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writes:Hello,Please I need some advice here. I've been with my bf for about 2 years now.we haven't had sex. We are both virgins. Now we both want to have sex but I'm afraid of getting pregnant. He suggested that we should use condom but I don't think I'm gonna like it. So please what other means can one prevent getting pregnant other than using condoms. Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2016): Thanks for your answers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2016): Funnily enough... withdrawal is at least as effective as condoms when done correctly. Trouble is, it's much more difficult to do that and it also doesn't do a damn thing for STDs.
Condoms are the cheapest and easiest, though they can be a mood breaker when you have to stop and open one up and put it on, but less mood breaking than a surprise pregnacy or a sudden case of crotch rot.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (6 February 2016):
 Chastity has worked for me....
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2016): I agree with Ivyblue, head down to a sexual health clinic and they'll be able to give you more information and more options.
Although, no other contraception will protect you against STDs/STIs, not saying your partner has one but it doesn't hurt to be careful! So even if you did go on the pill or anything else, it would be wise to STILL use a condom alongside it
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reader, Ivyblue  +, writes (6 February 2016):
 Condom preference is a personal thing. Some like it, some don't. So i would 't rule it out until you have tried it. Generally, if used properly are a good choice. When I say properly I mean: In date, put on properly and if needed lubricant like KY for example. You could have an implant in your arm, oral contraception, female condom, IUD etc. There are loads of things out there on the market but not all work well with your body. Some can have side effects while others don't. My advice is go see your GP or Sexual Health Clinic to see what best suits you. Take your bf along too because it is not entirely your responsibility when it comes to contraception just your responsibility to not to forget to take it or go ahead with protection in the heat of the moment situations- and they do happen! Just be aware that the withdrawal method is a is probably the WORST choice. The risk is far too high.
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