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Archived questions from: 26 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

What happens when frenulum breaks during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I have frenulum breve and I am a virgin. I am concerned of what happens when the frenulum breaks during sex. I mean i want to know from people that actually happened to them and as many details as possible because i am kinda scared of what will ...

What "season" am I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - What season am I, so to speak? I think this has to do with looks but i'm not sure... just curious i have long, wavy, medium brown hair with a reddish tinge dark brown eyes very pale skin (pink undertones) ummm... need i include anything else...

Why is he behaving like this? Does he still care?

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26 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend of 1year and 2months, broke up nearly six months ago now, but have remained friends since. His reasons for the breakup were that he wanted to concentrate on himself(his family, studies etc). For many of the...

Does he really only want to be friends or does he just want time to do his own thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend broke up nearly six months ago now, but have remained friends since. His reasons for the breakup were that he wanted to concentrate on himself(his family, studies etc). For many of these months i was const...

I don't know if he ever really loved me which sucks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Hi so there is so much going on in my life know first of all i had a boyfriend and he was my first one but we live together and I told my ex best friend and she told him and he denyed it and broke up with me this has happened 3 times and he has ...

I need your help guys... How do I make the first move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I started seeing a boys in July and he asked me out in November. The long and short of it is we're both really shy and even though I know he likes me and he knows I like him we're finding it hard to make the first mood. Gawd knows how Im gonna do ...

He sexually harrasses me, how do I get him to stop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - there is this guy at school, he is my friend (or at least he used to be) i am not sure if i consider him a friend anymore because all he ever does is sexually harrasse me! he is always trying to get me to either sleep with him, give him oral, or ...

He told some foreign girl online that he was single--leave him or dismiss it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I've been going out with this guy for about 3 weeks now, and I was friends with him for about a month before that. Anyway, like it or not, a standard protocol of mine when I am with a guy is to, after a few weeks, go into my bogus myspace ac...

We fight all the time and treat each other bad..what to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - we love each other. and we both know it. but we fight ALL the time. like seriously, it's one thing after another. it's mostly cuz of him though. and i just can't take it anymore. he stresses me out so much and makes me feel like crap all the time. ...

My b/f needs to be shocked into going on a diet. How do I do that?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Well people may seem this as mean but i really need advice on this. One of my best friends is abit over weight by that i mean she is 13 and a size 12 or 14 in adults. I never saw that as a problem she is still a great friend it never changed ...

I suspect my b/f of cheating. How do I talk to him about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I need help urgently!! I have been with my boyfriend now for over 2 years. I suspect him of cheating and we going to sort it out tomorrow evening after work etc... He had denied it all and my reason for suspecting him is I know him better than ...

Do guys like petite girls?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Do guys like petite girls? Do they think their smallness is cute and delicate? Or does it creep guys out (especially older guys) that they're small like children?...

Can you get gum disease by kissing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Iv heard that you can catch gum disease from people who have it through kissing and such, true or false? Slightly concerned as my boyfriend has some form of full blown gum disease, he's lost a majority of his teeth and everything, also its not from ...

How do I get rid of my reputation from the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Hey Well this mey be kind of long but this is more something i need 2 get off my chest rather than a qustion. When i was younger i used to be quite popular in my class at school, but i have a older sister and she was always coming top in cla...

How do I break it to my family that my uncles b/f & I are in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - hi im 18 and i like to do things that normal 18 year olds do, i love anging out with my friends, going to college, and partying, theres just one difference, recently i have started a relationship with a 36 year old man, ive grown up with him as my ...

Why do some guys like short hair on girls? Isn't it a bit boyish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - No offense because I think can be cute, but why do some guys like when a girl's hair is short. isn't it a bit boyish? i just don't really get getting turned on by someone with less or around the same hair as you... but i'm just speaking about ...

Its been 4 months and I still think of him every day

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Okay, this is my first post on this site! I really need some advice though. In about June last year, i started seeing this guy exclusively, we weren't officially "going out" but i think that's because he's 2 years older than me (i'm 15, he's 17) and ...

GUYS: does nipple size and colour really matter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Ok guys. This is a pretty weird question but I've heard a lot of stuff recently that has made me question; do guys actually care about the size of a girls nipples? Ive heard some guys make fun of ''burger nips'' and just generally poking fun at th...

I'm just curious.... but could he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Could a 10th grade boy like a 13 years old (7th grade) girl? Just curious. Whenever he sees me he looks in a very cute way at me and always smiles at me. I'm tall, pretty and I usually seem a happy and friendly person. He sometimes looks at my ...

I love her but I feel she still loves him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - I really like this girl. And before she liked me. I was too shy and she got with this other guy for a while but now they have broken up and I have plucked up the courage to speak to her and call her. Things were going okay. She dropped hints but now ...

Is it ever too late to try ballet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Hey - I've always been fascinated by ballet and always wanted to give it a shot but never have. I'm finally now in a position to try but the thing is, I'm 19 and not a little girl any more - is it ever too late to try ballet?...

I am hoping to god my period comes soon, as I'm getting increasingly worried.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Hi. I recently "fooled around" with my fiance. He came on my breasts, and it ran down onto my legs. I was very worried, so within the hour I had taken the morning after pill. Now, I am also on the contraceptive pill, and I was on my week break, ...

How can I get rid of my lisp?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I'm 15 years old and I've had a lisp since I can remember. Does anyone know if there is ANYTHING I can do to get rid of it? I get called for it at school, it makes me feel so outside from everyone and I hate meeting and talking to new people. ...

Should I just take it in my stride and be happy or try to change the impossible?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I've been exclusively dating this man for over a year and although mostly a happy relationship, we seem to bump heads a lot. I'm 19 (turning 20 this year) and he's 20 (turning 21) so there isn't much of an age gap, yet somehow, he seems to be the i...

Why do so many men like big butts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I know that a lot of guys like big boobs because that means that the woman has a lot of milk to feed their offspring, from a biological point of view. But why do so many guys like big butts? And I don't mean, like HUGE but they seem to like the ...

Am I a bad person for losing my virginity while drunk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - i've been talking to this guy for about a month now, but i've known him for years. he is a really nice guy and i like him. but this past weekend my friend had a party, so i invited him. we both had had a lot to drink, and we ended up in her parents ...

What would you do if your boyfriend kissed his ex on christmas day??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - What would you do if your boyfriend kissed his ex on christmas day?? I've only just found out am am very upset. I've been with him for four months five months on the 19th of febuary. I got told that he had done something with another girl so I ask...

I see my self in a mirror and I start thinking that I'm ugly...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Hi, this is the first time I have posted on here, but I have been hanging around for a while now and I like the advice and help given. I'm 14 years old and when ever I'm doing anything, or even just doing nothing for that matter I don't care about...

Help! sexuality, love and confusion from a 15 year old girl. Save me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - So... I'm 15. I find it hard to see what there is special in a relationship other than touching one another. I really dont understand what the difference between love and like is. Because i love my friends, and i could love someone im in a rel...

Protected sex but fear of pregnancy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - So my girlfriend and I had sex about a week ago and again 3 nights ago. Both times I used a condom and 100% sure that I never came. But she's worried that she might be pregnant because she just went ill, she has sore breasts, and her period is late. ...

Should I lose my virginity to my friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Should I lose my virginity to my friend? I'm 19 and I feel it's about time, but I've never been in a relationship loving enough to want to. I kind of want to get it over and done with so its not a big deal any more. And I feel really comfortable ...

Have I ruined the best thing that I've ever had in my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I don't really understand this situation. I started talking to this guy online. We use to talk 3 years ago but stopped when he went into the army. We started talking again after New year i;m 18 he's 24 and he was really into me, gave me his numb...

Should I go for the ladies' man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Should I go for the ladies' man? Me and my friend are really close. We almost kissed- the whole 80-20 thing, but I didn't lean in. He's a player, he's cheated on every girlfriend he's ever had. We're compatible and we both know it, but...

We're friends, but I had silent, stronger feelings, she now has a boyfriend, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - I have this friend, we know each other for a year, and let's just say that our relationship has been very good. We're friends, sometimes the weird flirting thing would happen, even though we've never tried going out before, and well... I thought I ...

I still care for this guy, but want to get over him, any good advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I was with my ex for almost six months on and off and he was my first. He broke up with me because of commitment issues and said he really needed to concentrate on getting into law school. He insisted that we still remain friends and kept saying ...

First my period is late, then it comes, then it stops, what is the problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - i have a question ; in few weeks i thought im pregnant cuz i didn't get my period for 15 days but then now i get my period but it stop it what is that mean that i have a bby in my tummy but its dead or something wrong with me cuz this mornign i have ...

Two weeks, no contact, he says he likes me, should I be patient?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

26 January 2009 (?) - Ok this is a kinda long story so ima try to make it short.. Ok so I met this guy last year(he is now 22 and I am 18) and he asked for my number and he would call me almost everyday, but we lost touch until his cousin contacted my friend and they ...

Guys: Is the first thing you notice about a girl REALLY the size of her chest?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - So, I'm in high school, and I've come to notice a trend in guys' behavior. (well the ones I'm around at least) They always stare at your chest. There's one guy, when asked if he knew me, said, "Oh yeah, she has really big boobs." Swear to God. My ...

Controlling g/f of my friend is threatening our friendship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - my friend is making a big mistake!!! he is 19, and in pre-med school. His stupid girlfriend is a controling phycopath (i dont care abour spelling) she thinks she can control where he works, who he talks to, who he hangs out with, when they can hang ...

Girls and sexual relationships.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I have been wondering in what ways do girls change when they start having sexual relationships? For example does your period stay the same or it changes completely? or your body do you actually get thicker? or your mood does it change? or in any ...

Oral sex question

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Hi I really need help on this. I am not very experienced and I just gave oral sex for the first time, he begged me for it. I dont know if I was doing a good job and only did it for about a couple minutes before he came. I asked him how it was and he ...

What colors/styles /perfumes do guys like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Are there any specific hairsyles, clothing colors, scents, etc. that guys (in general like). i've heard they like vanilla and pink (but i don't wear pink) because they make them think of love or some crapola like that... any idea?...

Two guys--not sure which one is real

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - i am 15 years old i've never had a boyfriend everr only 4 people know that the rest of them i lie to.i like these two guys and i dont know who to pick.i'm really shy but when u get to know me i'm really outgoing,and funny 1) his really shy and h...

First kiss is so confusing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - hi im 13 but really like this boy at school i think he likes me like he'll always smile look away then smile again but i dont know if he likes me or not and if he does i dont want to ask him out cos i dont know what other people will think and that ...

Family fighting over what to name our dog!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - so this question may seem a bit wierd but my family keeps fighting and its really annoying, especially when this is supposed to be a positive experience. okay so im 14 and my family (me, my sis, my dad and my mom) are about to get a new black lab ...

Two guys like me and I can't choose.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is a great guy, even though we haven't known each other for that long our realationship is going good; but now my boy bff is telling me he likes me and that I'm beautiful and stuff. So now I'm starting to like him back, but my ...