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writes:Should I go for the ladies' man?Me and my friend are really close. We almost kissed- the whole 80-20 thing, but I didn't lean in. He's a player, he's cheated on every girlfriend he's ever had. We're compatible and we both know it, but I don't want to ruin our relationship which is full of deep, meaningful conversations about love, politics and individuality. He always mentions changing, and I know that if we date I will have an effect on him.Should I risk it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for you answers.
To make this even more confusing he'll be gone by June, so it's now or never.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): I think to save yourself from any grief, you should stay away from this man.
You said yourself that he is a "player" and if you don't want to become a statistic, then stay clear now!
I know that was harsh but you tend to find that popular guys that are "players" end up hurting people often.
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reader, mitta  +, writes (26 January 2009):
I think he needs to prove that he would be really committed to you before you even consider becoming involved with him. Alot of men 'play around' when theyre young and this is ok aslong as everyone involved is aware. But cheating, no matter what age is unacceptable.
Players can give up the game but he has to be really into you. Plus you have to REALLY trust him. Because you know about his past, if you are not fully secure you might get paranoid and constantly think he's cheating...
If you are good friends and not totally sure starting something is a good thing then i would back off and leave anything like that for careful consideration.
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