ex's have new girlfriends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - In the past couple of days Ive come to realise that all my exes (4) have got new girlfriends and for some reason it really bothers me. Apart from one (the love of my life am still not over him), the other 3 I dont even have feelings for anymore so ...

I still miss my ex, and am thinking of contacting her on her birthday

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - Should I contact my ex on her birthday? She text/called me and even took me out, but that was about three months after our 3 year relationship ended. It's been closer to 5 months since we last spoke now (in may) and 10 months since we broke up. I ...

I'm freaking out on my b/f for things my ex was hung up on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5158 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I freaked out the other night on my boyfriend. He and I are usually very affectionate and when we go to bed (if we're not having sex) we'll hold each other for a while before going to sleep... but the other night he didn't touch me at all. I tried ...

What do I say to express what I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - okay, its long. i am 15 years old just to let you know. basically, i was at my bands gig the other day, and my best friend, whos a girl, was there, and we started to get really close. hugging loads, etc. she has a boyfriend, and she tells me tha...

Does he deserve this last and final chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Long story short, the guy who i dated for a year and a half wants a last chance. Btw hes 20, if that makes a difference. He was the one who i gave multiple chances too and every time i did he would take advantage of it. He knew how much i loved ...

We've broken up but he still looks at me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I got dumped just about a month ago. There was nothing wrong with our relationship, we got on very well and he did not dump me because of a bad relationship, but because he felt we were very different. He still loves me and meant everything he said. ...

Why can't I lower my standards in datiing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5158 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - hi its been over i month me and my ex girlfriend have been broken up, neither of us really wanted to break up but it just ended up happening and i love her to death but we both did some stupid things that we cant forgive eachother for in that month, ...

I want to apologize to him but I'm unsure if I should

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Almost 2 years ago,I got involved with a man who was in Europe for business. He would stay for 6-7 months so I didnt consider our relationship serious. He would tell me he likes me a lot,we used to spend time together but didnt have sex....he would ...

My girlfriend's kids were fine ... until I saw an old picture of her ex and now I feel cheated!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - Im 29 and shes 27, her kids are 2 and 5. We've been going out for about a year, just recently i saw some old pics of her kids, herself and her ex, they were never married... I saw some pics of them playing in the park and christining ... ...

I don't understand why he would cheat on his new girlfriend with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Hi I was in a relationship for 6 years with the father of my 2 year old girl. We split up last July through his choice. He believed he didn't love me because he kept looking for something else in other women, he kissed two girls during the last ...

Is it wrong to love who she is, but be uncomfortable about her past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend has been feeling increasingly distant the past view months. We have been on a smooth relationship until now, but I sometimes wonder if she's started to stray elsewhere in her mind. I feel somewhat responsible, because she seem unhappy ...

Why is it that I am having this strong feeling that I am still being thought about by a former partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Why is it that I am having this strong feeling that I am still being thought about by a former partner? I would admit that I am the type who could easily let go but this does not seem to be the case with my former partner. For some reason...

I've tried everything to get my ex back. Is it possible she loves me still?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5160 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - Ok I've tried everything to get my Ex back. Even after almost a year I can't get her out of my mind. I want to know if she loves me. She told me the other night she did. She introduced me to her family (including extended). She has discussed the ...

Divorced or bereaved dad - or is it the same thing? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

26 September 2010 (M) - As a divorced dad - now with a new lady partner (NB: I live alone) - seeing my children home (they are 50 miles away) - and saying goodbye to my partner hurts me so much I do not know what to do for the best. I feel that I am living a real be...

Why is my ex acting this way, what does she want from me and what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5161 days ago

26 September 2010 (M) - I broke up with a girl about 9 months ago and during this time I met another girl. Me and this girl are always together in school and we both laugh at our jokes a lot. Me and the girl who is always with me are only friends and we both know about ...

Going on 2 years and still not over the ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - I dated my daughters father for five years off and on, we ve broke up but always manage to get back together. Now its been a year and a half and we have not gotten back together. He's been dating the same person ever since we broke up. I've meet ...

Does my ex-husband want to reconcile?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

25 September 2010 (F) - I dnt understand my ex husband he does favours for my sister and tries to play father figure whn I am not around. He is staying with his girlfriend and whn as him how his girlfriend feels he just says he does not care. We haven't divorced yet. I ...

I broke up with a married man but he won't leave me alone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

25 September 2010 (F) - I hv asked for advise before here and I really took it into practise. I also hv another problem in the same matter. I was involved with a married man a way older thn me. I decided to let go as I saw tht it was merrily a waste of time. I haven't ...

Should I consider getting back together with my needy ex-girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

25 September 2010 (M) - Hi, I am currently 19 years old and so is my girlfriend. Recently I've been thinking a lot about our relationship and I can't come to any definite conclusion... I really care about her so I know i have a bias, so I need an outside opinion. We'v...

Do I have these feelings because he was my first sexual partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

25 September 2010 (?) - me and my boyfriend split 2 months ago and i still really care about him and get upset when i see him with another girl and it still really hurts when he has a go at me why am i feeling like this could it be because he was my first sexual partner ...