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writes:ok so here is how it goes.im a 16 years old teen who has feeling for a 26 years old guy with me in a department..ive always ignored what i felt because this is weird and stupid..but its just that the guys is amazing and i really get along with..though ive still know nothin about him except for brief info but well..and i have no quite idea if he shares the same hes never showed me anything..but i guess he he knows i ave something for me but not sure of that too!!and nowadays my feeling are growing stronger..and i dont know what to do would someone please help..is this wrong or is this accepted? i mean 10 years of age difference why would someone as educated as him and cute as him look at soeone like me?so help!! ive been thinking of telling him the truth of my feelings toward him.. would that be a good idea or shall i just hide my feelings? please someone help me right away.. thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2011): ok everybody..but even if i tell him and be honest with him that is wrong? i believe he has the right to know..may be after all i want is for me and him to be good friends..
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reader, auntyR  +, writes (28 November 2011):
you need to keep away from this guy romantically. the age gap is far too big for your age and there is a huge difference between the maturity of a 16 year old and a 26 year old. At your age you should be going out with your mates and having fun, when you get to 26 you want to start to settle down abit and you are not so into partying all the time. Trust me i am a 26 year old! The thought of dating someone your age is just soooo wrong to me. What on earth would you have to talk about, sure you say you get along with him but you hardly know the guy really. You need to just see it as a crush and nothing more and try and find boys your own age.
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reader, maverick494  +, writes (28 November 2011):
10 years at your age is a pretty big age gap, as you've noticed yourself. Also, you don't really know him, so these feelings you have can easily be identified as infatuation. You seem to worship him rather than fancy him on an equal level and this illustrates exactly why it's a bad idea to think about getting together.
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reader, mammaboo +, writes (28 November 2011):
 well im not your age i am much older and have been in your situation.You feel you are womanly enough for him and you feel he will care for you but this is not true. If this guy has not approached you then you must not approach him at all. The reason for him not approaching you is because he feels you are too young for him and it is moraly wrong.If you keep paying him more attention than is necessary he will start to read more into the situation and if he is weak he will give in. If he is not weak he will tell you politly that you are to young for him.If he gives in because you have forced the issue you are asking for trouble,if he approaches you it will be because you have been giving him sighns that this ok.To me it sounds like the guy is minding his own buisness any pretty young girl will catch the eye of a straight male sexually. I think you already know this! My advice is donot act upon what you know you can do because you will get hurt!If he approaches you need to keep really safe and donot talk to him about boyfriends or how you feel or any emotions atall.It would be better if you didn,t talk to him or look at him then he won,t get the wrong idea and you won,t get into trouble.
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