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writes:Ok well i REALLY need advice..here it goes.. Him im 13 and i am adicted to watching porn.. Its kinda wrong but i cant stop watching it.. I masterbate to it till i Ejaculate when ever my parent leave to the store i rush to the computer and go on a porn site.. Is this a normal and right thing to do???? Please i need your opinion..
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reader, Anti-crist superstar  +, writes (15 December 2011):
 Hey boy, you know im 15 and i like watching porno.... I masturbate myself everyday.... But sometimes i dont have time because of school and so on.......!!! Watching porno is not a crime, when we are adolescent , we have pulsive hormons.... We can be exited at any times...... Even i watch porno, i have many friends and i have hobbies like pokers with friends, motocross, skateboard ect.... But i like porno on computers n tv..... Im not shy to say it, i use lubricants to masturbate myself n i feel really good...... I can do it all day long......!!!! Its very normal... Sex is the first hobbies for us...... You know sex is good for health......... But apart from masturbation you should have other occupation... OK???? ;) tell what you think about later..... Right??? Bye.....
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (30 November 2011):
 Porn is not for children, it's for adults. We have had sex, we have had life experiences, we understand that what we see in pornography is fantasy. We understand the people are acting, and we also know what things are wrong are abusive. Children are different, you can get the wrong idea about sex, love and relationships if you watch pornography. It can give you the wrong idea about what men and women look like naked. Most people don't act or look like the people in porn.At your age, masturbation is usual. Stop watching the porn, your already abusing it if you have to rush home to watch it. You can get addicted to pornography and then you will have problems relating to people and getting on with life. Same as masturbation.Advice is... stop looking at pornography. Masturbate in privacy, but not too often and not every day. Get out in the world, find friends, find hobbies, go study something, go do some sports. At the moment your too concentrated on sex and at your age, there's so many other things you should be doing. You will pick up bad habits and bad views about sex if you continue and it will cause you problems in later life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2011): They are called adult videos and adult websites for a good reason. They are for adults. And porn has much less effect on adults than on kids whose brains are still developing, with values still forming. Technically, you are 5 years away from being able to legally watch any form of porn whatsoever.
What you're doing has indeed become "normal" (as in commonplace) in a society where all kinds of porn are easily accessible to all ages, 24/7. But is it healthy? I don't see why anyone needs to learn about deviant porno sex so early in life, or why that should be the first sex they see or experience.
You should probably listen to your instincts and keep the porn watching to a minimum. Not saying this will happen to you, but there are now a lot more young guys in their 20s suffering from erectile dysfunction, most likely from overwatching porn as they were growing up.
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reader, confusedfemale92 +, writes (28 November 2011):
I didnt watch a whole lot of porn at thirteen (mostly due to the fact i was scared someone might be able to tell what i was looking up online) But I did masturbate quite a bit! I would say its natural your discovering your sexuality and enjoying it!
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reader, unknown2u +, writes (28 November 2011):
There are two different issues here. The first is masturbation. I didn't have access to porn when I was your age, but I still masturbated they way you describe -- any time I had a bit of time alone, any time my parents went out. I remember overhearing my father say to my mother one time, "every time we come home he's in the bathroom." That just goes with the hormones and isn't a problem.
I would say that the porn part is different. If you're young and have no real world experience, what you see in porn, while a very effective masturbation tool, can really give you a distorted idea about what sex with a real girl in a real relationship is like. Ok, if someone had said that to me I'd have replied, 'I'm never getting a real girl anyway so who cares.' I didn't until I was 16, which when I was 13 was so far into the future that I really just wrote the whole idea off.
But the fact of the matter is that porn isn't a great idea for you. You can probably get off without it, it just takes a bit longer, right? Use your mind, think of things that work for you. That's healthier and will cause you less trouble down the line. Believe me, when you get the chance to be with a real girl, you don't want to be expecting her to do stuff you've seen in porn.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 November 2011):
 You are just exploring your sexuality and wondering about sex and wanting to learn about it. Off course porn is going to turn you on and it is normal to masturbate to it. Just make sure it doesn't effect you and becomes an obsession. It is ok to do it now and again but make sure you don't spend every free minute you have doing this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2011): If its a pattern of behaviours set out and you yourself recognize its addicting- then its not normal and its not the right thing to do.
Understand you are young and hormonal but if its something you dont' wish to do and really feel the need you want to stop, tell your parents, get help.
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