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writes:Hey. Okay lately i've been finding myself attracted to women. When i watch women porn it seems to turn me on. I've been hurt real bad by my ex boyfriends in the past and i just got this feeling of dating a woman. But they say a woman can hurt you 10x worse than a man. But i'm trying to figure out if this is just a moment thing or am i really attracted to women,
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (26 July 2011):
 If you ever fall in love with a woman, only then do you know that you are bisexual. Until then you can call yourself bicurious, if you need a label.
Sexuality as such is always a passing thing. Some times you stick to the same thing for years, and then you change, sometimes it last a life time, some time it lasts but a moment.
I fell in love with girls in my teenage years, I still feel an attraction towards women, but it's grown to less than when I was a teenager. Things change, and you aren't set in stone, your sexuality may fluctuate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2011): Most people are not completely hetrosexual, so getting turned on by lesbian porn isn't weird at all. It sounds like you've been through a hard time lately, so maybe you just need a bit of time to have fun and do what you want - you don't have to get into a serious relationship with a woman. You're subconsious might be telling you its time to do something a bit more wild than you've dared to do in the past. Just go for it, and if it turns out you do get into a relationship with a woman, does it matter? As the person below says, people are people and attraction is attraction, despite gender. Don't worry so much and just go with what you feel :)
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