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30-35,
*angospice
writes:I started seeing a boys in July and he asked me out in November. The long and short of it is we're both really shy and even though I know he likes me and he knows I like him we're finding it hard to make the first mood.Gawd knows how Im gonna do it, but does anyone have any tips on how to make the first move (kissing-wise)?Thanks you x
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reader, mangospice +, writes (28 January 2009):
mangospice is verified as being by the original poster of the question lol I like the sound of them... slightly cheesy lol but good ideas.
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (27 January 2009):
 Mango Spice,
First off, Thanks for writing back. Getting feedback is rare on this board.
I agree that working through friends has certain drawbacks. It has been a very long time since I was your age but I think I can dredge up a few tricks That I have seen girls do to get a kiss.
One I recall quite clearly was when the girl pretended to have something in her eye. This is very effective at getting the guy in the right position. Especially if he is a bit taller than her(3+ inches). She needs to hold onto his waist for support as she leans her head back so he can look into her eye. When he is in position you can miraculously claim that it has got better. But don't let go just pucker up.
When i saw that one done it failed because there was too much audience and the guy was a bit dense.
Mistletoe is out of season for another 11 months.
There is always the guess what flavor my lip gloss is ploy. Don't admit his guess is right or wrong, make him test it himself. That one goes back to the 50's.
Do those sound like something you could do?
Good luck
FA
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reader, mangospice +, writes (27 January 2009):
mangospice is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank for the advice, but my friends keep sticking their nose in like that, we wouldnt have even held hands if it weren't for them. They literally force him on me bless him
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (26 January 2009):
I had a girlfriend when I was your age who had the same problem with me. She told a friend who told my friend, Who told me. Then the three of them set up a time where we (me and her) would be alone. It sounds so cliche now, but it was effective and I'll never forget it.
FA
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reader, Romeo Wife  +, writes (26 January 2009):
 Lol, I used to be really shy too!
If you're realy shy then you should make things more comfortable for both you and him, perhaps by going somewhere where you two can have fun together so that you can feel more comfortable around him, it's very important that you see him as a friend too!
When you're shy there is a little voice in your head that questions every little thing you do, don't listen to that voice just simply listen to your heart and it will allow you to know what you should or shouldnt do regardless of what you think he might or might not think of it! Just be comfortable and see him as a real close friend to him, make jokes, hold his hand when you two are together...you'll get there....do it all in your own little way...i'm sure that it will work hehehe!
Good luck!!
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