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writes: Hi! I really like this boy and he likes me. But he's kind of a player.. and we live pretty far from each other. Um, i'm not afraid to love but i'm afraid to get hurt. I mean, he says i'm amazing and stuff but i'm so afraid that next week or maybe a week after that, he'll have a new girl.I'm so afraid to feel the pain. if he breaks my heart. What do i do to not push him away and trust him ? and how do i get over my fear ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2011): You get over your fear of being hurt by not dating a player. Unfortunately for you OP you will not get over that fear with this guy because deep down inside your gut is telling you will be hurt. Which you will be if you continue to play his game.
There is nothing you can do but somehow make yourself completely ignorant to the danger he poses. That fear you feel is your brain and heart telling you he's bad news, no matter how hard you try you won't be able to stop that. Those are your bodies way of trying to protect you. Ignore those warning bells at your own peril.
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