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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I dnt understand my ex husband he does favours for my sister and tries to play father figure whn I am not around. He is staying with his girlfriend and whn as him how his girlfriend feels he just says he does not care. We haven't divorced yet. I fail to understand him as our break up was very complicated. We have a child together and I have denied him to see his child. When we ague he walks away and sends me a short messages thanking me for the insults. Does this mean he is still hoping that we might fix things together?I still love him and I don't want to push him further away from me. After he did something for my sister I sent him a message thanking him and he never responded. A week before he did that for my sister I had told him that I did not want him depositing money into my son's bank account and that I wanted to go ahead with the divorce. Shld I keep hoping that time will fix things? He always asks questions like "why are u always angry" pliz advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2010): Unless he is abusive or a drug addict you have no right whatsoever to keep him from his child. Stop that immediately. Time fixes very little and it honestly sounds to me like you have no desire to fix anything. This requires thoughtful conversation, not angry words and denial of visitation. You still love him yet you call him your Ex even though you are not divorced? You still love him yet you deny him visitation with the child he helped create and I assume raise? It sounds to me like you are very confused and need professional help.
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