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Does she see me as more than a friend?

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Question - (28 November 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2011)
A male United States age 26-29, *enis49 writes:

Hi, I would really appreciate some feedback.

I've been really good friends with this girl for a while now, I've always known who she was, but in the last couple of months, I've really gotten to know her. We have a couple classes together, so I see her everyday, and we've gone out to lunch before. I really like her, and I have a feeling that she likes me back, but I'm not entirely sure for a couple reasons.

first off, sometimes she is real talker, really open, really fun to talk to, then the next day, she is really short with me, with one word responses. I can live with that, and I can understand why. for example, I asked her to go to lunch, but said that she was going to play euchre with another guy. (I know for a fact that the guy has no idea how to play to this day :p ).

I was able to get her to go to lunch with me, and it was a lot of fun! I did all of the manly things, pay for everything, hold door's, etc. and then i went to work latter that night. about an hour after i got to work, she just happened to be around, and stopped in to get something really insignificant, (I work at a pizza place, and she got a pre-made cookie). I asked her how her euchre thing went, and she said she didn't have it. I texted her l8r

How I interpret it is she first of all, tried to make me jealous by saying she was doing something with another guy, and i think likes me because she came in for something really small like that, knowing i would be there at that time.

This is what I get out of that situation, but I want a second opinion to confirm that i'm not crazy xD, but in all seriousness I want to take it to the "next level" but i'm afraid that if I try, I could ruin our friendship. and If I know in advance that it would ruin it, id rather keep our close friendship.

I appreciate anyone reading through my Spiel, I would love it even more if I could get some feedback!

Thank You!

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (28 November 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntYou have nothing to lose here, it sounds to me like yes she might be interested so just go for it and ask her out, if she says no well am sure after a while you can both be close friends again after a few awkward moments. It does not mean the end of the friendship. So go for it, you have lots to gain. Good luck.

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