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Oral sex question

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Question - (26 January 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi I really need help on this. I am not very experienced and I just gave oral sex for the first time, he begged me for it. I dont know if I was doing a good job and only did it for about a couple minutes before he came. I asked him how it was and he said thats it? But I mean it wasnt hard anymore so what else could I do? Should I have kept going? I thought it was done after he came. Advice please?

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A male reader, Kepi United Kingdom +, writes (26 January 2009):

Kepi agony auntHey, if he came quickly then it was a job very well done, he's probably pissed at himslef for not being able to hold on :)

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (26 January 2009):

DoubleM agony auntOnce he has ejaculated and begins to go soft, it is basically all over. In some cases, a man may remain hard, but if the climax was very intense, the head of the penis is extremely sensitive. In such a case, he may resist further stimulation and even push you away, but it was a job well done.

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A male reader, Shawn_W United States +, writes (26 January 2009):

Well, my questions for you are, what did you do while he was ejaculating? Did you take the semen in your mouth, and if yes, what did you do while he was doing so? Did you just let his penis sit there while it was happening, or did you continue to suck until he was done?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009):

It sounds like you did a fantastic job if he came!

Maybe he expected you to take his cum in your mouth. That's not a mandatory thing, but entirely up to the female. If you don't want to, don't let him "make" you. When he came, did you continue to stroke him, or just quit? Continuous stroking while coming, and afterwords is GREAT! If you keep doing it, he WILL tell you to stop! It gets to the point where we say OK OK,,, stop stop stop! Same as you girls do.

But, as you said, it wasn't hard anymore, there isn't much more you can do.

Maybe ask him what else he was expecting. a beer, light him a smoke??? (just kidding) If it were me, I'd have a big stupid grin on my face, and then give you a big passionate kiss!

sounds like you did good there girl.

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