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writes:So... I'm 15.I find it hard to see what there is special in a relationship other than touching one another.I really dont understand what the difference between love and like is.Because i love my friends, and i could love someone im in a relationship with, i really dont know what the difference between friend love and love love is.Just to make it all the more confusing, Im bisexual.And to make it more confusing ... Im not really sure if i have ever ... really wanted to be closer to anyone I know.And if i have ... they've always been completely out of bounds. Like friends.Which is another reason for why im getting mixed up with friend love and love love.... does that make sense?Like the title and screen name... Most confusing.~Just to give you a little backround info..I once went out with a guy (well i've been out with others but they werent important at all) for a short while...but i didnt truly like him.I once went out with a girl for a short while.. But i was just flattered that she liked me... and then i found out she had like three other guys at the same time and was mildy heartbroken because she used to be a very good friend of mine.Does anybody think they could help me out?I'd be very grateful :)
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reader, Mostconfused +, writes (26 January 2009):
Mostconfused is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthree answers, Im stunned.As i posted this question... i actually wondered why the hell i was even posting it.I was talking to friends online, and they said basically the same thing as you guys.the advice has really helped.Now i just need to figure out...who to love in the end..Not sure that im actually going to search for them right now though.Not that desparate. =] Thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): You'll know when you feel it. I know that's probably not what you want to hear right now, but it's true. It's not the same as friend love, like you feel for your best mate, and it's not the same as the lust sort of love you get when you see someone hot. It's caring about one person more than anything, and being able to trust them with anything, and when just thinking about them lights up your life. It means accepting them for who they are, even their bad points, and knowing they accept you for who you are, warts and all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): hey :) don't worry about it, seriously. youre only 15, youve got such a long time to figure things out. perhaps you just havent met someone right for you yet, but im sure youll fall in love one day! good luck :) x
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reader, BadLilSaint  +, writes (26 January 2009):
There is no easy way to explain love. I am also 15 m
being in love to me is "Being able to cuddle up in someone's arms, Tell your secret's to someone when you see them you just know that everything is going to be alright.
or something like that I'm no expert
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