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Archived questions from: February, 2016 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I caught some feelings for a guy who I think is playing me and its destroying me. What am I left to do, why do I feel the way I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

29 February 2016 (F) - My purpose of this q is to find out WHY I feel what I do, so I can find the reason and put a stop to it. I cannot be in love. So what is it? I am tired of this sorrow and hurt but I don’t know what it IS. I’m hung up on a guy who I had sexual r...

We kissed on our last date. Should I stay with her, even though I am not attracted to her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

27 February 2016 (?) - Dating a girl I'm not completely attracted to? I met this girl on a dating app and we've been on two dates so far. I like her personality so far and think shes kind of pretty but I'm not as attracted to her like I was with other girls I've da...

Am I a bad person, for now just wanting to have casual sex since a breakup?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

27 February 2016 (F) - I have recently been dumped by my boyfriend of three years and I'm relieved about it as he didn't treat me very well and did some things that were awful by anyone's standards. But I'm having a bit of a freak out thinking I will always just give ...

Should I have sex with him finally?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

25 February 2016 (F) - There's this guy who knows how to flirt really well with women...I don't think he's ever cheated, or that he's really a player, but he's good with getting women comfortable with him. So like everyone else I think I may be really starting to like...

My boyfriend would rather go into the bathroom and wank off than to touch me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

23 February 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 yrs and he won't touch me sexually he'd much rather go into the bathroom and lock the door and watch other females and he chats with them and tells them that he wants to go down on them and then make love ...

He just wanted to hook up...why is he texting me ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3178 days ago

22 February 2016 (F) - I posted a thread about a guy who was giving the impression that he just wanted sex and subsequently disappeared when I made it clear that I'm looking for someone to date . Here is recap of this saga -I met a guy when I was out and he gave me h...

Why does he get an erection when touching himself but not when I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - Why does he get erection when touching himself but not when I'm touching him? ...

What suggestions can help me in my situation ? Pregnant and with an abusive husband

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - I am 29 years old and married since two years. Also I am 6 months pregnant with our first kid. My husband Ill treats me. He used to do so before my pregnancy and many a times I had thought of leaving him. But now after I got pregnant he had ...

My troubled marriage makes me fantasize about someone else and want to cheat

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - I have been in a realtionship with my husband for 8 years. It has been rocky due to his demeanor, tone, and language. He's never taken stress well and he's had problems with little romances (not sure if sexual or non-sexual). He tried to cheat on ...

I feel as if I'm not enough for him. What's wrong, in that he needs porn before he can climax, when we have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 3 months, its only a short time but i really do love him However in the past week or so we have had some issues when having sex! The past 4 or 5 times we have had sex he has been un able to cum just from sex...

I'm too conscious about my body to take my shirt off during sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3203 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just under 3 months we have been having sex for the last month, however I keep my top on. I had lost 40kg (80lbs) over the last 5 years and my breasts and tummy sag. He has been so patient and supportive for my ...

I'm bisexual, yet why do I orgasm faster with female partners than with men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3203 days ago

19 February 2016 (M) - From when i was about 14 i knew i liked men, i use to have cheeky self pleasures to gay porn and love it. As i got older i followed the 'normal' path, got a girlfriend and then came the night of losing my v, i panicked, what if i can't get it up i ...

Am I wrong for over reacting when my ex asks me daily whether I'm on my period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3203 days ago

19 February 2016 (?) - My ex asks me every single day whether I am on my period yet. He butters me up before he does it, asks me how I am, calls me beautiful, says he wishes we were still happy together before he pops the question. Its either: "Are you on yet?" "Are you ...

I feel guilty but I want to move on from my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3178 days ago

19 February 2016 (?) - Me and my ex broke up after two years due to me not being able to trust him from the 1 year point, he wouldn't let me have him on facebook due to us having such an on and off relationship, he started hiding the fact that he was with me and I saw him ...

Frustrated love life. Is it true that some people truly are unlucky in love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

19 February 2016 (F) - Bad luck with love! Is it true that some people are unlucky with love? Finding the "one"? Having a serious relationship and growing old together? I'm starting to think I'm going to have that problem. I'm turning 25 soon and I've only ha...

The problem is that after ten years of marriage we never have sex !! How to deal with this stress?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3204 days ago

18 February 2016 (F) - I need some help. I've been with my husband now for 10 years. I'm 27 and he is 43. Obviously there is an age gap but it has never been an issue up until now. The problem is sex. We never have it. Its very rare and he says its because of stres...

My future MIL thinks we should get checked out because after 3 years together we still haven't gotten pregnant

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3204 days ago

18 February 2016 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 years now we are getting married this year... We have had unprotected sex for at least 3 years. If we get pregnant that great if we don’t that is still okay as we are 25 and 26 so there’s time. But his ...

My new boyfriend has a low sex drive

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

18 February 2016 (F) - I look after myself and love sex and intimacy. I have met a guy who after a few attempts admits he has ED and it feels numb and he hardly masturbates. It caused a rift in his marriage and viagra didnt work and his hormone levels are normal. I ha...

My married boyfriend is acting distant but he still wants to be with me. I am not sure what's going on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

18 February 2016 (F) - Please no judgment. I have been having an affair with a married man for close to 3 years. It's been amazing. But lately he seems a little more distant. His texts are less frequent and shorter. He says he is just being cautious. He sexted me ...

Boyfriend demanded sex, I refused and broke up with him. I'm confused!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship now but not up to a year, truly when we first started I did not have feelings for him but wit time that we both get to know each other so well that I fall for him. after like three month of our dating ...

Where do I draw the line with LDR BF who is becoming provocative and sexually disrespectful?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3206 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - Hi there, I’m after some advice about a new relationship. It’s long distance and we met online. He’s a bit older than me and has been married before. He’s not really my type but pursued me, was incredibly lovely to me at the beginning, we ha...

No sex and he's suffering

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3206 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - How important is sex in a marriage? I suffer from dyspareunia and because of this I'm not interested in sex at all. My husband understands my situation but I can see that he is suffering. What should I do? I don't get horny at all. The thought of ...

Have I already given my ex too many chances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3206 days ago

17 February 2016 (M) - I have been in and out of a relationship with a girl for about 7 years now. We met back in high school. Back in Dec 2014 I proposed to her but she said no. Shortly after I found out that she was having sex with one of her co-workers. she ...

Am I crazy to want sex with my ex- lover?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3207 days ago

16 February 2016 (F) - Sex with ex- what is wrong with me! We both know this 'relationship' will not progress beyond sexual stuff. So why do I crave sex with him? Will it fizzle out on its own? Will it hinder my meeting someone new that I can build a future with? Saw him ...

She gives oral sex but won't let me return the favor. Will she ever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

16 February 2016 (M) - A female friend of mine have been sexually open with each other for a while. Well, mainly sexually open with me. It's fun being able to talk and share on a sexual level, and she loves to help pleasure me through masturbation or oral. I love it...

Was I always the side chick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

16 February 2016 (F) - So me and this guy were dating for around 7 months we had gotten back together after we stopped talking for 6 years. He Brooke up with me about a week and a half ago and he's already got a new girlfriend. When he broke up with me I had accused ...

Is it normal to be turned on that your wife slept with other guys before you met her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3207 days ago

15 February 2016 (M) - When I met my new wife I had just gotten divorced. I had only been with my ex-wife so didn't have much experience. My new wife had been married twice and had two children. I'm not overly endowed so I was very nervous about having sex with her for ...

33 year old wife being hit on by a couple

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3206 days ago

15 February 2016 (F) - oman, my husband took a promotion at work to get into management. I didn't understand why he needed to take it because he gets the jobs that no one else wants and is constantly away from home for long periods of time. This has put a strain on our ...

Hw came in my mouth and it left a burning sensation. How long does that last?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

15 February 2016 (F) - Hi, I'm 22 aND my bf and I gave our virginity to each other last yr. We only have had sex once sinxe and he pulled out before he ejaculatd. The other night I gave him a bj and he came in my mouth. He didn't givea warning aND held my head down so ...

Could I get pregnant this way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

15 February 2016 (F) - Hey all! so, I am a 35 year old married woman- hubby and I dont want kids. I have been on the pill for 10 years and a few months I had to quit because my body was starting to feel the stress. Hubby and I have been using condoms since. Lately, ...

Can I get pregnant from boyfriend having sex then taking off condom and putting himself back into me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3206 days ago

15 February 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been stupid and need help. Me and my boyfriend were fooling around last week after having a drink and had sex (this isn't our first time) but afterwards we joked about having children and he put it back in as a joke without a ...

Is masturbation interfering with our sex life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

14 February 2016 (M) - I've been pretty addicted to masturbation/porn since I was 16-17. I'm now 28 and married. I still masturbate about 1-2 times a day, I fear it's affecting my sex life. In the past 6months I've begun to notice that I have trouble keep an erection...

My mom doesn't want me to sleep with my boyfriend yet but I've already done it 5 times!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

11 February 2016 (F) - But if a weird question here, just looking for advice. I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months now (we're both 17) and we started sleeping together after 2 months but only when I've gone to his house and I'm not allowed to stay over at ...

I really like online sex shows. Will this lead down a bad path?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

11 February 2016 (M) - Hello Aunties! I don't want to use the word addicted, but I recently discovered online sex shows where women interact in sexy ways for just a few dollars. They will strip down and talk dirty to me. Most of them are REALLY young (19-20) and at m...

What's going on with me, and with us? We are FWB, but we can't get enough of each other.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3212 days ago

10 February 2016 (M) - I have a woman that I absolutely LOVE to have sexual relations with, I mean, I feel almost addictive about it. We are friends, and we hang out. But the sexual tension is unlike anything I've ever experienced before and our sex is just unbelievable. ...

I have a foot fetish and want to suck my wife's toes. How do I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3213 days ago

10 February 2016 (M) - Might be a weird question to some.. I have a foot fetish, I would love to suck on my wife's toes during sex but for fear of looking weird I never told her. 6yrs later we are married and I still would like to do this. But how do I bring it up with...

Is it a turn off if a girl has a very high sex drive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3212 days ago

10 February 2016 (F) - Hi all, I have a slightly weird question. I'm 18 and have a very high sex drive, I have a boyfriend if 4 months and he is now realising how horny I am. At the minute he seems fine with it but Id just like to ask is it a turnoff? I'm literally ...

Does being friends with benefits ever work out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 February 2016 (M) - I am a 42 year old single man. One of my best friends is a 33 year old single woman. We have never been romantic in any way but recently my friend told me in a joking way that she would give me oral sex if I took care of some things around her hous...

Are the scenes of sexual romance real?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3213 days ago

9 February 2016 (F) - Are guys in relationships always tryna fuck? Are the scenes of sexless romance real? I ask this cause I'm separated from my ex but we still live together. We are focused on our separate goals and have agreed we don't want to give romantically to the ...

How do I break my luck with women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

8 February 2016 (?) - Is it possible to be happy with your life as a man and be a virgin? I feel like I have a cloud over my life because women dont find me attractive enough to have sex with. I've tried many ways to improve my confidence and it all seems to be temp...

Are these noises normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3213 days ago

7 February 2016 (F) - Hi im 22 yrs. I jst want to knw what causes ur vagina to make noises during sex when ur sleeping with ur partner?...

What are possible reasons why my Bf and I are having these difficulties when having sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

6 February 2016 (F) - Hello I have recently begun my first sexual relationship and I just need some help? I've had sex with my boyfriend 4 times now and each time he's struggled to get it in? It's not being too dry that's an issue but maybe I'm too wet? I don't know but ...

What are reliable methods of contraception other than condoms?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3203 days ago

5 February 2016 (F) - Hello, Please I need some advice here. I've been with my bf for about 2 years now.we haven't had sex. We are both virgins. Now we both want to have sex but I'm afraid of getting pregnant. He suggested that we should use condom but I don't think I'...

Is it cheating or just a friend thing????

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3217 days ago

5 February 2016 (F) - Hi i have a serious question. First, I have a friend that I text behind my boyfriend's back. My friend is someone i met at work like some of my other friends. But some how he is a close friend cuz of the things we like. He knows i have a boyfriend n ...

Does it make one a terrible person if he or she does not want to see someone else because they've been together with too many people sexually?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3217 days ago

4 February 2016 (F) - Does it make one a terrible person if he or she does not want to see someone else because they've been together with too many people sexually? My boyfriend said it doesn't and shouldn't matter, but I feel like I wouldn't want to be with someone who ...

How do women find men who want them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

4 February 2016 (F) - I do not know how to really say this but I am 18, I am a virgin and I have never actually been kissed. I want these things, I want to be kissed, I want to have sex. But I cannot find anyone who wants me? I want a relationship but I have never had...

Would a guy invest his time for texting almost every hour and everyday only to get sex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

4 February 2016 (F) - Hello everyone! I am wondering, if a guy would invest his time for texting almost every hour and everyday only to get sex (my fear)? I don't know him in real life, we met online. He's charming and all that stuff. We've been texting about ...

Shouldn't sex be lasting longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3219 days ago

4 February 2016 (F) - Hey, me and my boyfriend have recently taken our relationship to the next step: sex. The only problem is that, while i found it very enjoyable, he only managed 10 minutes which was a little disappointing. I was a virgin and it had been a while for ...

I'm worried my inexperience might scare him off!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3220 days ago

3 February 2016 (F) - I am just starting oral sex with my boyfriend, i have only given it to him a couple of times and hes the first guy ive ever tried this with. He has been telling me ive been doing good but he is more experienced than i am so i am worried he may just ...

Is she not very sexually experienced and I'm just manipulative?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3220 days ago

3 February 2016 (M) - So I've been seeing this girl for a month now- I am very sexual with her but just over the weekend we had unprotected sex and I came inside her.. She was pretty nervous afterwards but we kept doing it for the next 4 days. We have basically fallen in ...