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writes:Hi,I'm 22 aND my bf and I gave our virginity to each other last yr. We only have had sex once sinxe and he pulled out before he ejaculatd. The other night I gave him a bj and he came in my mouth. He didn't givea warning aND held my head down so I couldn't avoid it and had to swallow. His semen left a burning in my throat. Why? Is it normal? How long does it last.?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 February 2016):
 Are you okay with the fact that he forcefully kept your head down and didn't warn you he was going to do that in your mouth? This is very disturbing behavior to me. I think you need to make it clear to him that this is not acceptable in anyway. This must be very distressing for you. Are you sure this is the relationship you want to be in? You need to talk to your boyfriend about his actions. Get yourself to a clinic to get checked out if you are still burning, as it is not normal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2016): It's normal that semen burns the throat. It's happened to me. I've never swallowed but have tasted it at times and it burns my throat. So yes it's normal. I do not, however, know why this happens.
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (15 February 2016):
 Is it possible that he could have used some sort of soap or lotion that you were sensitive to? I know some women are allergic to semen, so it could also be a possibility. As the other aunts have expressed it could even be that because he forced your head down that maybe your throat is just irritated? Please get it checked out if it continues.
I find it distressing that he forced your head down. That's rude and disrespectful. Think it over carefully if you want a guy like that in your life. Perhaps its because he is inexperienced and was just excited? I don't know but you would be very wise to make it clear what you will and WILL NOT tolerate. IF a man did that to me, it would be his first and ONLY BJ. I expect to be treated with respect at all times. You should too sweetie.!
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reader, MissKin  +, writes (15 February 2016):
 Well I think he is rubbish for holding your head down and not warning you - a sign he is not considerate. I don't care how much people say they lose themselves in the moment it is still absolute rubbish.
If he was forcing your head to stay down and he was down your throat, the strain of gagging, trying to pull away, straining against it etc could have caused a sore throat. It should pass after a few days as it's an area that heals quickly. If nor consult a doctor
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2016): excuse my language but that was a dick hole move on his part. moderators, if my language is what makes you not want to post this please feel free to fix it because it's important I think she hears this.he had no right to hold your head down, which forced you to swallow. at best, that was extremely disrespectful. I have had several guys tell me, including my boyfriend, that they do try to warn me ahead of time but sometimes it comes faster than they expect.male posters, is this true? I'm willing to believe that to a point because my current boyfriend, who feels hurt I don't swallow, and he always pulls out was in a mild panic and asking me what are my chances of getting pregnant right after my period because he came in me a little when he got caught off guard. However, he mostly came on my stomach and asked me to pee right away and probably take a shower to clean that out. he apologized profusely and he has never never never held my head down.as for the burning sensation,I have had some cum stains look like they bleached my sheets a little. male female might ought to explain that one. I totally agree that there are avery few women out there who are allergic to or sensitive to cum. Or it could be he ate something you're allergic or sensitive to.Definitely go to a dr or women's clinic asap, even if the burning goes away. And please, make it clear to him that he has no right to push your head down. Ever
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (15 February 2016):
 Maybe you are allergic to semen ( and if he has never ejaculated inside you, you would not have noticed ). That's the only thing I can come up with, since no, semen does not give a burning sensation.
Or , do you have food allergies ? Are you particularly sensitive to any food ? Because ( less probable but still possible ) you could be allergic to something HE ate.
If it still burns tomorrow, consult your doctor.Better safe than sorry.
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