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Teenage: Help and advice

Precum equals Pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex yesterday he told after that he was scared when i asked why he said he did pull out but not when he pre cumed.. can i get pregnate from precum?...

Did I do the right thing cutting him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Last Friday my boyfriend and I broke up. He was the first guy I ever really loved and I was completely heartbroken. He broke up with me because he's been having a tough time at home lately and he's been accidently taking his anger out on me. He said ...

I just wanna know how to get over someone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I don't know how to explain this so I'm just gonna say it. I've had some problems in the best with relationships because I seem to always fall insanely 'in love' with the wrong people - and it drives me insane because I can't get over them until ...

I don't know how to split up with my b/f

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - So basically I want to split up with my boyfriend but I don't know how. I've spoken to a couple of friends about it and they both have very different opinions. One friend thinks I should just it over and done with as soon as possible as I've wanted ...

Flirt & Fail? How to dodge love betrayals

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 13 and I need love advice. I have been flirted with time and again by several girls. They all say I'm cute or something, but deep down, I don't believe that they're telling the truth. For a few examples, I asked a girl out, and the next day ...

I heard you can cum inside a girl and she won't get pregnant?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - I really need your advice here aunts and everyone else. So my g/f is virgin and me too and we will have sex when we both feel ready for it, it won't be very soon though because we both want to take out time. My question is: I know the first time i ...

I can't seem to trust him fully!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - so im in love.. and hes in love with me. but i just cant seem to trust him fully.. like i do trust him but if i see a girl talking to him online or on his phone then i just get scared.. i mean i talk to guys and he gets mad.. but i just dont wanna ...

Worried what others will think of my crush-its niece of my sister's boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - Hi im a 17 year old boy and im love with this girl. She's 14 and i absolutley gorgeous. but the only problem is she's my sisters boyfriends neice so im worried that my family and her family would be disgusted by "incest" even though i know it...

What is ingrown pubic hair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (?) - ok i have a simple question, what is ingrowth pubic hair??? ive seen some people talking about on here and was wondering what it was....and if i have it too thxz...

Hair style suggestion for prom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Hey guys hope everyones okay :) After being forced to grow my hair (which I now have) I find myself in a dilemma. The reason behind growing it is my prom coming up soon. But I don't know how to have it. Can anyone suggest any sites or styles t...

I'm a virgin but don't want to be!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - So, im sixteen and a virgin. I really really dont want to be. Im totally ready but im not sure how to make it happpen. Im not one of those girls who makes a big deal but it just hasnt happened. I don't have a boyfriend and when i do, it usually ...

What ways are there to help explain to her that I did not mean to violate her trust and what can I do to help bring our friendship back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Yesterday, I was at a party at my friend's house. Everyone was really drunk, and making out. My friend and her ex-boyfriend hooked up (all the way) and then she got mad after and went to sleep. I'm friends with the ex, so I followed him out to the ...

I don't know... Am I overreacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, I'm writing to you guys for relationship advice. For the past few days I've been really upset with my boyfriend because on thursday he wanted me to come over an spend time with him and I did. He practially rushed me to come over and...

Can my best friend and I be dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - dear cupid, Can my best friend and I be dating? We recently became best friends because she ask me to. shes about 15 and im almost 16 year old. she has been dumped by her bf like last week, and she confuse about her feelings. So she tell me abou...

What happens to the cum???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (?) - I really want to know... okay I'm a 14 year old kid and was just curious about this... when a guy has sex with a girl without a condom, and cums inside her.. where does the cum go, does her vagina obsorb it or somethng? What happens to the cum?? ...

Do circumcised guys make better lovers?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

24 January 2009 (?) - This question is strictly for the ladies, but guys can input on the matter if you'd like. My question to the ladies is... would you like a guy to have foreskin, in other words to be uncircumsized... cuz lately Iv'e been really insecure about that ...

How should I approach him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - dear cupid I have a crush on this boy and my friend who is also mates with him said he wants to talk to me. I saw him on Wednesday and I was "on the phone" and my friend said he kept looking at me and looked as if he really wanted to talk . ...

I hate to see my dad so sad, how do I get over this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Hey, I need some advice. Recently, (in August of 2008) my aunt (dad's sister) passed away from suicide. I was never really close to her, so I didn't cry or anything at the funeral. The thing that bothers me is that my mom made a slide show with ...

What's it mean when you have a period an extra day after you're supposed to be done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - What's it mean when you have a period an extra day after you're supposed to be done? I usually have my period for 7 days, and yesterday was my 7th day, but today i'm still having it. Is something wrong with me?...

Problems with my dad...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - When I was 12-15 my dad would beat me up regularly. He was very abusive and I had no one to turn to. My friends were there for me but as soon as I would be at home, contact would have to stop. This lead to me and my dad being enemies, not talking ...

I need your advice guys... I'm confused about my sexuality...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - Well here we go I'm 13 years old and I have this girlfriend for 8 months, we get into fights a lot and we have broken up 2 times. I am really happy with her we mess around when we see each othere but.... summer of 2008 I saw my sister's guy friend ...

I don't want to hurt him at all I just am not happy in the relationship and I'm torn on whether or not to end it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Heya so I am 16 and have been going out with my boyfriend for around 3 months. Recently I have not been feeling the 'feelings' I used to towards him and we have been having multiple fights as well. It's very on and of. The thing is, is that when i ...

Opinions!!! My boyfriend wants to watch me with another man - healthy and normal??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Me and my man michael have been togther almost 5 months ever since we hit about 3 months he has been asking me to have a threesome with another man and him i dont feel comfortable i did it like 4 or 5 times thinking he would give it up but he told ...

My lost love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - I've been with this girl over a year now and I'm 15, she used to love me until we had this massive breakup, I'm pretty much in love with her and we're now back together, but it's been a month since the argument and I've been so much of a better ...

I don't think he wants me anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Ma bf has just told me tht this girl who he ust to fancy is talking to him. He said to me that he asked her owt ages ago and she sed no and she just sed she regrets it. Then he just asked me what would I say if he went and met her and i sed well a ...

New sex stuff?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - The age shown is not my real age I am 17. Me n me bf like to try new sexual stuff. Any ideas from a female and male perspective ( if thts how you spell it) on what to say and do to make my bf more horney? Thanks...

In FWB with Ex, now he wants a relationship again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I'm 17 years old and in a fwb relationship with my ex, who has now become one of my best friends. he calls me almost every night and we see each other as often as we can, and most of the time its just to hang out and talk, not to have sex. in the ...

Do I tell my teacher I love her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - So, it'll be a year next friday since I fell in love with my teacher, she's a girl and so am I, and she's approximately 15 years older than me. I'm 15 and I leave school just before my 18th birthday in about 2 and a half years time. I know it'...

I guess I'm not the only girl in his life..what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - ive finally talked to my online boyf he was in hospital after gettin really hyper wen he found that we got contact again and fell down the stairs we talked and he sounded ok but wen i said i wanna b there for u he asked me why? i told him because ...

I gained a little weight could that make my period late?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - well...basically im 13 and i started my period about 3 months ago and i start it around the 18th...the problem is i havent had it this month. I HAVENT HAD SEX the only thing that has changed is i gained a little wait over xmas...is this normal?...

Did she change her mind? Very confusing situation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - hey well i met this chick the other night and she was like telling me straight up that she thinks im cute and that she thinks i have gorgeous eyes n stuff n we were at this socail thing watchin a movie n we sat togther n talkd n yer hangd all ...

We like each other and kissed but she doesn't know if she wants to go out with me. Is she being awkward??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - right.... me and her have liked each other for ages, ahes told me, i told her. we went out the other day, and we kissed (more than once). after i asked her out and she just said i dunno. and then later i asked her about it on msn and she said i ...

I'm in a weird situation and really don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - i was in a 4 year relationship with my ex charles when i became friends with nicholas, he was dating a girl named lizzy who he recently got pregnant about 9 months ago. we became really close and over the summer we had our first kiss, it felt ...

I like my brothers best friend but my brother isn't happy about it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

24 January 2009 (?) - ok.. so I am nineteen and I really like this guy who is 32. I've dated older guys before but this guy happens to be my brothers best friend. My brother is always saying things like "stay away from my sister" and it just makes everything awkward. I ...

What do guys think of red heads and freckles?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I have red hair and freckles and sometimes i'm self conscience about them because i feel "different" per say. What are male opinions about red heads?...

B/f refusing B J

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - So, my boyfriend and i have been practicing oral for a while, as me on him. And when i am on my period i still like to treat him even though he cannot treat me. Today i asked him if he wanted to and he said not today... and that he had to use the ...

Safest time to have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I've noticed that i get very horny right before i get my period. and my boyfriend and i are sexually active, and i was wondering when is the best time to have sex? like, the most safe with a condom of course. right before my period or right after?...

Hes got a reputation as a player..should I make a move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I met this guy who's 2 years older than me, and he has the reputation as a 'player' but all my friends tell me that hes obviously interested. and i've hung out with him a few times. but we only talked those times, and he always asks me to hang out ...

I stuff my bra, don't want any guy touching me there

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - so basically, i dont mind if a guy touches me anywhere, but since i stuff my bra, i dont really like them to touch my breasts... and im scared that my boyfriend will want to touch me there, and be confused if i say that he can touch me anywhere else ...

I never came during sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - i have never came during sex and i'm in love with this guy i've been whith for a long time... what should i do???...

Nothing left to talk about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I've been friends with this guy for about 6 months, we would always go to the mall or the library and sit and talk for...hours? But lately the conversation has been going dry, I feel like he knows everything about me, vice versa. So during school we ...

IF I have sex will a doctor know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Okay, I've been dating this guy for a year now, I'm in love with him. Like any woman who is physically attracted to someone, I want him. SOOO bad. I've never wanted someone so bad. I know we'll be together 'forever' or else I'd never con...

How can I make him love me through the telephone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - hey my guy he lives in usa he is study there he will back after 2 years and he's perfect and i realy like him but how can i make him fall in love by telephone sometime i feel like he calls me cos he wants to talk and he dosn't care about me bu...

Valentine gift ideas for a guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Ok, my boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month now and Valentine's Day is coming up. If it helps, I've known him for a few years, so he's also like my best friend. My question is, What should I get him for Valentine's Day??...

My b/f is flirting with another girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

24 January 2009 (?) - My boyfriend likes to flirt with all the girls so I am used to it. But there is this one girl that he really likes and she likes him. He says he doesn't like her yet, but according to my friends, he flirts and hangs all over her whenever I'm not ...

How long to have an orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - How long does it take for you to achieve an orgasm? (specifically for girls, but guys can answer too)...

He hasn't contacted me in 4 weeks??!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - We’ve been together for 3 months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me everyday..last time i saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him... and I told him That hes ...

I wanna fall back in love with her but I don't feel it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - I am 15 years old my girlfriend loves me more than anything in da world she writes me poems and everything things come between us like her parents and not going to same school but we talk everyday i think bout girls in a bad way but i wanna stop i ...

Girl's opinion please..she acted interested but then ignored me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - There is this girl who is totally into me she had been giving all sorts of signs. After flirting for as couple months i decided to ask her out.She said what would we do since im not allowed to drive for a month. i said that i could make it work. she ...