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writes:My girlfriend of two years did the unforgivable sin of cheating on me with my enemy, and dating him in fact. After lots of pleas, I forgave her and tried to look past it Now the problem is, since after the incident, she doesn't have sex with me as she used to, and she's a sex freakNow when we does, she brings up new positions that constantly remind me she cheated And recently she's been complaining of how I perform in sex. She's never complained these two years until she was with the boy. She now says my penis is too big (which she had always liked anyway) or that I don't go fast enough. My point is she's never complained until she did cheat. I've asked her if she's doing these cos of the experience with that dude but she denies and says it's just nothingPS, we're in a long distance relationship and we won't meet for at least 3 months so usually she tries to make up for that with sex, until now Am I overreacting or right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answers. I'm grateful. I think I'd move on
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (22 January 2014):
This is a deal breaker, plain and simple. How could you ever move on from this?
Find someone else, there are a ton of women out there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2014): I agree with WiseOwlE. You need to move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2014): You are no doubt the same OP as the post below:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-girlfriend-is-sleeping-with-my-enemy.html
My answer is the same as before.
End the relationship and move on. If you enjoy the drama, remain until you finally do leave each other.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (22 January 2014):
Sorry, but I think your entire problem lies in your first paragraph.
Clearly you haven't gotten past this, or you wouldn't be bothered by what she now does.
Fact of the matter is you haven't forgiven her, so you need to stop kidding yourself that you have. God knows I don't blame you one bit, as if a woman did that to me shed be gone in a NY minute. That said, you need to man up and break up with her. Saying you forgive her and while still letting things bother you is fair to neither of you.
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