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Archived questions from: 8 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Should I ask him out because he's too shy and all??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - I'm usually a confident borderling over confident lass. However, I have very deep rooted morals that somewhat are the major cause to this matter. Additionally being a girl, I do tend to prefer the whole "i'm laid back so i'll wait for you to ask me ...

Does this make me...well... a slut?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - OK. Again similar to my previous questions... I will condense what could definitely be an essay worth sized question down to a simple straight-forward, all rounded question. OK. I've had many relationships in the past. Some I would say were ...

Would a girl be able to fall in love with a guy like that?

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8 January 2009 (M) - I've a simple question to all, do you think a gorgeous gal can love someone with following features? Someone: 1. who is shy, 2. who is introvert 3. who can easily become friends with gals but nothing more than that. 4. who is not that cool. 5. ...

Break up or keep the relationship going on?

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8 January 2009 (F) - You see... one of us is moving to a new country which is on the other side of the world. I think that it's impossible to marry each other in the future because of this. We will be apart for years and years without seeing each other. Now I'm not ...

How can I pluck up the courage to kiss him?

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8 January 2009 (F) - Hii xx So here's the thing. My bf and I have been going out for a while now and we both would like to kiss but we are kinda nervous about it. How can I pluck up the courage to do the first step? And what should I do to enjoy my first kiss, how to d...

I'm thinking of breaking up with her... but I don't want to...

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8 January 2009 (M) - Hey people, I've been with my girlfreind for almost 8 months now and I really love her, but lately I've been feeling really depressed and have been thinking about breaking up with her without trying to. I don't want to but it just seems like it's ...

Do you think he will miss me....?

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8 January 2009 (F) - This guy named James and I went out a while ago. I really loved him but he broke my heart and we were very up and down. He would be nice to me one day but then the next he would be really mean, he would make fun of me call me fat and ugly and then ...

I can't wait to see him again when school starts, do you think he'll have forgotten about me?

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8 January 2009 (F) - Hi well I know this guy really likes me but we're both really shy and I was wondering if he would still like me even if we haven't seen each other in almost 2 months, it's killing me and I can't wait to see him but do you think he has forgotten ...

Do I give her the note I wrote telling her how I feel?

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8 January 2009 (M) - So honestly, it's been 2 months but I know this feeling and it's love, me and this girl have gone out for almost a year before and now where back at the 2 months mark, but she just had an ex of 3 years and was really surprised when I started talking ...

Oh lord... he's come back to me again??!!

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8 January 2009 (F) - Let me condense this essay worth of a question down to a simple yet truthful question. I started casually dating this man who was not only dry humoured, overly sarcastic and independant but gradually as the relationship progressed; showed many ...

He's leaving... do I confront him?

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8 January 2009 (F) - Hey, I have a guy problem but both guys and girls are welcome to answer. I’m 16 and a committed Christian, at my church there is an 18 year old guy who I am crazy about. My brother, who is friends with this guy, thinks that he’s too old but that’s ...

My girlfriend is acting, untouchy!!

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8 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is acting, untouchy? So today my girlfriend was acting rather odd, on the phone last night before she went to work she told me she hearted me, (She nevers says that first) then at the end of our phone convo last night she told me not t...

Should I go out with my online long distance girl?

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8 January 2009 (M) - im 14 and i met a girl on msn and iv been talking to her 4 a few months and we are sort of going out on line like but she lives in London and i live in Bilston and she said she wants to meet me but i dont think i should and if i do i think i should...

Sexy Time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - Hey, I have been on a weeks course of antibiotics, 4 250mg ones a day, and I stop taking them tomorrow. I am going to my boyfriends on Sunday and he'll probably want to have sex because it's been so long since we last did. I am really concerned as ...

Is he trying to give me the cold shoulder?

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8 January 2009 (F) - I really need some help, i am 16. One of my friends set me up with a guy, we got on really well, and when we said goodbye he kissed me, then sent me a txt asking me out, appogising for not asking me out in person. We talked on msn, and he was all ...

She touches me, sings to me, does she like me?

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8 January 2009 (M) - ok im new here and i have been searching for some answers in my problem..please help me. im a boy..17 years old and i have been dating someone i just met past 2 weeks ago. i met her in a bar in she was really gorgeous and she was 17 too. i asked ...

Confidence when giving a bj?

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8 January 2009 (F) - How can I feel more confident when giving my boyfriend a blow job? I've been doing it for a while now and I don't really have a major problem with it or anything. The only real problem I have is that I don't like doing it when it's quiet becau...

I've moved on, but still think of my ex

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8 January 2009 (F) - right where to start, ive recently had a new georgous boyfriend we get on so well and hes perfect and i love him like crazy. but latley i have found my self thinking about my ex and all the stuff we have been through together , and how i have hurt ...

I still can't see him being with another girl without it killing me inside!

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8 January 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up a month ago after a two-year relationship. I still can't see him being with another girl without it killing me inside! And I'm definitely not ready for a new relationship, yet. I still love him and care about him to bits, but ...

I still love and need him so much... but I broke up with him.

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8 January 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend today. I told two people what happened and they agree that it was the right thing to do but inside I feel like I just want to be with him.. he's such a jerk to me about this and he said either we're together or we don't ...

I have a guy friend who gets bullied constantly because he's gay.

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8 January 2009 (?) - I have a guy friend who gets bullied constantly because he's gay. He doesn't want me or our other friend (he only has me and another girl as friends) to tell because he thinks the bullies will come after me or our other friend. It's painful to watch ...

What to do for the best... should I just give up on him?

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8 January 2009 (F) - My friend Jack and I have been friends for like 9 months now and he used to be really sweet and nice and we had a little thing in the summer but then when school started he started just acting like he was better than me and stuff. He is a year ...

Do long distance relationships work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

8 January 2009 (M) - hi im a 14 year old boy right now me and this girl like each other but i live in new york and she lives in maine, we only knew each other online and i met her 2 weeks ago. she just broke up with her boyfriend and i really want her to be my ...

Does he want to be with me or her???

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8 January 2009 (F) - Me and my ex broke up a while ago because he cheated on me, yeah I know it's bad but like he was with her for a few weeks and she didnt let him talk to me even as a friend. Recently, the day before new years eve he called me saying things are done ...

Do guys feel the same?

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8 January 2009 (F) - My girlfriends and I always talk about the boys we've been talking to, flirting with lately and whoever we have interest in. and we always ask ourselves, "do guys do the same?" Do guys talk to their friends about the latest girl they're talking to? ...

What to do so no one gets hurt

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8 January 2009 (F) - Okay so I have a great boyfriend he is the total opposite of me and its all good. He is the nerdy type and plays video games on the computer which kinda bothers me but not enough to cause anything. And he adores me and treats me sooo good. So anyway ...

I played hard to get and now I think its too late

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8 January 2009 (F) - I met this boy at a party and we talked for almost the whole night and he seemed he liked me and I know I did. I had heard of him since he was this really popular girl’s ex but I never see him at school because the popular people have their ...

Heart broken and I need help.

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8 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend left me on new years and I was with him for four months but we really just clicked ya know? Well he goes to my school and I have gym class with him. I have tried to be just friends but it's too emotional for me. It's hard to get ...

He thinks like this?

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8 January 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while now and I have already told him that I want him to be my first. We are waiting until we have gone out for a year. (So it will be legal, and I know everyone is thinking it; We ...

How can you choose a career that is the right one for you?

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8 January 2009 (?) - I have a pressure over me, I know this is a relationship site, but I had nowhere else to go in such a short time and during holidays.. I am applying to go to a spanish university, and there you have to know what area you want to specialise in, whic...

Do you think he's gone off me?

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8 January 2009 (F) - I gave this guy a present before holiday break. School's started again, and he's being pleasant with me but maybe not as friendly as usual...? I'm not sure. Anyhow, he usually glances over at me a couple of times during class, but he hasn't looked...