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writes:First off, I'll go ahead and tell you that im only 14. Laugh if you want, but I take this seriously. I was with my boyfriend for 14 months.. Then we broke up, about two weeks ago told me he cant go a day without thinking about me. he knows im still basically.. Obsessed with him. I let him know everyday, so much it probably annoys him. I love him to death... And its all I seriously care about. Even with him not in my life, it still revolves around him. He's dating someone else, but I dont think it's serious.. They're never together, she's really immature.. And of course dont have the history that we do. We still talk to eachother, but I feel as.if he only talks to me because he feels sorry for me. I've tried.moving on, and its been months and it just doesn't work. I cry myself to sleep every night. Do I suck it up and move on? Or stay committed and prove I love him. Btw, he's the ONLY boy I've ever dated, kissed, etc. I honestly love him..
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reader, Shadow Rose +, writes (30 November 2011):
 Honestly, I say move on. Your first kiss is almost never the guy you marry anyways. You are young, and if you stay single in hopes of getting him back, you'll miss out on other opportunities.
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reader, synchrohobbit +, writes (30 November 2011):
 First of all, this post is more mature than some of the ones by people 30+, both in terms of your thought processes and your grasp of the English language. If he is dating another girl and telling you he thinks about you all the time, he is essentially stringing both of you along so he always has someone. This is exactly the advice you don't want, but I don't think this is a healthy thing to continue pursuing. Because it sounds like this is actually interfering with your life I would strongly recommend talking to a school counselor, or a professional psychologist if you can bring your parents in on it. Hopefully a good network of supportive friends can also help you move on.
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