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Archived questions from: 14 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Why is my boyfriend doing this? Please help me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Me and my BF got into an argument.. he got really angry and started saying horrible things to me.. he said I am always whining and..(f*king about with other guys).. he said I am not having sex with him so someone else must be getting since he ain't ...

Looking for a light at the end of the tunnel...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I've been single for a while now and I'm quite sick of people flaunting their boyfriends around in front of me. I'm fine with being by myself. I love who I am and don't have a care in the world, but my friends are so annoying when that's all they ...

Is love enough...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Is love enough? I had been waiting to go out with this guy for ages, he was my best friend! but recently we seem to have nothing to talk about, we used to be on IM and the phone all the time talking , but recently we don't talk and when we do t...

I'm going crazy thinking about her, and want to call her, but I don't want to invade her privacy, because I know she wants space

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - Basically they broke up but she's still not over him they never had closure in their realtionship, now I have jumped in the picture and she really does like me and wants it to work out, but now she realizes she catn ignore the lover of her ex, and ...

I constantly want to be with him and talking to him when before I would get sick of him and feel smothered...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - So me and this guy have been dating on and off since may of 08. We have dated a total of 3 times, once in mmay, once in september and we are dating now. Both times i was the one to break things off and for different rteason each time. The first time ...

If I happen to see him there should I say anything to him?, and what if I'm his intern?, how should I act?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - So I feel really dumb writing this but here goes, I used to have this massive teacher crush. I actually think I loved him, and we had this unspoken bond. My friends used to tell me that they saw him staring at me. We couldn't even say each others ...

How can I build a friendly relationship with him without seeming like I'm flirting with him?

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14 January 2009 (F) - I'm attracted to this guy who has a girlfriend, but I'm all right with simply being friends. How can I build a friendly relationship with him without seeming like I'm flirting with him of whatever?...

Her period isn't due for another 5 days, can she be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - Hi, Me and my girlfriend had sex for the first time on Saturday. We used a condom and were really safe. I did'nt even cum. Now my girlfriend has cramps and her period is'nt due for another 5 days. Can she be pregnant?...

I always text him first, does he like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Hello, okay..theres this guy...liked him for agggges, and Im pretty sure he might know (i may have drunk txt him a few times-not admitting it, but surely he'd question why i was texting him?) and also..when we text...its always me that texts hi...

Why am I always falling for "taken" guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Why is it that the guys I like either already have girlfriends or get them as soon as I realise I like them? Is there something wrong with me?...

I need an attack plan for this break

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - My and girlfriend are on a break, how do i give her space? SO basically she really wants to be with me and likes me but right now she didnt get over her ex before we initated this realtionship so right now she said she catn get over him because ...

Moving on after teenage heartbreak

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i weren't together for long, but i cared for him deeply.i was naive to the fact that he had played girls before, and he said the sweetest things. i noticed a couple of days after we began dating that he was becoming uncomfo...

Can we make it work when we can't see each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a good 5 months now. Recently he got kicked out of the house by the lady he was staying with which was supposed to be his mother that took him in to help him make a better life. Well being that his real ...

He's sweet but sucks in bed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for the last few months and we started having a sex just before Christmas. He is a really sweet guy and I get on with him so well. But there's a but. He's crap in bed, and I mean that in the nicest possible way, but its ...

Is it wrong that I like to "tease" guys?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I don't really like to hook up with boys any more but I like to have fun and the attention they give me. At parties, I dance and flirt with guys all the time and they think they will have sex with me but I don't even give them a kiss. Is it wrong to ...

Activity day...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Hi guys (: I was just wondering what kind of activity days you could think of for my boyfriend for our year anniversary? Thanks in advance (: x...

If you stop masturbating for too long can it hurt you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Well Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months and I am sick of always having sex with him, sometimes if were just laying there watching a movie its all he can think about and I don't wanna be mean and then I feel bad when I say no so ...

Do I tell him? I cheated 6 months ago!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years on and off. i'm 18.the thing is...i cheated on him about 6 months ago when on holiday. and really dont know whether to tell him. it wont happen again for sure, im not sure why i did it to be honest because ...

How do I scare him-I'm NOT a doormat!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - in the time that i've been with my boyfriend which is nine months, he's cheated on me three times (only kissing) twice with the same girl, i've forgiven him obviously, not easily but he's still gone and done it again, he doean't think about the ...

Is love enough if you're opposing magnets?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

Not sure what these feelings mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I'm 16 and I'm confused. I've dated a few guys but never felt an actual attraction to any of them. I tried dating a girl once and I thought I felt something, but I just figured that it was more the desire to be with someone than an actual attraction ...

B/f still good friends with his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - im so confused and dont know what to do... my boyfriend is still friends with his ex and this is killing me and affecting our relationship. i started dateing my boyfriend 6 months ago, and its the first serious relationship iv had. whe...

What to do now. Where do I go from here.......???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5821 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend for a year and a half had a great relationship. We had dated most of our junior year and all our senior year in high school. We had talked about splitting up only because we were going to our respective colleges and we thought ...

I don't want to hurt one girl and the other not talk to me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - Hey, I recently met these two girls Sam and Sky, when we first met I hit it off with Sam really well but now when the 3 of us are together I get mixed signals. One minute Sam is flirting with me and the next day Sky is, I'm 16 and get really ...

How can I get what I want even though I'm clueless and guys don't have the you know what to come and talk to me themselves?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I don't get it. All my friends say that guys are always staring at me and that some say I'm pretty and what not. Yet, I'm single. Not that I'm desperate to have a boyfriend but it comes to the point that you envy those who have the relationship you ...

I've had this on-again off-again physical relationship with this guy since I first met him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I've had this on-again off-again physical relationship with this guy since I first met him at the beginning of the fall semester. It's a friends with benefits sort of situation. He's gotten a steady girlfriend during the time we've been together and ...

I just hate single life and I want to get over my ex as soon as possible...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I have a bit of a dilemma on my hands...and it has everything to do with my heart and mind. My ex and I broke up just over a month ago after a two year relationship and I still feel so angry and hurt about what he did (he cheated on me). I'm ...

I have doubts about my g/f

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5821 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - i'v been with this girl for 3months yesterday but yet i still seem to have doubts about her i always feel like she lies to me even tho she says she dosnt i love her i think and i dont want to get hurt but most the time i have to ring her i...

Mixed signals after the first date

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Hello everyone! I've been best friends with this guy for a little over a year now and the moment I saw him, I knew he was the one. We started talking in class and then eventually online and the phone. Then we started hanging out more and more. It ...

When I go pee goop comes out

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Alright so on September 25th, 2008 i had sex with one of my friends. He had a girlfriend and we still had sex anyway. ( i now dumb move, dont tell me about it.) he wanted to have sex with me because he was a virgin and so was i and he didnt want to ...

Caught between duty and heart

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Ah the drama... The unavoidable drama. I've been best friends with this guy sense kindergarden. we moved apart for a while and finally came in contact last year. now i haven't been datting anyone for a while because im waiting for a VERY gentlema...

I'm attracted to a guy who has a g/f

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I'm attracted to this guy, but he's currently off-limits (ie has a girlfriend). what can i do? can i start building any kind of a relationship now? please help!...

Period now late by 10 days

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Im going to ask a question about pregnacy again; i really need help well its been almost 3 weeks since i been done sex we used a condom tho but still and i suppose to have my period few days ago and i missed it already for 10 days and im really ...

He lost it during oral

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for about three months now. We haven't had sex yet but we've fooled around and stuff. He's given me oral and i do him, every time i've given him head he has always ejaculated. So anyway the other night, we were fooling ...

When people have relationships in their 20's do they last?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - i saw my cousin over the weekend (he's 24 or 26 or something) and his girlfriend is about the same age. she's a tad annoying, but nice, and he seems to like her. anyway, when people in their 20s form relationships do they usually last? any advice...

I asked my b/f for naked photo, he sent and now wants one from me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - i asked my boyfriend for a picture of him naked, but i didnt think he would do it, yet he sent it to me!!! and when i saw it, i felt like i had a porn star boyfriend, lol. and he told me he would want a pic of me naked, but i wasnt likeing the idea, ...

I don't know who I am anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - the title pretty much explains it all. i used to feel like a big fish in a little pond. that i had big things in store for me. i still feel that way, but i feel like its not going to happen. i literally dont know who i am. i used to be, cra...