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Archived questions from: July, 2011 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

I like the idea of a boyfriend but I don't like pressure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - i'd like a boyfriend and when i think about having one i think it'd be great, but then when i'm around a boy that likes me ... things change and i feel like i'm being pressured into things. i've never been pressured into anything but i don't ...

His friend likes me but I don't like him...is that holding him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - So in my acting class there is a boy I like named tyler, he is tall and blond, charismatic, gorgeous, but he is white and im black!! Sometimes but very few times I have caught him looking at me and when I give him big smiles he smiles back! ...

I think my only friend (who is a guy) may like me. How can I be sure and what should I do if he does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Hello x well basically i have a bit of dilemma. I only have one friend and i'm starting to get abit of a feeling he may fancy me a bit. He is the only friend i have and i've known since before i can remember. I recently lost all my friends and ...

Bf doesn't like me talking to other guys. Is he right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 1 month. We've fought a lot about so many things. Our first year together, I had this one best friend that was a guy and my boyfriend told me to stop talking, so I did. A month later I talked to ...

He's ignored me for two weeks. How can I keep his interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - okay so there's this guy he's not the player type. He is usually so sweet to me and we used to talk and text all the time. He recently asked me to go to town with him, just us two, and after we went back to his house. We spent the whole day together ...

Is he leading me on? I really thought he liked me but I'm not so sure now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4894 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - I honestly thought this guy liked me. He really doesn't like affection, but doesn't mind when I show him affection, and shows me much more affection than I've ever seen him show to anybody else. He flirts with me a lot. He compliments me a lot and ...

Suggestions! what can we do when she comes over so I don't bore her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - Hello everybody. I've come to this site seeking some suggestions and maybe even some tips? My situation is this: I've been texting one of my friends back and forth and while doing so, we've gotten a bit close and I learned how she really acts ...

I've got a grudge holding problem, how can I fix it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - I'm 15, and I have a huge grudge holding problem. I can't help it! I know its wrong and immature, but once i get them, they never go away. I've been told countless times just to let it go but I can't. I feel like I'm "punishing" them for what they ...

I am really hope we are not drifting apart...what should I do?

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29 July 2011 (F) - I know i sound paranoid but..., its summer break and i miss the guy im with, we haven't been speaking as often,n i guess its because its summer break and hes got a guest at home but still... i just hope we're not drifting apart... hes also my best ...

What does this dream mean? I'm scared to sleep in case it happens again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hello everyone. Last night when I went to sleep, no dream no nothing, and this morning I wake up, and i got out for a bit, theb went back to bed rough two hours later. I had felt it was needed. Then about an hour later, I'm waking up screaming and ...

Love triangle with my two best friends.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - I have two best friends. One's a girl, let's call her Mary, and ones a boy, let's call him Jack. Well Jack is dating Mary and what she doesn't know is is that I love him.. And That he loves me too. A couple weeks ago I told him I loved him and to my ...

Should I keep waiting for my ex girlfriend to come around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - im just a guy, pretty confuzed about this situation. i knew this girl for 4 years, as soon as we met we became best friends for a year, then decided to date which lasted 2 years. we broke up because another girl who was jealous of our relationship ...

Dating tips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - How can I find a girl I really like? I've been really depressed lately and haven't been talking to many girls because I always get lead on. Tips?...

Our families will never approve of our relationship but we cant live without each other! What should we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - I am a bengali brahmin and my bf is marwari. I am a student preparing for medical and belong to middle class family. N, my bf (two years older than me) has passed b.com with quite good marks. He has 5 jewellery shops of his own and has quite high ...

Any advice on this situation? because I can't stop these tears from falling, but this isn't the first time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi. Well my boyfriend, who's my ex now, has been treating me terribly. We've been through so much, well i've been through so much with him 'til it doesn't matter what he do, i'll take him back. He has been caught cheating numerous of times, 5 times ...

Is it normal that I bleed a little?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - Hi, i have a little question. Im a virgin but have been finered about twice by my boyfriend. After he fingered me today, i went to the toilet and noticed blood on my knickers. Is that normal? I am due my period in a few days however i dont think its ...

I am finding it so difficult to move on....do I stand a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 July 2011 (M) - I'm extremely depressed right now. To introduce myself, i'm a 17-year old gay man who has been in love with my ex-best friend till now. I have liked a number of guys in my life before, and none had worked out (They either found out and started ...

How do I get over my fear of getting hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 July 2011 (?) - Hi! I really like this boy and he likes me. But he's kind of a player.. and we live pretty far from each other. Um, i'm not afraid to love but i'm afraid to get hurt. I mean, he says i'm amazing and stuff but i'm so afraid that next week or ...

Whats the problem......why don't I want to have sex? Do I not love him? Am I not attracted to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - ive been going out with my boyfriend for 11 months and im a virgin and hes not. im 16 hes 18 (hes not pushy At ALL) im afraid because for some reason early this month i wasnt sure how i felt about him..i was feeling that i maybe should be his friend ...

Both me and my crush are shy, what's the best approach to take?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Hello :) Basically I really like this guy, but he's SO shy. I'm pretty shy too, but i like him so much that I've tried to just sort of go for it. I've dropped some hints so I'm sure he knows i like him, but I think he's too shy to make the first ...

Just curious, why do parents put their kids into honors classes they aren't ready for?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - I'm an incoming freshman who attends public school. Its a good school, but not the best. Its just a regular school but has alot of very intelligent people. Anyway, earlier this year course selection. You teachers would write down our reccomended ...

Should I come out and be honest about my sexuality?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - okayy im 14 and definitely a lesbian , have know for years , and the other day the pressure of it all was too much because i told my friedns about it but felt like i needed and adult to talk to it about ,not my family though coz i dont want them to ...

Will he catch my genital warts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Hi me in my boyfriend had sex twice with condoms. And I have genital warts. Will he catch it, even though we use condoms ?...

Any advice on masturbating without direct touch?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Heyy, I've recently started masturbating and I love it! I've been using a vibrating massager which I put on my knickers. I prefer doing this than touching my vagina with my fingers. Is there any other ways I can masturbate without touching my vagina ...

All he can ever say to me is "I wish I loved you"! Why cant he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Hey. I'd like help from guys around 17 but ayone would be a read great help right now. Im popular,funny,confident,outgoing but most guys will just call me ''fine''. ok why is it that out of the 2 out of the 6 bestlooking guys in my school wanted me, ...

Is it legal to date an ex teacher?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Is it legal? Some close teachers, were aware I had feelings for this teacher. and they were actually okay with it! He never taught me. And yes, mostly everyone has agreed he feels the same. Question is, would he be in trouble with the law? T...

Is it ok for 17 y/o to date a 15 /yo??

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27 July 2011 (F) - Is it ok for a 17 year old (like me ) to date a guy whos almost 15?......

Does he like me or am I getting tricked?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - A really popular guy is always saying hi to me and asking me how I am and he asked me if I wanted to do something with him when my friend left. He's got some friends who are super-popular and i'm a nerd. Is it possible he likes a nerd or is he ...

Lack of intimacy with my boyfriend is really hurting....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I'm a very physical person, he's not. that presents a problem. He will not have sex with me for a variety of excuses, the most commonly used one is he's afraid to get me pregnant (I'm on...

I want to quit masturbating!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - I find it hard to quit masturbating I do it daily and I mean I just dont want to do it anymore. does anyone have any advice for that, other than just dont do it? because trust me I tried to quit cold turkey but it didnt work. please help...

Do emo boys go for non-emo girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - I'm not emo and find some emo boys attractive. Do you think straight emo guys would go for a non-emo girl?...

I'm a VIRGIN and I don't deny it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Hello there! Ok I seem to be so confused! Im in highschool and in the words of other people im ''a trip, funny, popular, cute, pretty, fine ,curvy, athletic, confident, independent, smart, loyal'' i was even nominated most outgoing and most ...

I don't want my parents to know I lied to them about my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Okay, so I broke up with my ex a few months ago. We'd been on and off since fourth grade, and i still like him Some people told me he was spreading rumors about me, but he said otherwise. I was upset, and didnt want to break up with him just because ...

Is it weird that my friends and family think my girlfriend is perfect, but I don't?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - ok, so my everyone thinks my girlfriend is perfect. they all think she is smart,funny,nice and beautiful, the problem is i'm not so sure. i find a lot of the things she does annoying, i mean sometime i really think i like her, but other times im not ...

I am starved for in depth conversations?

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27 July 2011 (F) - I really like my boyfriend. Physically, we have good chemistry. But conversation wise, I cannot get him to talk extensively. He is so quiet, I have to drag conversations out of him everytime I feel like discussing something.And the problem is, Im ...

My bestfriend's brother is texting me. I don't want to reply and risk losing my friend. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - okay so i have had the same best friend for 6 years and we are always together which means im mostly over her house, she has an older brother and we fight all the time, some say like a married couple, but she has said that she doesnt have friends ...

We are a really close group of friends but lately I have slowly been kicked out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - my friends phone just rang me in her pocket and i answered and could hear all my friends at a sleep over with out me and i could hear them bitching about me being a bitch and a slag... i text them to say i had heard all this and im not answering ...

How can I make a move on this guy I like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

26 July 2011 (M) - Hi people I'm a 17-year-old guy leaving school next summer. I haven't kissed a girl in ages, and I don't really want to any more. There's a new boy that joined my school a few months ago who's cute, gorgeous and really hot, and I can't stop fan...

How can I stop my 13-year-old brother from starting to have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - I need some advice on what to tell my brother. He is thirteen and i have recently discovered that is thinking about having sex. His mates are apparently doing it and I've told him i am sickened by this and all the other usual blah like you're ...

Could my attraction to women be a passing thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - Hey. Okay lately i've been finding myself attracted to women. When i watch women porn it seems to turn me on. I've been hurt real bad by my ex boyfriends in the past and i just got this feeling of dating a woman. But they say a woman can hurt you ...

I really can't stand her ex being in her life...am I being difficult?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

26 July 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is still hanging around her ex and it really hurts, but I don't want to resort to leaving her, because I do love her and believe that she loves me too. What should I do about this? You see, me and my girl are in a long distance...

It's my boyfriend's birthday in a month. Any hints on what to get him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - I'm a 16 year old girl and have been dating my boyfriend for a couple of weeks now - its his birthday in a month and I have no idea what to get him. Any hints would be great!...

He is back in touch with the girl he cheated on his last girlfriend with, what do I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - Hi i've been in this relationship for 10 months now and everything was going good at the start but he's changed and started to show his true colours... here is the twist he's been in care for 12 years and has been abused by everyone in his ...

How do I make it clear that I want him to take my virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - I have the most lovely boyfriend and we have been dating for a while now. We can get a bit frisky when we are alone and I know that we work together. The thing is that I would like to move it to the next level and would like to do "the deed". The ...

How do I moderate my behaviour and be a good girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - Sorry for any rambling but here is a quick low down of my situation. Basically,I have a boyfriend who is kind, sweet, ect. ect. I am not in love with him and doubt I ever will be but we are really close and I genuinely like him a lot and he knows...

What can I do to make the situation with my friends better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - at school i have about 6 friends, i get along fine with all of them, but recently they're starting to get kind of annoying. its like im starting so see the bad side of them and its coming more and more obvious as time goes by. there are way to m...

I get the feeling a boy is going to ask me out soon and I cant stop looking up questions about dating! Why do I feel this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4898 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - Okay well ive never had a boyfriend and i get this crazy felling that a guy is going to ask me out and it makes me look up questions like; how to be a girlfriend? what do boys look for in a girl? how to make out? how to kiss and more.... but its ...

He would rather party with his idiot friends than see me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - I'm having troubles with my boyfriend of 2 months. I'm 16, he's 17. He's pretty popular at his school and drinks, smokes and parties nearly every night. I'm not as social as I use to be about a year ago due to switching to a small private school ...

All the signs are there...so do you think he likes me?

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25 July 2011 (F) - Im not sure weather this guy likes me. He was bugging me since friday to come out on saturday and i didnt so he bugged me to come out sunday, so i did with my friend who i always go out with when we see them. He doesnt have my friends number but he ...

Should we still just be fooling around at 7 months or should we be taking it to the next level ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - I've been messing with my guy bestfriend for a while now, about 7 months. We normally text everyday, from the time we wake up til the time we go to sleep. (Normally he falls alseep first so in the morning he responds to the text from me the previous ...