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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I was with my ex for almost six months on and off and he was my first. He broke up with me because of commitment issues and said he really needed to concentrate on getting into law school. He insisted that we still remain friends and kept saying that he didn't want to lose me. He came over after we broke up and started hugging me and saying how much he missed me. He then made plans for us but never called and I found out he partied that same weekend. That got me furious at him and then during winter break he called me twice and texted me three times but I dint reply. I saw him the other day and we had casual conversation and he asked why I was ignoring him, I said I was really busy and he was saying how much fun he had and what he did during break. I later accidently saw him again and he was talking to two girls and as I walked by them, he just gave me a quick glance and said hi and continued to laugh with them. Its been over four months but I am still so in love with him and I have been thinking about calling him again but I know that will reverse everything and I will end up hurting again. I just feel so sad I sometimes cry for hours, whether I am with or without him. Can anyone please talk me out of this or give me advice on how to deal with my feelings for him? I have been staying busy with sports, school and have been talking to other guys, but he is still all I think about :( When will I be over this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): He seems to be a Selfish person and a kind of flirtin, in this type of case you should teach him a leason about what he did with you e.g in the bollywood film " JAB WE MET " kareena did the same thing for the person who is selfish for him. By doing this your life will be more comfortable and you will start enjoying your life again. Try to be more happy in front of him and dun waste your time by thinking and crying for him. Start a new life with this new year. Best of luck.
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