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writes:Well on saturday I made this sign for DJ Pauly D from the Jersey Shore and I posted it on his page on facebook he left me a comment saying he liked it and all that I was pretty happy about it so I told a few people and I even told my ex since we on friendly but sometimes not I just wanted to share it because it's pretty cool and since we've been so hot and cold lately I texted him last night about you know its just hard not loving you along with this cute quote "its hard to stop loving you it's like wanting to touch a star you know you'll never reach it but you just gotta keep trying" he responded oh and I'm better then paul d (my ex is a dj) and so I don't know why he didn't really respond to what I said and then sent me some mix he did. Is he mad I don't understand?
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (30 September 2010):
 I would say that he is totally jealous because every dj wants to make it big and alot of people hate the fact that the jersey shore people are famous. I personally love the show and I don't see why he would be so jealous or mad at you for you saying talking about a celebrity, everyone has celebrity crushes. He may be more mad at the world because he's not getting to where he wants to be being a dj. Either way if you don't mention anything else to him it should just blow over.
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (30 September 2010):
 Sounds like he's jealous or maybe just annoyed by Jersey Shore since he said he was better than DJ Pauly and sent you a mix. BUT the fact that he responded to your cute comment with "oh" tells me he either didn't know how to reply OR didn't care enough and concentrated more on defending himself as a better DJ than Pauly. So, step back a bit. Get cool with him. You don't want to come off as being more interested than he is (since I'm guessing you want something with him). Guys write that off as a red flag and you want to have them chasing you not the other way around.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (30 September 2010):
 Honestly I don't think ex's can be friends until a whole lot of water has gone under the bridge. Cut the contact and allow yourself to get over this guy before you try to be friends with him. Seeing him and contacting him is like rubbing salt into a wound.
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