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writes:HeyWell this mey be kind of long but this is more something i need 2 get off my chest rather than a qustion.When i was younger i used to be quite popular in my class at school, but i have a older sister and she was always coming top in class so that what i thought i should do as i was still really young about 6 maybe 7. So i did the same came top and that in class but when i was odler about 10 i regreted that so much and i still do.I got fed up of being called geeky and all that so when i was 13 i went for a complete change. Got my hair done, started to wear proper make up and changed what i wore to school. You may think thats weird but it made me alot happier. And now i keep getting comments on how much i hav changed.However the repuatation i had from when i was at primary still haunts me. I never been bullied or anything like that but the reputation i have wont go away.I do not what else to do now im not the same i was then yet people dont seem to see that. How can i get rid of my repuation from the past ?
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reader, mrflip  +, writes (26 January 2009):
Why would you regret being geeky? Focusing on your popularity is absolutely the WRONG way to go. You should focus on being at the top of your class. For a lot of women, how to be popular is all they learn in school. When that's over, they spend the rest of their lives trying unsuccessfully to regain their former glory and looking for well-to-do men to support them. You should avoid all this and do what is right for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsorry for any typing errors i was typing it quite fast
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