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I found her again...on campus! What's my next step?

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Question - (25 November 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 November 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *MTinG writes:

I'm currently at University at the moment. Just walking around the campus on my way home with my friend, I saw this radiant girl i remember talking to at a club about a week ago but i was so star struck by her i forgot to ask for her name/number or if she'd like to see me again.

I saw her again today from a distance and i got that same feeling in my chest again. What made it worse was i was with my friend so i was scared of going up to her in case she rejected me and having my friend witness the whole thing...

Basically what do i do if i see her again? I hardly really get this feeling with other girls, its usually just checking them out, but with her its like i want to get to know her but i've missed 2 great opportunities. The campus is so big, the probability of seeing her again could be weeks.

I don't want to start facebook seacrching every girl until i find her because that's just sad (I dont even know her name :/ ) All i know is that she has an amazing tattoo on the back of her neck which she showed me.

Should i give up and get on with life and hope i see her again? Or should i go searching around campus? What if she has a boyfriend after i actually see her again :S

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A female reader, AuntDaisy United Kingdom +, writes (25 November 2011):

AuntDaisy agony auntWe are talking about a girl you've seen twice and you don't even know her name. It may turn out that she's your soulmate and you get married and have a lovely family...but for now, just relax! If you see her you see her, get her name andjust start a conversation. If you need an ice breaker mention the tattoo and ask how the night went for her :) You won't get anywhere if you don't try! Just wait until you see her again, don't go searching though endless photo's on facebook, if you see her go up to her and talk to her. The worst she can say is no.

Good luck!!

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A female reader, Starlights United Kingdom +, writes (25 November 2011):

Starlights agony auntI think if i was you i'd try and forget about it until you finally see her again.

There is a chance you will see her around so dont give up hope!

When you do, exchange numbers and get to know her as a friend first and see how it develops and where you stand.

Hope this helps!

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