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writes:Hi, I have frenulum breve and I am a virgin. I am concerned of what happens when the frenulum breaks during sex. I mean i want to know from people that actually happened to them and as many details as possible because i am kinda scared of what will happen when i will have first time sex. I know the possibility to go to the doctor but that's not included here.Some details are that i can retract my foreskin(i am uncircumcised) easily when flacid, but when i am erected i can only do it behind the head, but then it hurts and the head bends down. The frenulum also looks a little bit white, like it is going to rip off if i pull very hard on it...Thanks
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reader, Self experienced  +, writes (4 December 2012):
I just recently had my ferenulum break during intercourse (yesterday) it did bleed accessively but it did stop after a while. It was uncomfortable bit not as bad as you would expect it to. And so I cleaned it up and left it. And today it has healed a little bit . I now can pull my foreskin down past the head. And it doesn't bleed at all anymore. I will keep you posted on my progress
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009): (anonymous post)Mine is the same way, easy when flaccid but damn near impossible when erect. Never a cause for concern- Been fine for almost 10 years on active duty. I still have alot of difficulty fully retracting it, and it also loses circulation and looks very stretched when I do try and pull it back when I'm erect. But really, dont worry about it.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (27 January 2009):
 Seriously you have enough concerns the first time that you have sex without having the risk of painful injury on your mind. If it happened to be the first time for the girl as well then well it simply wouldn't be fair to risk messing up her first time.
If it rips then a) you will be in a lot of pain b) the situation will get worse and c) you will have an association in your mind between sex, pain and embarrassment (think in terms of a crowded emergency room late at night and you having to explain to the nurse on duty just what your problem is).
Get yourself to a doctor and get some steroid creams which will help to stretch it out. Going to the doctor is not a possibility it is what is going to have to happen. There are 2 ways that it could happen: both may be somewhat embarrassing but one way is painful and embarrassing. Go to see the doctor now and no one need ever know. Turn up in the emergency room and you can be sure that the story will be around school in no time.
There was a guy in my college at Cambridge who got his frenulum caught in his girlfriends braces. They had to go to hospital to be separated. I don't remember much from university but that image is burned in my mind. You don't want to be the guy in that kind of story.
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