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Archived questions from: 31 January, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Bullied in college, what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - recently in college a girl has began bullying me, making comments about things i have posted on myspace and saying awful things about me i had talked to her a couple of times before and we seemed to get on quite well but now shes just attackin...

Sex and regrets

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Well, i am a roman catholic. I have been with my boyfriend for about 1 year, 2 and a half months. And today, yes, we had sex. (He is also roman catholic) And now im feeling guilty :/ and a bit .. confused. I always told my self i would wait...

In love with my boyfriend and my best friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4151 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hey guys...I don't really know what to do...yet sometimes it seems so obvious... I've had this boyfriend for almost 3 years (we'll call him Rob for this)...he himself broke up with me after a year and 5 months..then we got back together...i could de...

How can I be as hot as a porn star?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - How can I be as hot as a porn star? I'm really adventurous in bed, but how can I be really hot? Equally hot as a porn star? I'm not trying to make my bf stop watching (he's not addicted and he's offered to stop, but I don't want to control hi...

My boyfriend's penis smells!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Okay this is really embarrassing but I have a sex problem. I've been going out with my man for close to four years and the sex is good, when we do have it. I want to please him and stuff, I love to give oral sex and have been told I'm very very good ...

I'm scared shitless in case I don't come up to her standards re sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (?) - Ok this is the problem I'm in, I've been with a girl for 1 year since I was 15. Well now I'm 16 and gonna join the army etc. Well my girlfriend wants to take our relationship up to he next level by having intercourse. I've done the minor stuff ...

What would YOU have done???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I was sitting in homeroom and this girl was talking to my homeroom teacher at his desk. Suddenly, she dropped her backpack, ran to the garbage can, and started throwing up. No joke! It was a very strange start to my day (and quite disgusting). ...

Please help, I'm so sick of being messed around by this guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hi. Im trying to figure out something with this guy I've been sort of on and off with for a while, a good few years to be exact. I dunno if anyone can help me but I'm so confused. See, I've been hanging out with this guy, lets call him Jack, an...

Is he ashamed to take me out and be seen with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hi folks... look at me the bore sitting in on a Saturday night!!... Okay, so I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 3 months now. We dated loads before we said we were 'official.' And in any respect, we've done the whole relationship thi...

We're very close and act like a couple but he has a girlfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - So, me and a guy are very close. But the thing is he has a g/f for about 2 years. We both know each other for about a year and a half. Me and him talk every day, and do everything as a couple. We are practially like a couple, but he has a g/f. When ...

I am looking for hair extensions.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I've been trying to look for hair extensions in the UK but I can't find any. I live in London now I was wondering if anyone knows where I could get them from? I want clip on hair extensions and how much would they be? Many people have said for ...

Infections in having anal sex???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Today I lost my anal virginity to my boyfriend of 7 months but what I didn't actually know [until today] was that you can't use the same condom/finger/whatever in the anus and vagina.. Is there a chance I could get some sort of infection??? and if ...

Irish catholic?????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - This guy described himself once as "Irish catholic." obviously, this means he's Irish, but does it mean he's also of the catholic religion? Sorry, this is probably a stupid question....

I was planning on giving my boyfriend a saucy striptease of some kind as a little surprise for valentine's day.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hiyaaa :) As we all know, valentines day is coming up and I was planning on giving my boyfriend a saucy striptease of some kind as a little surprise. I was hoping to get some tips and stuff - as I've never given a strip off the tease variety be...

How should I prepare for my first, real high school kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I had my first kiss a while ago, and it was barely anything. just a peck, so I have virtually no experience. How should I prepare for my first, real high school kiss (tongue, etc.)? I don't want to be bad at it, you know?...

I am in a cycle of disappointment. How do I get out of this cycle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (M) - Hi. I have never gotten what I wanted in terms of love. I've always jumped for the stars, but landed even harder for it. I continually go for the girl who is my dream, rather than reality. I am in a cycle of disappointment. How do I get out of this ...

How can I experience sex for the first time without thinking about the pain???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half and we're both really wanting to have sex but I'm always so scared to. I'll decide that I really want to try and then when it comes down to it I get so scared about the pain that I'm getting ...

What's the best way to get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hi all, theres this guy I really really love and I know we wont work and it's best to get over him :( But whats the best way to do it ? Should I delete his number and msn and bebo ? Its far to hard to remain friends with him :( please help ! xxx...

When should I tell him about my past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I'd like your advice and i'd be grateful if any male could also give me advice and women :). i'm curently chattin with a guy hes 24 i'm 18. its been nearly a month and we have had lots of arguments mostly my fault and we always make up....but its ...

To shave? Or leave it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hi...im a 14 year old girl and i have my first boyfriend now and we have been going out for a couple of months and i think he wants to have sex! i dont know what to do,do i shave off all my pubic hair?? please help...:)x ...

It feels like he just wants to do it and get it over with

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year and we used to have a very active sex life, we used to have sex practically everyday sometimes more than once a day. but in the past month we have hardly had sex at all, i think it's been ...

She's winning people over..especially him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Right ok this may sound confusing but really it is quite simple. Basically this last that aprently used to like me n i liked him, we had some awkwardnes last eyar between us. But we sorted it all out n we've been like the best of friends for these ...

Should I go for it? Or just stay friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - There’s this boy he’s 18 and I am, we met a long time back, and we really got on. Gradually we became friends, and he took me out to restaurants, and movies etc…. We had a great time, and I always did with him for some reason. Then a feeling grew ...

Did I just experience an orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I need your help girls. I need to know if this was an orgasm or not... when my bf would finger me on my clitoris I would start getting short breaths and making noises and breathing heavily and very very fast and I would grasp him very very tight... ...

Should I go out with him on Valentine's day? Any advice about us?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - You've probably heard this a thousand times. But I'm going to spill it anyway. I'm 13 and the guy I am in love with is 17. He told me he feels the same way too. But I'm not sure if I should continue this... It's gonna be a heck of a long story bu...

What do you think about this dare? I am upset!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Theres this guy in my school who i really really like. Lets call him Mark*. He's really friendly, nice and has a very warm personality. I think he likes me too because he hugs me for no reasons, compliments me, always stares at me and one time he ...

I offered to have sex with my gay friend to "turn him straight"! What now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I'm going to be 16 soon. I've known this gay friend for years now and we're really good friends. I tell him everything and vice versa. A while ago, he was really depressed because the guy he likes for a long time finally decided to tell him the ...

Crush for 3 years is free! Should I go for it?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I've had a crush on this guy for three years. They say he likes me too. It turns out he broke up with his girlfriend. Should I give it a shot or should I wait until he makes the move? ...

He has no time for a girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Ugh ok... My boyfriend is a great guy and all but he never visits me! He just DOESN'T have the TIME he says. He was in Japan for a while and he came back for a few days. I didn't even know! I had to find out that he had been home by his best friend! ...

Why is my brother taking it out on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

31 January 2009 (?) - My brother (he's 19 and I'm 15) has been acting a like a huge jerk lately. He wont talk to me or seen me in weeks. It all started when I told him that I didn't like his very (very) annoying and rude girlfriend because she gave my sister (shes 24) ...

Break the clingy habit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - How can I stop being whiny and clingy? My boyfriend and I used to be like best friends. We had the same friends and did everything together. One of our male friends and I used to be really close. We would hug and and hang out all day, it was never ...

I looked at porn and feel guilty but haven't told her I did it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (M) - Ok. i have a problem. I'm 17 and in a relationship. When i was 16 (about 5 months into the relationship) my girlfriend went away on vacation for 2 weeks. Idk if it was hormones or what, but i looked at porn. I did this twice and felt like the scum ...

Do guys know if you're a virgin when you have sex for the first time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - When you have sex for the first time, is there a different feeling for guys like do they feel you a virgin or the feeling is the same to when you are not one? Like how people say I'm tight and you loose? Is that really true?...

Is it completely wrong to think a second-cousin is physically attractive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - First of all, I'm definitely not going to pursue a damn thing when it comes to this because there are just so many factors against it. I also personally think it would be wrong to actually pursue it. But I do have a question: Is it completely wrong ...

I don't want to be the "other girl" in his life...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - hi everyone. I am in love with a guy older than me(10 years). I am about to turn 18 in March. Something really weird happened yesterday and I hope y'all would be able to help me out a bit here. Since our families are close together,he call...

Without A Word

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hi! Okay, my boyfriend felt disappointed and decided to leave for good because I said that I was moving away. I stayed a while before I decided to move away because I thought he would come back and talk to me. I came to find out that he had a new ...

My ex is playing mindgames with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hi, well me and my boyfriend have ended our 14 month relationship at the end of November last year. He emotionally ended with me while I was the one who actually said "I think we shouldnt be together any more" and he said "well if it makes you feel ...

I cream my pants randomly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Okay, so I cream my pants randomly for no reason and often. The thing is I'm getting sick of it having to wear long shirts and I'm terribly worried and too embarrassed to ask my mom. So is it normal?...

Advise me please. Should I just get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I asked this question before in the past about this guy that i've liked but here's a little detail i forgot to add in, okay well just in case some of you don't know my situation, there's this guy who i liked since last year May and before i liked ...

Best friend & I like the same boy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - me and my best friend like the same boy. but she is not the type of girl that boys like cuz she is a bit fat and tall. but im good look and he seems like he likes me but i dont want to hurt my best frends feelings by flirting wit him or goin out ...

Are my breasts normal? Ladies please advise

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hi.. I dont even know if this question is really suitable for this sort of website, but I'm pretty scared, so I need to ask somebody. Im 13 years old, and I have just found a movable lump under my nipple which is quite hard and i think I can move...

Can and will my life get better???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I don't even know where to begin. 1 - my parents turned against their own daughter. 2 - I was diagnosed with anorexia. 3 - I don't even know how to explain what I'm going through. I just wanna know if things can get better. My life is bad...

Masturbation...

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31 January 2009 (F) - I was reading about masturbation recently and I just wondered how to do it properly because some times I don't reach orgasm. I don't really want a toy yet so I just use my fingers to stimulate my clitoris, but I don't really know how to do it ...

He's not so quick to say I love you like the others...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 months now. Usually when I go out with a boy they tend to say "I love you" after like 2 weeks of going out and I usually answer I love you back always thinking that I am in love. Well, with this ...