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Archived questions from: 19 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I love him, I really do, but why am I having feelings for other people?

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19 January 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend. I've thought that I'm in love with him. Well stuff happens, we fight and stuff and I just feel bad, I don't know, it's hard to explain but I talk to my guy friends and some I really am developing feelings for. Like I can't ...

I think I might be falling for my co worker.

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19 January 2009 (F) - This is long, and I'm sorry. I really don't know what to do, but i figure asking will help me get it off my chest. I'm 16 years old (17 in a week) I think I might be falling for my co worker. He's 22, and an assistant manager. Our work envi...

I'm 16 years old male and I think I'm a pervert and I hate myself for this.

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19 January 2009 (M) - Hi all, I'm 16 years old male and I think I'm a pervert and I hate myself for this. Sometimes everything is ok, you know Ii just want to kiss a girl more than other things. But sometimes I want to do stuff you see in porn movies, girls never want ...

We are currently off as of yesterday and I can't stop crying.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - Ok so I'm 15 female and me and this guy have been going on and off for bout 3 years. I love him a lot but the whole problem is the off part. He's 18 very sweet + sensitive not exactly cute but really who cares. However he has a lot of not so popul...

Am I wrong for following my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - Around this time last year I was messing around with this guy, that I thought I really liked. . . we finally made it offical in the beginning of the summer but after a week into our relationship I realized feelings wasn't true so it became a sexual ...

I can't remember how to snog

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - Well, I'm 15 and I've just recently started dating this guy who's about 17 and a half. (: He's really nice and caring and I think the world off him. He split up with his girlfriend last week. She was his first time and he was hers. He said he wou...

How to get rid of rash "Down there" from shaving

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - This is a little embarassing, but i guess i'm gonna say it cos i want it sorted! Quick! If anyone if a beauty therapist or anything in that sorta field, or even if you've had the same thing before pls gimmme an answer :) Normally i stick to waxing ...

Does a guy notice difference if a girl is a virgin or not?

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19 January 2009 (?) - Hi everyone, I have been curious on whether or not a guy feels a difference from having sex with a girl who is a virgin from having sex with a girl who's not? I know some girls will bleed on their first time, but it their anyother way a guy can tell ...

I really like this guy but there's another girl

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - iv been out with a few guys, and iv loved one. he dumped me and i eventually got over it. reciently , theres this guy, and its like so different ... theres something special about him, hes the nicest looking guy iv ever seen, i love his personality, ...

13, unprotected sex with b/f

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19 January 2009 (F) - im 13 an i have had sex with my boyfriend.. it was unprotected and nobody in my family knows im sexually active.. im scared incase im pregnent or have catched anything.. i jus dont know what to do.. hes telling me its going to be alright.. but i ...

I don't seem to feel anything for anyone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - I am 15 and need help. I've only ever had real crushes on a couple of guys, like tv stars and a teacher, but they are always so much older than me. I've never gone out with or had a boyfriend. All the guys I know and hear about are all so self obse...

Do I have a problem and how do I get rid of hair?

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19 January 2009 (F) - Do I Have a Problem and how do I get rid of hair without it itching like hell? I'm 13 and still a virgin. I have actually been masterbating myself since I was 3 and didn't know what I was doing till a few years ago. Strange right? Yea I know. Ha...

Can someone please explain his actions?

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19 January 2009 (F) - There was this guy who would always flirt with me and for a while I thought there was something to it. But then he started flirted with my sister and even asked for her number and he never asked me I was very hurt by this (my sister always ...

Why did he change

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19 January 2009 (F) - i have an online boyfriend we became realy close and shared everything with eachother we were deeply in love but then about a month or so ago his computer broke down. i lost my paitence and sent a mesg accusing him of not loving me but i said ill ...

Are we moving too fast? If so, what am I supposed to do?

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19 January 2009 (M) - Hello, I've been to this website many times for advice and help with girlfriend issues. Just wanted to thank everybody for the great help and support. An issue arose today with me and my Girlfriend. We have been going strong for several months n...

I need you--I love you...the same thing?

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19 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend always says i need you is that close to i love you? he's never asking for sex or anything. Like he's just saying no i need you or something like that....

Can guys be circumcised at any age?

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19 January 2009 (?) - I have a question... can guys get circumcised at any age no matter what?? Like forty or something or did they have to get it when they were little??...

Is there anything I can do to let him know that I’d like to be with him again WITHOUT scaring him away?

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19 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I’ve posted some questions earlier about my ex. The fact is that I love him with all my heart and I want him back. Just to try and sum up the situation: We’ve been broken up for almost three months now, which was my doing, unfortunately, after ...

Exercises...

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19 January 2009 (M) - I've tried strengthening my PC muscles so I wouldn't suffer from PE but today we had sex for the first time in a while and bang I was in and straight out. Nothing had changed!! What can i do :(...

Why do I feel so weird when I walk past him?

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19 January 2009 (F) - okay, well recently i got over this guy i liked for about 3 years the now were not talking but when i look up or turn around suddenly in his direction he is staring at me. It's been this way since August and some of 2007...I got rejected from hi...

Tips to get over him or what I should do.

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19 January 2009 (F) - Help.. I am still in love with someone whoz moved on. We were in love but I didn't want 2 be with him because I didn't have my parent's spproval. He understood and was very nice. I thought I had moved on so I told him to, and everyone told hi...

Age???

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19 January 2009 (F) - hi my boyfriend is 20 and i'm 15 when i turn 16 in two months he'll be 21. i love him deaply and never wanna see anything bad happen to him. i know what we are doing is not right in the laws eyes but to us it is. i know he could get in trouble and ...

Confusion about God

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - well i gots an issue... im usually a very religious person but now im so confused about god and life and everything i love the most (acting,singing,ect) i cant take anything any more... now to my real problem. I have one person telling me on thing ...

I want a baby really badly!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - Ok me and my bf have some what of an age difference but its not a big deal. The thing is we've been together for 2 almost 3 years febuary 2. And i love him with all my heart and he feels the same...the problem is i want a baby really really badly. ...

Does he not even miss me at all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I were together for 6 months on and off. He ended up breaking up with me because of commitment issues and he felt like I was smothering him. He insisted that we still remain friends and kept telling me how great I am and he didn't ...

Is this what you'd call cheatin' or wot???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - I don't know if this is cheating or not, so here we go... I went to a concert Friday and I left the people I was with to hang out with this guy, and my friend I saw there. The guy is just a guy but he was hitting on me hard and I was playing back...

Does he like chasing me or does he actually think I will sleep with him?

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19 January 2009 (F) - I had this friend last year and we hooked up one night but I didnt let him touch me. He wanted to have sex, I said no and it kinda got awkward so we stopped hanging out. About 6 months later, out of the blue he started being nice to me again and I ...

I feel he's gone off me since I had the baby...

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19 January 2009 (F) - Hi me and my fiance have been together for two years and we recently had a son together who is now three months old. I used to try to look at porn with him but he pretended to be against it but when I was about 5 6 months pregnant and now that I ...

Can you give me advice on how to leave Brent?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - THIS IS WORTH READING. Please help me out, I'm in a VERY tight spot. Thank you for taking a look at my pitiful problem. This one is kinda messed up. The main problem here is, Ive always liked this one guy but he's been a kinda player(so to s...

I have alot of issues and just wondering if anyone has any advice?

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19 January 2009 (M) - Hi, umm..this is a little tricky to start cos I've never used one of these before. I suppose I'll start with some background? When I was younger, my dad used to abuse me a lot. I mean both just being violent and sexually. It's made me feel rea...

My period is too heavy, what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - I'm kinda scared right now because I'm having my period, and it's the heaviest one I've ever had. I've been filling up a pad within just one hour. I'm not exaggerating. I don't want to go to school tomorrow, Cuz I don't know how I'm going to get ...

I pushed her beyond her boundaries and now we are both suffering

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

19 January 2009 (M) - Ok, ok, I was being an asshole and I pushed my girlfriend too far. We didn't actually have sex but it was way farther than her moral standards would have let her go. She's 3 1/2 years younger than me and lives with strict parents as an only child. ...

Sex is boring & I want him to stop

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19 January 2009 (F) - ok so ive been having sex for 2 months now and i dont seem 2 enjoy penetration like i get bored and just want him 2 stop... can anyone help me with this.. and also why is it when i get this feeling i dont think its a orgasim but im not sure ...

My mind is telling me to move on but my heart is saying otherwise.

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19 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have broken up for over a week now, we are school mates so I see her every day and it's really hard for me, I still love her a lot. The reason we broke up is because she is having a hard time giving the time because she isn't ...

I’m going crazy with all these thoughts. March is coming so quickly and my stomach churns when I think about it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - After dating my bf for 3 months I fell pregnant. It's now been 2 years and we live together. Before me he dated a girl for about 4 months and then they carried on the relationship long distance for 2 and a half years because he moved to where I...

People are telling me my girlfriend has been making out with her ex!

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19 January 2009 (M) - I have been dating this girl for like 5 months and she hangs out with a lot of other guys and she flirts with them all. Most of the teenagers go to this teen town thing on Friday and Saturday's, well I went on Friday but she couldn't go because she ...

Questions about first time sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

19 January 2009 (?) - Ok so I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. (He's 22 and I am 18) we have a great relationship, lately we have been making out and one thing leads to another and we find ourselves totally naked ready to have sex. I am still a virgin and he ...

Wet dreams a lot...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

19 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm a 15 year old boy and I masturbate a lot about lesbians and my sexy science teacher mrs Sugiama and one night I didn't masturbate and I had a wet dream about her giving me a blowjob and the next night it was lesbian porn please help dear ...

Messy sex!

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19 January 2009 (F) - Hi everyone Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about 3-4 months now, and I've just recently started taking the pill. The first time we did it without a condom and he came inside me, I was on top... But I completely didn't realise it would...

I am scared that she will end up hurting me again...what should I do or tell her?

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19 January 2009 (M) - plz answer this question....i dated this girl honestly it wuz the best relationship of my life (im 16 shes 14)we went out 4 6 months it wuz all perfect until sumone made up a gosip bout me cheating on her of course it wuznt true but she believed it ...

How will she take me back?

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19 January 2009 (M) - Ok I'm in love with this girl, and we had a little issue. She has a lot of guy friends, putting it mildly. Not exactly a girly girl. As she puts it, allergic to pink. Well usually when I come to pick her up to go out somewhere (3 years age diffence...

Should I wait for my crush to become available again?

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19 January 2009 (M) - Recently, Girl (A) and I have gone in and out of a relationship. First, we went out for like 2 months and then broke up for a while, then went out again and i broke up with her, and then we went out once more and she broke up with me. After the...

Why would she start an affair with me if she was happily married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - Hello, I'm an 18 year old female that had just ended a two year emotional affair with my ex-teacher. This is how it began.... It was my junior year; I was 16 and she was 26 and hadn't been married for a month. At first she started coming o...

Was I an asshole?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

19 January 2009 (?) - One night came home after work and was horny as hell. I ended making love to my girlfriend. She's extremely self-conscious about her breasts because of a birthmark and won't take off her bra for me no matter how I beg. Anyway I couldn't take it ...

Three girls love me! I want them all!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

19 January 2009 (M) - I have three girls i have been talking to!! they all have told me they are in love with me!!! I wabt them all but dont want to break their hearts =[=[=[=[, how do i choose??...

Broke up, then slept together, now I'm pregnant

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19 January 2009 (F) - Last summer i was seeing this guy. We fell hard for each other but we broke up in September because our relationship just didn't feel right anymore. To make it easier for both of us we decided that we would just stay away from each other. But about ...

I gave him a bj, haven't heard from him, should I text him?

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19 January 2009 (F) - ok so.... this is my problem... on new years eve i was really wasted and texted this one guy ive crushed on for a few months, it was like 1:30am and i told him to come up because i didnt feel well.. suprisingly he came up and we somewhat hungout,...

What does "I need you" mean when a guy says it?

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19 January 2009 (F) - what does it mean if a guy says i need you? is that close to love?...

Cultural differences.

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19 January 2009 (M) - Sorry my english not too good but I like this girl who goes to the park where I play football and her and her friend sometime watch us play football but the problem is I am italian and she is english so I do not know whether she would want to date ...

Opinions... I'm a little worried that I could be pregnant?

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19 January 2009 (F) - I'm a little worried that I could be pregnant, me and my boyfriend has sex, but the condom broke without us realising, this was on the 6/7th of this month, technically midnightish of the 6th to be exact, I got the morning after pill on the 8th, I ...

Too embarrassed to face him again....

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19 January 2009 (F) - Me and my friend went to a restaurant with our mums and we both fancied the waiter and the other day we saw him in town and started to follow him around for ages and now we don't want to go in the restaurant again because it's too embarrassing but ...

Is he still interested in me??

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19 January 2009 (F) - I'm having trouble. I don't think my boyfriend is interested in me any more. We've known each other for about 5 years now and dating for about a month now. he doesnt act like he's interested in me any more even though he says he is. For some reason ...

His penis was twitching violently!!!!!

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19 January 2009 (F) - OK, so this is probably going to sound very stupid to everyone reading this, I'm a little embarrassed about it myself. Basically, I've been going out with my boyfriend for a few weeks and when we were in bed together and things got pretty heated, I ...