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Archived questions from: 15 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I've told my girlfriend to fuck off at the moment and not speak to me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - I have a serious problem with trusting my girlfriend. We've been together for 3 months (a long time for me) and we just argue A LOT we get on most of the time but a while ago, she was going home after seeing me, she usually catches the bus home, ...

Am I as gay as I thought?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - For the past year I have known, (or at least thought) that I am gay. I am not attracted to women physically, nor have I ever been. But I am still yet to find a boy that I love. I have fallen in love with girls, but not with boys, but am sexually ...

Looking for a good read!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Girls, are there any books that turn you on that aren't those cheesy romance ones?...

Shy girl needs help with a boy problem!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I'm 17 years old and I'm really shy. Although I have no problem making easily friends with girls I feel uncomfortable talking to guys. With this in mind...there's this guy that I'm interested in. I don't really talk to him but i'm almost sure ...

I don't want him to think of me as a child because of our age difference...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I am almost 17, and I met a guy at the place I work. I instantly felt a connection with him, and I think I really like him. He's a freshman in college, so he's probably about 19. We were talking a lot and he seemed to be interested but I couldn't ...

Great at giving advice to others but can't help myself... HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Teenage issues, friends with problems, I give them advice, but when it comes to myself, I'm useless! Boys, one in particular, but we've been amazing friends for just over a year. I liked him before, told him and he rejected me, we continued bei...

I need a new me!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Might be a superficial question but I'm very down about myself these days. It's because of the way I look and how I think this makes people treat me differently, earlier this week I decided I wanted a change, and I wanted to dye my hair dark instead ...

Why is my boyfriend doing this???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - We’ve been together for 3 months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me every day..last time I saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him... saying I am not giving him ...

I'm up at my dad's and BORED!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - I feel really depressed, I am on holidays at my dad's and the only kids I know up here are two girls who when we first met, got along really well but now I feel they only talk to me when they have to because they are friends of the family. I took a ...

Shy and afraid...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - hi, I am male 19 years old and never been in a relationship and this represents a huge problem for me and in my self confedence. I am shy with girls and got nervous when dealing with them, I am afraid and don't have the courage to talk to a girl, ...

I want to know how he feels without letting him know how I feel, how can I do it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I'm in Year 9 and recently I've started to fall for a sixthformer in Year 12. I'd say we're reasonably good friends and we get on well, but I don't know what to do. He's generally a nice person but he's being really nice to me, I don't know if ...

Ladies do you have some suggestions on planning a nice night leading up to sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - I want to plan a nice night leading up to sex for my girlfriend. Ladies do you have some suggestions on planning a nice night leading up to sex?...

He's stressing me out and I'm pregnant and don't need it! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Okay this is the third bulletin I send out in like less than 5 minutes and I appoligize I just got a lot of problems that i need some sort of opionion from a stranger that is willing to take some sort of time to care, at least a little. Well, Okay.. ...

Pregnant - How to spice things up when things are going bad please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, I'm just sad, and don't know what do to about my sex life any more, really it sucks! I HATE it, I'm not happee. I love my guy to death, but, the sex. Really, I HATE giving him oral, He doesn't give it to me, and I'm clean, I shave ...

Dating 3 years, pregnant and he tells me he don't love me!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Well, My name doesnt matter. I'm 19 years old. My bf is 28 years old. And we've been together for almost 3 years now. And I'm pregnant almost 3 months. I love him, and I do love him to death, It's just hard for me to tell him, I love you, after ...

How can I be more assertive and not feel jealous of these other girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend, but we are in a forbidden love, so at school we are together all the time, but deny it when people ask. He is a popular senior at school and he spends some time kind of flirting with other girls and especially the hot ones!!! ...

She said she wants space, but is still talking to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - She said she wants space, but is still talking to me? So basically she said she needs space to figure her self out, because she still hasn't completely grieved over her ex of 3 years, so i think shes goign to use this space time to do that, while th...

I am scared to give him my virginity, I would if I knew for sure that he would marry me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Ok, this is my dilemma. I am 17 years and my boyfriend is 18. We became friends online and then moved our friendship off-line and met in person. We became close friends instantly. As our friendship blossomed even more he would hint to me stuff about ...

Sick of games!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I used to be really good friends with this guy. He claimed to love me and acted like I was the best person he ever met. Maybe I'm corny, but I could feel a real connection. We had everything in common and I've never met anyone like him before. ...

How do I get him not to tell anyone else without having a row?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I'm 18 and my fiancee is 30 we have been dating for a while and I think I might be pregnant. I told him that I was late and he suggested waiting a little longer before I took a test. Which I was fine with, then we went round to his parent's house ...

How can I change his mind and get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I split with my boyfriend 4 months ago, we still talk and get on as friends, well I still have feelings for him and I think he knows it, anyway he's met this girl through facebook and they met for the 3rd time last nite, he told me ...

Am I just going thrugh a "gay" phase?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - I am pretty sure that I am gay and I'im 14 but I've been slowly getting stronger feelings about women so does that mean that I'm just going through a gay phase?...

I heard my sis's guy say he'd like a threesome with her and me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Ok im confused not quite sure where to start. I got a phone call yesterday im in adelaide and its 5:30am now, my sister was arguing with her boyfriend. Not mine to get involved. I know that but its actually something he supposedly said to her. He ...

I've haven't smoked in a week but I really want to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - ok so yeah , im 14 and i smoke.!! :(( yeah i know its bad. Save it I've already herd all that.!! The thing is my boyfriend that I've been with for almost 7 months now really wants me to quit.! I'm trying REALLY hard, i havnt had a cigarett...

My b/f lost his dream how to comfort him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has jus been told hes being medically dscharged after several injuries from the royal marines and he is devestated. It was his dream 2 be a royal marines commando. How do i comfort and help him at this time and through it? :( x...

I truly believe this will work out, she just needs time.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - So basically she said she needs time to figure out what she's going to do about her ex which she went out with 3 years for, she still has feelings for him and she needs to straighten them out, those feelings were getting in the way of are ...

Are our ages okay to go out together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - Hi I'm 16 and my girlfriend is 14. Is this OK? When I turn 17 she'll be 14 for another 4 months....

How can I turn my boyfriend on more, I feel he's going off me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months and about a week. Well he asked me to send him some naughty photos but I said no, so I got that going good but every time I see him I'm so attracted to him and I try to do everything to make him want ...

I want to confess and tell my friend I have feelings for her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Honesty.. I have been in love with this girl I'll call her X better.. So, I have loved X for almost 5 years, actually only 4 years and few weeks. Not many people know that I'm a lesbian. I have not even confessed to her yet but I'm struggli...

She doesn't know and I'm ready to go!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - ok so im at uni in 1st year and living in student halls. i started to like 1 of my flat mates early on and its grown into more. i mean we always kiss and sleep in each others beds and we have had sex once at the very end of last term. this term ...

Will I know when my water breaks?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - how will i know if my water breaks?? i know this is dumb, but how will i know if my water breaks? my mom told me you will just know, but can you feel it? whats it feel like?? how will i know i didnt just have an accident?...

My parents are super controlling & its affecting my relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5777 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Ok, my problem isn't necessarily a relationship one but it does affect it. I am now almost 19 yrs old (first year at college (here in a city and not your regular college town) i have a dorm room and often visit my parents. I used to work but my ...

Should I stop thinking about him completely? Or try and ask him out?? Please help me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Back in august I knew this guy evan. When I first saw him I really liked him. I've never felt this strongly about a crush! He was really nice and seemed like he was flirting smiling complementing etc. Recently I just got over him and stopped ...

Can you help me control my cravings and increase my willpower?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I don't have any self control and I would like to know if anyone has any tips for me because I know this is not an uncommon problem... I was bulemic in 8th grade and I have always had issues with my weight. It's not that I am fat, I have just...

I can't make myself sneak out to see my guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - im so confused. i love my guy to death and want to spend the rest of my life with him. i just have one problem i wont sneak out to see him at night. i want to i really do i just cant make myself too much stuff can go bad. and since i dont come over ...

Is this what it's like to be in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - what is wrong with me.. whenever me and my boyfriend get mad at each other he says goodbye then i say bye but i always end up trying to get him to talk to me. and he doesn't.. he just talks to me when ever he feels like it. and it makes me so sad.. ...

Confusing guy problems

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I know this is a little long but please read. This guy has been so confusing lately. It all started in the summer when I told him I liked him. He said he wanted to get to know me more and just stay friends, but that a relationship was a possibility ...

Any couples still together after high school?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - ok ive been with my bf fi a year. and im not going to college for another yr but i grad this year. he wont graduate till next year. and im not going to college for a year. i would really like to know is there any couples out there that've graduated ...

Length of period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I just had a question, my dad grew up with sisters, so he knows all about periods and stuff, so it's easy to talk to him about this stuff, but he told me that if I didn't worry about my period or anything, like not be paranoid that the bleeding ...

First time sex will cause condom to break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - is it true that the first time you have sex and use a condom that it will be most likely break???? please help me because me and my bf have been planning to have sex and well he has no problem with the whole becoming a dad thing but Im not so ready ...