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30-35,
*leaseHelpMe!
writes:I really like this girl. And before she liked me. I was too shy and she got with this other guy for a while but now they have broken up and I have plucked up the courage to speak to her and call her. Things were going okay. She dropped hints but now I seriously feel she is still into him. dropping well... quite big hints based on the old fashioned "He's the only one for me... I wish he loved me the way he used to" Type thing. I don't know what to do about it. I really like her and know I can make her happy. He doesn't even deserve someone soo gorgeous as her. Any advice/help would be much apreciated. Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): It sounds like she hasn't got over him yet. This doesn't mean that she can't or won't like you in the future, just that she needs a bit of time to accept that her relationship with this guy is over, and to move on.My advice would be to be there for her as a friend, a shoulder to cry on, and once you think she's ready let her know that you're interested, but don't push it. Let her take her time, and once she's moved on from the other guy she'll be in a position to decide whether to start something with you.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (26 January 2009):
 Well sadly it sounds like she is still interested in him, and just likes your company.
You may feel you would be the best thing for her but she has freedom of choice and she chooses him at this moment in time.
This does not mean that you cannot be in the background supporting her and being a shoulder to cry on when it all goes wrong again, but be pusshy and you will loose even her friendship.
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