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anonymous
writes:I hv asked for advise before here and I really took it into practise. I also hv another problem in the same matter. I was involved with a married man a way older thn me. I decided to let go as I saw tht it was merrily a waste of time. I haven't seen him for over a month or 2 and its very hard as he sends me sweet messages everyday and tells me how much he misses me and how he miss wht we nomarly used to do together. I currently do not hv a boy friend and I am finding it hard to avoid him. I have tried everthing in my power to avoid him and he keeps calling and smsing no matter how much I tell him tht its over. Shld I tell his wife?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): You really do need to avoid all contact with him. He knows you are on your own and he still remembers that he can call on you when it is convenient for him!
Block his number from your phone,..if he continues to harass you, then you can threaten to speak to his wife about it.
Do you work together?
If so tell him you will report the harassment.
He is having a hard time letting go because you were an available and convenient bit on the side for him.
You say it was not going anywhere so was a waste of time.
This tells me he would not consider leaving his wife for you, it is not often they do!
Remember, he is only using you to fulfill his needs and feed his ego.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): Change your number e-mail address etc. That way you won't have to read/listen to his cr*p.
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