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writes: Might be a weird question to some..I have a foot fetish, I would love to suck on my wife's toes during sex but for fear of looking weird I never told her. 6yrs later we are married and I still would like to do this. But how do I bring it up without it making her freak out? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, chigirl +, writes (10 February 2016):
I don't see why this should freak her out. It's not harmful or damaging. Go for it. If you are too embarrassed to talk to your own wife about this, then maybe you and her need to work on the communication? Or maybe you are not the talking types? If action is better, then just start working your way down slowly, night by night. In the end you'll be down at her feet, do your thing, and just see how she reacts.
Be warned though, it can be ticklish. Don't go straight for it, work your way down there and pay close attention to her expression and sounds to get the right pressure. Just right = great feeling. Too light = ticklish!!!! Too hard = ouch!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (10 February 2016):
Just TELL her! It's not weird at all! I dated a guy who had a serious foot fetish, and to me, it was one of the most awesome things in the world! The guy worshiped feet, and as a result, gave the best foot massages I've ever had....for hours! I didn't care what he did with my feet when it felt *that* good! A spectacular foot massage is *almost* better than sex!
I was lucky not to be that ticklish, so there's that caveat, and he didn't use his teeth on me, which was also good. I also reciprocated *with* my feet as well, so she may get as adventurous with you as you want her to be.
Just talk to her. Tell her that her feet seriously turn you on, and see how she feels. A foot fetish is one both of you can greatly benefit from!
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reader, Ivyblue +, writes (10 February 2016):
No, not weird at all. I can see just how appealing a well manicured foot or pair can be a turn on. No different to being turned on by a personality the way I see it. She is your wife man, why should you not be able to tell her even better why do you have to tell her, cant you just include it in a sensual way where she probably wouldn't even think otherwise? The main problem I could imagine would be whether or not she is ticklish? If you really really feel the need to bring it up, I would imagine a light hearted approach of telling her she has the most sexiest feet, so good they are worth wanting to eat and take it from there? Sorry but thats all I got?
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