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Archived questions from: November, 2011 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

My story of how karma really can bite you. And why empathy is important in relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Well basically I am 14 years old and i would like to share a story which really really changed my way that I view the world and why you shouldn't take people for granted. All names included in this stroy are made up ones. I had a friend n...

One thing led to another, and I'd like to talk to him about it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - Me and my mate "charlie" were at his house one night and i got up in the morning went to have a shower however he did not realize and walk in on me in the shower, we were were both naked and both got erections. After this we went to his room and ...

I want to keep my sexual orientation private, but feel guilty if I don't say anything!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Hey. Basically i for the last year have been wondering about my sexuality. About 3 months into the year i started to have feelings for women and become rather attracted to them. This was complet...

Art and Design or Business and Enterprise? Which one to choose?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Basically long story short i need help choosing one more subject for me to do for the next two years. In two years time i will be having a series of massive exams called GCSE'S. Depending on the results ...

Having sex again after 12 days really hurt! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend hadn't had sex for 12 days- couldn't get a house to ourselves. We finally managed today, and it hurt like a *****. It was the same sort of pain I felt when I lost my virginity. It felt like I was being torn down there and brough...

I'm having trouble understanding how to make him realize I'm screaming out for love, help and affection?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Dear Cupids, I need a bit of help and dont know where to run. To cut a long story short Ive been with my partner (lets call him Steven*) for 2 and a half years, we have a 9 month old little boy together. During the first month or so a...

I want a baby but my bf wants to first better financial situation. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Im 16 and lost twins 4 months and i was 5 months pregnant, it was the hardest thing ive ever had to go throu but my boyfriend was really supportive. after just getting sorted about forgetting loosing my twins ive started to really want another baby ...

How can I approach an attractive girl? Fear of Rejection.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - There is a girl in my class who in see at least twice a week who seems really polite and quiet but I don't know how to approach her. As I'm afraid of being rejected. She once approached me and a couple of friends and asked in a very polite manner ...

Need help with boys!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - i am 13 and in 7th grade. how do i get boys in my grade (in my school) to like me as a friend and then maybe date me later on in life? but i don't know how! cause honestly i tried flirting, being nice i tried the best i could but now i need some ...

Can someone give me some techniques to just accept compliments with good grace and not feel so undeserving and overwhelmed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I have a really difficult time accepting compliments, and people think I'm stuck up because of it or I seek attention - but really with anything, grades, comments from a professor regarding a great paper I wrote - it all overwhelms me so much and ...

Should I Kiss him or wait for him to kiss me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - My best friend is just under 3 years older than me. Her boyfriend's best friend has feelings for me and tries to get up close and personal all the time. I find this very sweet but extremely annoying at the same time. I do think he is hot though and ...

Is something changing in me? Am I losing my girlfriend? What is wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - I am in love with my girlfriend and I can't imagine life without her, but recently I have been noticing another girl, whom I declared to be one of the most beautiful girls I had ever seen many times but never actually felt anything over her. However ...

I was just wondering once we grow apart can we get close again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Hey everyone... I am abit confused at the moment :\ i need some advice please. Me and my boyfriend have been together just over seven months and i feel that we are growning apart :( i have ask him how he feels and he said that we are fine as close...

It stresses me out that he's so close to his female friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Ok here is the deal my boyfriend has this friend thAts a girl and he talks to her alot and I swear no matter what I say doesn't ever feel good enough becuz I have a feeling she'd say it better and I think I am break up with him over her because it ...

Should I stay committed or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - First off, I'll go ahead and tell you that im only 14. Laugh if you want, but I take this seriously. I was with my boyfriend for 14 months.. Then we broke up, about two weeks ago told me he cant go a day without thinking about me. he knows im still ...

She doesn't want to be fingered, how can I change her mind?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - Hi, I was wondering if anyone could help me here. So me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost a year and a half and naturally we are progressing sexually. The problem is, she gives me hand but I want to give her as well. She hates the id...

How do I ask her out? And how do I keep my family out of it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - So there is this girl I like at school(I am in the 8th grade) and I would like to ask her out but I have no idea how to do it or where to go. We are both not very popular so I'm not going after some one out of my league.I also worry how my family ...

17 year old and 14 year old

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - Hey I'm a 17 yr old guy, my girlfriend is 14, yes I know that a big age differance this young. We are very much in love, strong word but true. I have asked her about sex and she said she doesnt want to go that far, but she keeps throwing me mixed ...

I like him but he has a (cheating) girlfriend! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - There's this guy I like I have known him for a while. Even his parents and three sisters know me(cause I spent some nights with his lil sister cause we r best friends), but I don't know what to do. I'm in 7th grade but he's in 6th and has a ...

He still stares at me. Does my ex like me still?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - So, my boyfriend (ex) broke up with me, I still really like him sometimes I catch him staring at me during school, (I'm 15) I want to find out if he still likes me. any ideas how? please help me....

Am I embarrassing him, and how do I find out if I am?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I have a problem with maintaining heat, so I get cold very easily. My friend is of the opposite sex and 2 years older than me, but he is the warmest one of my friends, and when I get cold it is important that I try to stay as warm as I can so I ...

What do I do about my dirty little secret?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - what do i do when i really like this guy, i've dated him before and we've had sex lots of times, were not dating right now, i'm kinda making him my dirty little secret (cheating) but i really like him and i don't wanna hurt the guy i'm with...idk ...

I am totally messed up when it comes to relationships/sex/dating.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Hi! I really need some advice and input from all of you wise people out there! :) I am 19. I've been in two relationships. The first one was at 15 and lasted for 2 months. The second one was at 17 and lasted a month. I dumped both of them. I ...

Afraid I'm addicted to porn

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - Ok well i REALLY need advice..here it goes.. Him im 13 and i am adicted to watching porn.. Its kinda wrong but i cant stop watching it.. I masterbate to it till i Ejaculate when ever my parent leave to the store i rush to the computer and go on a ...

Spotting before my period is due and definitely not pregnant....is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I have been on the pill for 10 months, never missed a pill, take it at the same time to the minute, but every month before my period is due, i have brown spotting and then my period follows as normal. i have been to the doctors and they advised to ...

Should I tell the 26 year old I like how I feel? Do I even stand a chance with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - ok so here is how it goes.im a 16 years old teen who has feeling for a 26 years old guy with me in a department..ive always ignored what i felt because this is weird and stupid..but its just that the guys is amazing and i really get along ...

My friends have replaced me with a girl they just met

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - My group of 3 friends has replaced me with the new girl. I have been away sick for a few weeks and they tell me how amazing this girl is and I feel left out, then they say they are all best friends now. It makes me really sad because they have kno...

Feeling used, yet culpable in becoming intimate with a 'taken' man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I don't know what to do, I did something very stupid with this guy a week ago. I am so disappointed in myself, that I don't know what to do in this type of situation?! Basically, this guy I really liked him and I wasn't sure whether he did to, but ...

Does she see me as more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4741 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - Hi, I would really appreciate some feedback. I've been really good friends with this girl for a while now, I've always known who she was, but in the last couple of months, I've really gotten to know her. We have a couple classes together, so I s...

The girl I like is a Jehovah's Witness

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - There's this girl who I found to be amazing. I am the type to fall for girls who "catch my eye" as in i am picky and i go for girls who call out to me. This girl caught my eye a while ago but she's one of those girls that i call wayy out of my le...

How to make him hold my hand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - This is going to sound stupid but here goes. I'm a teenager. There's this boy I like, and I've only known him a few months but I want to start moving forward with him. I don't want to hurry things though, he always gives me a cuddle as I leave hi...

Is he telling me the truth about working in Porn films? Or just saying it to shock me? How should I react?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - well at this moment in time im very confused! I've been seeing this guy for a while now and i knew he had a bit of a strange past since the beginning! but he has told told me he used to film porn movies and has also had sex with porn stars......

I want to break it off with him. But its like he has me on a leash. How do I find the strength?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4742 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Hi I'm 17 and I've been with this guy for about 6 months now. He's my brothers friend, well they're not really friends but they know each other. He was so nice and sweet in the beginning but now oh my god he is the worst. He treats me like s^^t and...

I feel he did not respect my 'No" when he requested anal sex and I have refused that and his other request. I don't know enough about it, like does it hurt?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has recently requested anal sex, and he has also said he would like to ejaculate on my face. When he first asked if we could have anal sex I said no. I have tried it before (not actual sex, but similar) and didn't really enjoy it....

I can't simply tell her I lied, can I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) - Hi everyone, really need some help here. My and my girlfriend just got into an argument about trusting each other (I told her I didn't trust her fully because I have trust issue, I told her I had been cheated on- which wasn't true) and I think we ...

Boyfriend wants to have sex but I know he'll tell everyone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - So I was faced with 2 problems this past weekend..first..my boyfriend told me that his mom doesn't like me...she use to but I don't talk to her in public..so she thinks I'm being like a snob or something which is absolutely not the case...I have ...

Should I be worried that she might be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) - I am 18, in first year university. My girlfriend is almost 17, in her last year of highschool. We've been dating since August and had sex twice. The first time, which was the FIRST time for both of us, we used a condom, and it seemed like it was ...

We had sex for the first time without a condom. Should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and me had sex (first time for both) without using a condom. She takes pregnancy pills, and she said it was ok, but i am still worried. Should I be worried? Shes also been complaining of feeling dizzy. but that could be anythin...

How can I make this guy get out of my personal space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - I'm in Gr.11 and I met a guy who was a year younger than me. I discovered that he doesn't have many friends because people say he's "creepy" and socially awkward. Now, I'm not the type of person to just let these kinds of things go, so I befriended ...

I'm in love with my teacher and can't stop thinking about him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - Hallo, I am afraid I am in love with my teacher. he is 30 and I am in love with him for 1 and a half year.i can not stop thinking about him.He is so pretty, sexay ... I found out that he likes a girl of my schoolvery much.Not many people know this...

He only likes me 'average'? What does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - So i really like this guy in my school and i dont know if he likes me but he knows i like him. i asked him if he likes me and he said he does but his liking is only average. what do you think that could mean? Also we fought like a week or so bac...

Is he worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - Hey... Basically, I've liked this guy for about a year now, and he knows I like him. At first, i thought my infatuation would go away, but it hasn't. I don't want to like him, because he is really perverted, and asks me to send him pictures and ...

I wanted to ask his advice on getting a tattoo. But he didn't want to know. Is he just being mean to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - So I've been talking to this guy and everything seemed Like it was going good until today . I texted him and told him I was watching this movie and he said lol I have fun and then I told him it's weird and I need his help he said wish I could ...

Am I wasting my time? I really love him and I don't want to get over him!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4743 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - Hi So I like this guy and I've liked him nearly all year and I asked him out about 4 weeks ago.. He said no because he wasn't ready for a girlfriend but he liked me as well.. Liked me more than any other girl.. My bestfriend asked him if he ...

I cut off all contact with my best friend, but I still miss him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4743 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - I know this may seem like a stupid question, as it's kind of through my own doing. I recently fell out with my male best friend,strictly platonic, well not recently around four months ago lets just say? from speaking every day, this is the long...

How do I convince my ex that his online relationship counts as cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - I found out my boyfriend was cheating emotionally with this girl who lives on the opposite side of the country. But they skyped together so to me that distance doesnt mean anything. I sent him a text telling him I knew about his relation...

I found her again...on campus! What's my next step?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

25 November 2011 (M) - I'm currently at University at the moment. Just walking around the campus on my way home with my friend, I saw this radiant girl i remember talking to at a club about a week ago but i was so star struck by her i forgot to ask for her name/number or ...

Is it possible to have sex four or five times in one night?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - I was having a lighthearted chat with my boyfriend this morning about first-time sex. I'm a virgin, he's not, and after almost a year together we're planning to go through with it soon. So we were talking about condoms etc. and to cut a long sto...

Texting time... why does he take forever to reply!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - I met this guy about 2 weeks ago, and we hit it off right away. Since then, he's text me without fail everyday, which is good as usually guys trail off after a few days! The only thing which confuses me, is how long he takes to reply to each tex...

He gets too nervous to have sex. What can I do to help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - I recently got together with this guy. He's older than me by 3 and a bit years and lives away so whenever he comes to visit we get physical. Our first time was amazing. He did go soft twice but he got it back and later he confessed it was...