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Archived questions from: January, 2014 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

He seemed genuine in his texts but when we met up he only wanted one thing!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - Hello, so confused. I've been talking to this guy for about a week, the conversation was going good andhe kept asking if we could meet up normally I dont meet them straight away I l like to talk to them for a couple of weeks first. However he seeme...

After premature ejaculation with sex workers, I'm worried I wouldn't be able to satisfy a future girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3942 days ago

31 January 2014 (M) - I have never been in a romantic relationship with a woman due to the fact that I tend to be painfully she around women in general. I can only attribute this to the fact that I suffer from a learning disability which has greatly impeded my social ...

Is the guy I'm dating a sex addict?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - I am concerned that the guy I met online and I am currently dating is possibly a sex addict! I've ignored some obscenities and red flags but now I am confused!!! I like him very much but I can't help but to be concerned with his preoccupation with ...

Girlfriend keeps pressuring me to perform oral and I hate it.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3947 days ago

31 January 2014 (M) - I don't know how to say all this without coming out like an asshole but please hear me out. My girlfriend keeps pressuring me to go down on her because she goes down on me but I really don't want to. I've tried it before with several girls ...

My boyfriend is circumcised and takes too long to orgasm. Sex hurts me. What can we do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - 6 months of horrible sex. I am dating a men that is (''cut'') he is the first one I have dated. It is like his penis is desensitise, he thrusts and pounds during sex as if my vagina was made of steel, he takes very long to orgasm and I get sore a...

What does it mean if she's afraid when I tell her that I love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

30 January 2014 (M) - I have the misfortune of loving a 55 year old woman who was traumatically, emotionally abused in a 30 year long marriage, until she became so frightened of him she managed to leave and divorce him. She is now divorced for 3 years. She was also ...

I can't seem to hit a girl's g spot

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

30 January 2014 (M) - i have 6.2 inch penis 4.5 inch straight and and around 2 inch slight down curve.. i had sex with thirteen different girl but i never get any negative comment but i still fell insecure because i think i m not able to satisfy and make girls orgasm in ...

I'm not so interested in sex and I'm afraid my boyfriends desires will lead him to cheat

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - Hiya aunts and uncles, my fiancé of 4 months and dating for 3 years has been talking in his sleep and has expressed the same concerns in his waking hours. He is 26 and im 23 on valentines day. well, its like this: he doesn't feel like we are inti...

Confused about my boyfriend's intentions...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - I have a boyfriend, our relationship started before 5 months, I never new him, we met on the whatsapp. He proposed me within 6 days, without any meeting, now we just met at once in 5 months and had sex 1 time. Till now he didn't proposed for marriage...

Intimacy in the relationship has declined. Is it the beginning of the end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Will this relationship work? I feel his feelings for me are over. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years, 4 of those years we were happy I remember him being in love with me. During our 4th year I got pregnant with a baby girl, no...

In love with a woman who's in a relationship and it's driving me crazy. I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

29 January 2014 (M) - Hello to all, I have a problem and I could need some advice. Can't talk with anyone around me about this problem.... Eight months ago I added an old classmate on Facebook. We started chatting on Facebook. She is in a relationship (7 years). ...

Should people in a relationship discuss their sexual past? I'm uncomfortable hearing about boyfriend's past.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

29 January 2014 (?) - Hi everyone, I had a question and I hope you can answer. If you are in a relationship with someone, is it alright to ask about their sexual past? My boyfriend was telling me about the women he has been with and it made me a little uneasy. H...

I'm worried about my friend being lonely

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

29 January 2014 (?) - Hi all, Lately I have been very busy but I have a new man in my life. He is so nice to me and attentive. He tells me he loves me and misses me every day. I recently put some space between me and my guy friend because he has some anxiety and mental ...

I've been feeling really ashamed of myself about some things and I wondered if I could have some reassurance or honesty

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - Hey, I am a 17 year old girl and I've been feeling really ashamed of myself about some things and I wondered if I could have some reassurance or honesty. I wouldn't consider myself as slutty because I'm not that kind of person, I have morals, ...

My boyfriend never initiates sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

28 January 2014 (?) - Dear agony aunts and uncles I am having a slight problem with my bf he never initiates sex. We have been together for almost a year and I can remember only about five times when he has and we have sex at least four times a month I asked him why ...

Why do you last longer during sex with someone that you love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

27 January 2014 (M) - Hello cupid I was wondering why do you last more during sex (no foreplay involved) with someone you love compared to someone you just want to hook up ? why does it differ when you are the same person ? Also it differs from partner to partner ...

NEVER will do anything for a woman unless there is sexual intention involved.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

27 January 2014 (F) - I had a discussion with a friend today about my upcoming trip, and she said that men NEVER will do anyhting for a woman unless there is sexual intention involved. I told her that I had and have plenty of guy friends. She asked me to think under w...

Is this typical fwb behaviour?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

26 January 2014 (F) - Me and this guy have been seeing each other casually for a few months: however it's been on and off from the beginning. From the start he said he doesn't do relationships, doesn't like the drama and likes 'simple'. Every time I go to his house I c...

Should I put sex on hold?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3946 days ago

26 January 2014 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have an amazing relationship and I love him with all my heart but the issue lies with our sex life. The thing is, Are love is so strong, but at the same time so is the sexual chemistry. I am A Christian so for me, I feel as th...

What can I do? I love her. But got a little boring and repetitive in the bedroom. Yet she refuses to try anything I suggest.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

25 January 2014 (M) - Hi My problem is this, I have been dating my girlfriend now for 4 years in February and things have got a little boring and repetitive for me in the bedroom and without sounding like I'm blaming, it is her. All she wants to do is run the same old...

Am I wrong to be curious about what sex is like with other men?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

25 January 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year. It's my first serious relationship. He's 40. I'm 23. We get along well. Sex is good most of the time. He makes me laugh, he's kind, listens and really cares about me. The thing is lately I've been thinki...

Penises freak me out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

23 January 2014 (F) - Ok I'll cut straight to it; penis' freak me out! My boyfriend and I were doing some..."fun stuff" and I went to give him oral and...well once it was in my mouth I completely freaked out to the point where i cried (not while I was still down there, ...

My husband told me he doesn't find my body attractive! What now?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3960 days ago

23 January 2014 (F) - *Sorry if it is lengthy** I am in desperate need of advice. To be blunt to start out with, my husband reluctantly told me that he doesn’t find my body to be attractive. I am 24 years old, about to turn 25 next month. My husband is 28 going to...

My wife of 31 years is no longer interested in sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

23 January 2014 (M) - I really need to know what to do when my wife of 37 yrs. say she is not interested in sex anymore.I am 57 yrs and she is 51yrs....

She slept with someone else during our break

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

23 January 2014 (F) - Me (20) and my girlfriend (21) are in a relationship for a year and 4 months. Somewhere along the way we broke up, just to get back together 2 months later. I don't regret taking her back at all. Our relationship is even going better now than it ...

Should I go for a threesome?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

23 January 2014 (M) - So, Uni drama again. Bloody Uni eh? So someone I met in first year, liked him for ages, tried to get with him for ages, we had a sexual thing but other than that we never really went anywhere, he pretty much friendzoned me soon as he could, then w...

I want to stop masturbating and enjoy sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

22 January 2014 (F) - Hi I feel very odd and weird but I think I masturbate weirdly.. I've been doing it since I was young as I can remember and I feel odd and don't get pleasure off sleeping with my partner. I have to masturbate on ny own to get the feeling. I lay on n...

Girlfriend talks about new sex positions that remind me that she cheated on me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3962 days ago

22 January 2014 (M) - My girlfriend of two years did the unforgivable sin of cheating on me with my enemy, and dating him in fact. After lots of pleas, I forgave her and tried to look past it Now the problem is, since after the incident, she doesn't have sex with me...

First time sex and I didn't bleed... should I see my gyno?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

22 January 2014 (F) - Please i need an explanation i just had sex with my fiance for the first time,and he knows i am a virgin but the problem now is i didn't bleed at all just excruciating pains...please i don't know if that is normal or should i see the gynocologist ...

A crush slept with me and used me as a rebound after breaking up with his girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3963 days ago

21 January 2014 (F) - So I did a stupid thing the other night and slept with an old co-worker of mine. We stopped working together June 2013 and had talked/hung out very little since then. Well last Sunday night he text me to go out to a bar we use to hang out at. I ...

Should I continue seeing this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3963 days ago

21 January 2014 (F) - So I met a guy on this dating site and and we started talking and we exchanged numbers and went on one date- the date actually went great we spend 5 hours talking it felt really comfortable and at first I never took it serious because I thought omg ...

He just can't orgasm through a hand or blow job, why?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3963 days ago

21 January 2014 (F) - My boyfriend takes a very long time (or not at all) to have an orgasm through a hand job or a blow job. It's like he gets so close but just can't seem to tip over the edge. He has guided me, told me what he likes but it is as if he is desensitized ...

My boyfriend wont let go of my past!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3962 days ago

21 January 2014 (F) - Please, I need help with this. In the beginning of my relationship I made the treacherous mistake of telling my boyfriend about me giving oral to another guy, as I took it not very seriously and told him lots of details, it really got to him. ...

Is his interest normal and does this make him more likely to cheat?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3964 days ago

20 January 2014 (F) - I'm not sure if this behaivour is normal or not? I am 45 and my partner is 55. we have been together for two and a half years. We are passionately in love but recently cancelled our wedding. The first thing my partner does every morning is do...

I'm afraid my boyfriend with sleep with this woman when he goes to a party!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3964 days ago

20 January 2014 (F) - There is this girl that my boyfriend has slept with a couple of times. Once when he was with his on again/off again ex - they were off at the time. The second time he was broken up with a different ex (though they did get back together). It was a ...

Would it be unreasonable to say to him that until we start having sex again I won't consider us to be in a romantic relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3964 days ago

20 January 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have not had sex for a while, even though we have had the opportunity. He has not initiated sex for well over six weeks and although I've tried to initiate it myself, it never turns into sex. Sometimes we do literally everything ...

Oral sex doesn't make him hard?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3965 days ago

19 January 2014 (F) - why cant my man get hard even when he is down eating me ?...

How do I let him know his behaviour is not acceptable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3960 days ago

18 January 2014 (F) - Hi guys. I'll try to be as brief as possible because this is complicated. So, I met my current guy two years ago through a mutual friend and very quickly we became inseparable. He was the best boyfriend I ever had, beautiful, romantic, and totally ...

How much should you tell a new partner about past relationships?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3965 days ago

18 January 2014 (F) - When embarking on a new relationship how much should you tell your new partner about your "relationship past" I ask this not because I've had a problem with this nor am I embarking on a new relationship but simply because I see on this site that t...

How do I stop these desires?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

17 January 2014 (F) - After weeks of self help books reminding me I'm a strong independent woman and I'm beautiful and I don't need a man (which is all entirely true!!) I would normally take these 6 months in my early twenties to love being single with no attention ...

LDR boyfriend doesn't say he loves or misses me anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

17 January 2014 (F) - Why is he so irritated with me? I'm so upset:( My boyfriend has been acting weird lately. So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months now. (We haven't had sex yet). He's 28 and I'm 24.. Is a long distance relationship. He's so...

I hate feeling like a hypocrite and a loser! Any insight is appreciated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

16 January 2014 (F) - I'm 25, and my boyfriend is 25 too. We've been dating for a couple months now, so it's still a "new" relationship. everything's great, except from time to time, I feel insecure because he was really promiscuous in the past (ie. up until right before ...

My boyfriend has a pee fetish but now comes up with excuses when I offer to indulge it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

16 January 2014 (F) - Hi everyone! So my bf and I have been together for almost two years were both in our early 20s. My boyfriend recently told me he has a pee fetish, he basically likes watching porn where girls pee in random places or in public. Recently I noticed ...

Potential boyfriend is demanding to know my past, and then comments negatively!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3965 days ago

16 January 2014 (F) - I've been talking to a guy that I met through a dating website for almost 3 months now. We live across the country so we haven't met yet but we text all day and skype pretty regularly. For the most part, things are pretty good with him and I feel ...

I found his ad on casual sex sites but thought he was against it!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

15 January 2014 (?) - Hi everyone, I have been with my current boyfriend for about 7 months now. About a month ago, I was using his iPad to purchase Christmas presents and I found a site bookmarked called "Forgetdinner". I was curious so I entered the site and it turn...

We have a long history together and I love him but I don't know where this is all leading to...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3962 days ago

15 January 2014 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I, we were childhood friends. We grew up together, my ma used to babysit him and we went to church and school together. When we were kids we'd have movie nights and we would stay up watching until 4 am. We were really close. ...

Ladies -- what terms do you use?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3970 days ago

14 January 2014 (F) - Curious question for the women: how many of you call your vagina a "pussy"? What do you think of the word "cunt"? I like the word pussy...I think it's sexy but the other word seems harsh and derogatory to me. Yet, I've heard that word used by ...

I want to satisfy all his needs but not with a threesome!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3970 days ago

13 January 2014 (F) - Ok so i know this is a probably a typical silly question to ask but i want to know your opinions on having a threesome based in a relationship!! Small bit of background Im with my partner just over 6 months now we are both similar people and even ...

My weight gain has put him off sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3970 days ago

13 January 2014 (F) - Hi, I've been seeing my bf for the last 3.5 years, but our sex life has been non existent for the last 2.5 years. I have had lots of reasons why which I always doubted but because we do love each other and get along so well that I accepted that we ...

I'm not feeling too good after hearing about my girlfriend's sexual fantasies!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

13 January 2014 (M) - Me and my girlfriend were talking about sexual desires and she told me she always wanted to make out with a black guy. Which is ok and I understand because I have sometimes fantasies about asian women. But then we talked about it a bit more and she ...