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writes:Hi people I'm a 17-year-old guy leaving school next summer. I haven't kissed a girl in ages, and I don't really want to any more. There's a new boy that joined my school a few months ago who's cute, gorgeous and really hot, and I can't stop fantasising about him. I've tried to fight these feelings, but they just keep getting stronger all the time. Before the holidays started we were sitting next to one another in some classes and we get on very well, lots of eye contact but I've no way of knowing whether he feels the same. I see him around the shops sometimes and he always smiles. I'm dying to make a move, but I'm terrified of what could happen if it goes wrong. Any thoughts or suggestions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2011): You shouldn't let him get away if there's a chance he's gay. I say you go for it. If he isn't interested, there's nothing you can do about it, and if he goes for it, then WOW! At least isn't that better than not knowing and letting your chance slip away?
Just don't take it to heart if he turns out straight, and (obviously) don't make your move anywhere you can be seen by prying eyes.
Good luck, hope u have fun
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2011): dude! go for it, try it on with him because if he is this amazing guy you make him out to be yet he still rejects a kiss or what ever he will still suppport and accept you as a person. If how ever he gos totally the wrong way about it then hes not a person worth knowing! go out there and find, you will never know until you try! i was in the same position last year in school, i was bi-curious and foun one hot guy! he made eye contact and smiles at me and we were close. i made a move turns out hes straight and disowned me D: The next week at school he diecided he wanted to tell everyone and make me look like a fool, it back fired because everyone was by my side supporting me and now in school hes a loser who everyone hates for being spiteful. Everything has worked out for me great and because i wasnt ojt t the time i suddenly had girls wantin to be my friends and they're great! go get him tiger ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2011): man if you don't try you'll never know the answer ...if you keep it inside you'll regret you'll feel such a pain ..do you want to see him getting spoiled by an other one? how you'll feel then ...just do it who knows what the futur may hold ...some one i know always says this to me "SHOW YOUR FEELINGS TO PEOPLE TO DAY CUZ YOU DON'T KNOW IF YOU CAN SEE THEM TOMOROW"....so pull your self together and go for it ...best of luck
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reader, TheSouthParkGirl  +, writes (27 July 2011):
 I think firstly you need to ascertain whether he is actually gay or not. I would try saying hello next time you see him and extend the conversations each time from there; when you know him reasonably well (while trying not to get "friend-zoned") you can either mention that your into guys and see how he responds, or add him on Facebook assuming you're on there which will probably tell you something, If he is gay/bisexual you can go from there... hopefully if you've done all these things you will know him well enough to get an idea of whether he likes you. If not, I'm not sure there's much you can do.
If it goes "wrong," I think all you can do is accept he probably wasn't right for you and try to move on.
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reader, Emily Ophelia  +, writes (26 July 2011):
Hey you,
do you get along with him? Because maybe it could be worth a try to just meet up and I don't know, talk, play some football, what ever you like. You could get to know him, maybe show him a little more of your feelings and you can try to find out if he likes you back. I guess the most important thing is to act slowly because if you notices it goes badly you can just pretend that it was a nice meet up with a friend and it won't look suspicious.
Hope this might give you an idea! :)
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