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Archived questions from: 25 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I have questions about virginity, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend who I loved more then anything. He told me he is in love with me, he is totally sweet and all but he lives 500 km away. He is coming to see me in less then a month and I am a virgin but he had sex 12 times already. He regrets ...

He claims he didn't get my texts... something fishy here don't you think?

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25 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and just recently had to switch it up to a long distance relationship when he moved this past summer. We seemed to be holding strong but now for some reason I think he is lying to me. This past Friday ...

What's wrong with my body... am I some kind of mutant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - This is a super weird and embarrassing question, which is why I'm asking people who don't actually know who I am. :) but like, when I get my period, I can't use tampons. I try to get it... in, but it doesn't go in. It's annoying because I can't go ...

So difficult just to forget about him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I asked a question a while ago asking what to do about a boy and I got a good response. I have taken the advice about just to forget him but how can I when I see him every day at my bus stop and he always stares at me on the bus. My friends always ...

My boyfriend is losing interest in me slowly.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is losing intrest me in slowly and I think it's because even though I'm 'mature' for being 15, I'm not perfect and him being 18, almost 19 makes him super mature, and sometimes I can't always keep up. Any advice about what I can do s...

I'm in a dilemma... I'm in Love With My Best Friend???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Over the past few months, I've grown really close to a guy, we are best friends now and I care about him so much. The only trouble is, we've gotten so so close lately, I'm beginning to feel more than just friendship towards him. I'm not sure i...

Do men like having their anus aroused during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have a great sex life and have recently started exploring each other a little more... by that I mean he will now finger my anus as well. Although I enjoy this I know I will never have anal sex because it does hurt a lot when ...

Does anyone really know who they are?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - This might sound completley random, but its something pretty important to me and something i've never really thought about asking about until now. The thing is, i don't feel i have a personality, i don't know whether it's because i'm comparing ...

Is it possible that he's really changed?

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25 January 2009 (F) - is it possible for people to really change? ive been friends with this guy for a really long time now and hes an extremely smooth talker who has hurt, cheated and manipulated other ppl including me. he was then deeply hurt by someone he really cared ...

How to be more fun in school?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - In school, I'm focused, so i feel like guys always see me as a stickler and turn off because i'm really not showing any personality. i just don't know how to balance the two, and i'm not one of those giggley-giggley girls. i don't really flirt; i ...

I only like men who are like 20 years older than me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I have a problem! I'm 14 and have only had one real boyfriend, sure ive had ones for like 1 day but only 1 real one. Since i turned 11 i havent liked one single person!! Is this weird? Ive been trying to think why, and iv'e realised that i onl...

My parents will not let me have a social life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (?) - i need some advice.. my parents are ruinning my life!!! they wont let me have a social life..and since were from another country, it makes it even harder!!! they are soo old fashioned, they always think of the negative like ooh..you're gonna get ...

My b/f is constantly attacking and has tried to kill himself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend very dearly but now I'm unsure how to act with him because of his constant attacks which are pretty much unprovoked and the time he tried to kill himself. For example, I might mis pronounce something and he will totally fli...

She doesn't think she should be in a relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

25 January 2009 (M) - Well first me and my have been having a secret relationship for like about 11 months. I asked her if she would like to go out with me officially and she said yes but this was back in October of 08 now it's January of 09. Well she said yes but we had ...

When I see him now I run away

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - When I was with my gf and i saw one guy he's good lookin' so we did see each other and smile at da same time!.. then I saw him again he's my classmate.. We have never talk til one day out of college he looked me and said hey! and i was like hey! and ...

Is it me? I 'm crazy? Smell bad?? WHAT???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (M) - Is it me? Am I crazy? Do I smell? Am I gay, and the only one that can't see it? Why the hell is it that every girl I ask out is taken without me knowing, or not wanting to be in a relationship? Am I destined to be alone forever? I used ...

Where can I meet some nice guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I've just moved to an all girls grammer school and am really missing having guys around. i've never had a proper boyfriend and really think i'm ready for one, i think i need someone to be there for me and someone to spend some time with. when could ...

We'll probably never meet so what does he want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - i've been talking to this guy i met on the internet for about two months now. he is really lovely, we seem to be very similat and have the same ambitions. he makes me feel so special calling me beautiful and darling. this sounds awful but what does ...

Sexless in soldier heaven

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - my brother in law just came home from iraq and will do anything to get out of having sex with my sister. i don't know what to tell her.. can some one help. he was there for 15 months. all he does is invite friends to spend the night and tries to get ...

My married dad seems to be falling for my best friends single mom

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25 January 2009 (F) - i think my dad is falling in love with my best friends mum. my mum and dad are married and they have me and my brother and sister. my dad seems to be getting really close to my best friends mum she is single and only has one child. they have so much ...

Jealous and mistrust is playing a big part into our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Right well this isnt really a life or death situation but any feedback,as always,greatly appreciated... Im with my boyfriend a year the nd of april.However, weve been childhood sweethearts,so we know the ins and outs of each other. The only ...

I have a hard time saying no but I can't yes to everyone either!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I have a problem... I think its simple,I'm just really really terrible at saying no... SO..heres the problem I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 3 months,we didn't see eachother enough and that was my fault...I also split with him because I...

Playing hard to get or losing interest?

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25 January 2009 (F) - How do you know when a guy is playing hard to get or he liked you,but now lost interest in you.My crush is confusing me again,I think he is playing hard to get and it's not the first time.A week ago he smiled at me,said hi and called my name in ...

I'm 15, he's 21..what happens if someone finds out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - hi, im 15 and im seeing a 21 year old. what would happen to him if any one was to find out? is it really that bad ?...

All my friends have perfect cleavages, I've nothing!?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I'm really worried because i have about a 2 inch gap between my boobs. i've tried everything to get rid of it like different types of bras and i've even been on the pill because its ment to make your boobs grow but it doesn't work. All my friends...

I'm worried about his being so thin and I also dislike it! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Im 15 and I have a boyfriend. Hes great but he always keeps things to himself. He never tells me whats wrong or if anythings bugging him. Im really worried also because I dont think hes eating enough! Whenever I go to his house , theres never any ...

How can I find a bf who wont just use me for sex??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - All I want is a boyfriend that will stick around and not just use me for sex. It always happens to me, I don't know whether its the people I choose or whether its me. I know I could be a good girlfriend and I would treat someone so well, but I ...

How can I deal with not being able to see my long-distance lover??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Hi there, I got so stressed due to my long distance relationship. Hmm, both of us are High School students which is the most troublesome problem.. (he's in OH but i'm CA, we've met several times when we were in China, btw, we are Chinese.) Our t...

We're fighting alot, living apart and I'm not happy with the situation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Well first off i'm 18 yrs old! Will be married a year in Febuary! We have been together for two years and have a 10 month old together and he is a Marine! What i need help is with what i should do and if we will make it! Well my and my husband a...

Ex g/f wants to talk to me but then gets annoyed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

25 January 2009 (M) - Ex girlfriend/ friend wants to talk with me but then gets annoyed with me? ( Long 10 points)? So basically we were going out for 2 months but then we took a break / breakup because she says shes not ready for a relationship right now because ...

Condom slipped off & now need words of comfort

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - So I'm kinda freaking out...My boyfirend and I had sex tonight and well the condom sliped off. Well he cam and I guess it was like at the bottom of my yeah...but I went striaght to the bathroom and wash it off with hot water and soap very carefully ...

Does he still want to get to know me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (?) - Ima try to make the story short.. Ok so I met this guy last year(he is now 22 and I am 18) and he asked for my number and he would call me almost everyday, but since he's older than me I didn't take him seriously. So we eventually lost touch and a ...

Is it wrong for me to be attracted to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (M) - Hey guys its me again. Just have a quick question to ask and all replies are appreciated. Is it wrong for me to be attracted to or date this girl? The problem is, i'm in high school, (10th grade) and she's in the middle school still (8th gra...

Does masturbation lower your sperm count?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (M) - well I'm woundeing howany times can a normal man master bate? And does it lower your sperm count? Will it here if you do it more than 2 times? I'm sorry I'm just really curious...

Major crush on my brother's best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I'm 16 I haven't had a "real boyfriend" before. I have a major crush on my older brothers best friend and I mean major. If we started going out he is the kind of guy I can see myself falling for. And he leaves for university at the end of this yea...

We're definite opposites--can this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Hi I'm desperate for some advice! Today my best friend told me he loved me. Of course I was clueless before but I'm single and I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO! I think I like him, I really do, but after all we are best friends and I don't want to end up ...

Are teachers at the prom ever asked to dance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - You know how teachers are at the prom? Do people ever ask them to dance... like, kind of as a joke? Kind of as friends? I was just wondering if it happens and if it's appropriate....

Girl's advice: Which one am I in love with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

25 January 2009 (M) - hi okay so i need so advice mainly from girls. okay my girlfriend was suppose to go to the dance but had a prob and had to go with her dad and pick up her mom so i went to the dance cause i was a rep. so my ex gf was a rep that i had to walk with ...

Are there any nice guys who are good looking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I have been with a good looking guy who treated me like crap and I have been with a nice guy who I felt absolutely nothing for. Are there any guys that have both qualities? I dont mean to sound shallow but the physical attraction always has to be ...

He took my virginity and my baby

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - almost 10 months i went to a party with my best friend at her older cousins house her cousin had alot of guys there i had only a couple of beers and i couldnt remeber a thing i sware something happened then a few weeks later i realized i was ...

How can I be more fun in school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - In school, I'm focused, so i feel like guys always see me as a stickler. how can i be more fun in school? even when i'm in a class without friends?...

Am I being racist?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Hello all! There is a guy who likes me a lot but is not the same race as me. He is such a great guy but I only see him as a friend because I dont date of my own race. I dont know if this sounds racist, because I dont think I am a racist. I have ...

Are lefties different than righties?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Besides writing with a different hand, are lefties different than righties? Sometimes it's said that certain habits/ characteristics can indicate certain personality types, like the way you write can. I don't know... maybe it's stupid. Just ...