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Archived questions from: August, 2014 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Why am I very very sexually attracted to my x brother in law?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

31 August 2014 (F) - I'm very unhappily married, I recently separated. I have an x brother in law, my husband's sisters x husband I have become very sexually attracted to. I fully intend to ask him for sex. Sex or the lack of really wasn't a problem for me until I ...

Is my lack of sexual experience the reason I have so many doubts about my Gf's virginity? Was she really a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

30 August 2014 (M) - I am love a very cute girl and she also, our relationship going on from last 2 year. our relationship going with love,emotions, some time fight, sadness but it is true great love having between us. one day we had decided that more close to ea...

Is my husband more interested in porn than he is me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - Hi it's mine and my husbands relationship. We have been together nearly 4 years been married 18months, He works away on the turbines which he has done for 2 years he does 2 weeks away and a week at home, which is shortly changing to 3 weeks then 1 ...

Did we have sex or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3727 days ago

29 August 2014 (F) - i am 27 years old girl. i have sex with my boy friend without intercourse. but he told that he inserted his penis into my vagina 2 inches. but i could not understand. i did not feel that penis entered into my vagina. i just felt penis over my ...

Should I believe my girlfriend and what she says about her past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

28 August 2014 (M) - my girlfriend and I were talking about past sexaul experiences and she told me she had sex with 2 guys. I really do not care what she did before me, but she said the boy that lived next door fingered her for 3 years but never had sex with her.I k...

Asking him for sex is like asking for a kidney! Is it normal for a man to try and avoid sex so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - I'm with my man a year and 6 months and the sex is becoming non existant. At the begining it was great but now im lucky to get sex once a month. It's always me who has to ask or make a move never him and its upsetting me. When i said it he said he ...

Do you think sex talk is this woman's way of trying to lead me into an affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

28 August 2014 (M) - I have a woman friend who is married. I see her every week for dinner with a group of friends. We hit it off quite well having a lot of common interests. Lately she's been telling me how unhappy she is with her husband, that her marriage is ...

How to play hard to get, during SEX?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

27 August 2014 (F) - I'd like to sort of drive my new guy crazy before giving in to sex when I'm at his place next time. How do I go about doing this subtly, sort of playing hard to get until he gets really fustrated and just can't resist anymore? I'm thinking maybe let ...

My wife went too far during a threesome. How do I get past this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

26 August 2014 (M) - I saw someone had a similar issue as this a few years ago. But I wonder if anyone had any current advice they can give me. My wife and I have been together for 4 years and recently tried to spice things up by me agreeing to a 3sum with another male. ...

I found my new wife on an escort website. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

26 August 2014 (M) - hello everyone please help me. i just got married. i knew her from long time back but we werent keeping contact eachother untll we decided to get married. we are from same country but living in different countries. she lived in singapore and im ...

Struggling to get over my holiday romance. Do I try harder or let it go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - I am just confused and need some help as I have no one else to talk to. I recently went on holiday in Greece with my friends. I met this guy from England aswell whilst over there. We just clicked well so I thought. We spent the majority of the time ...

She said she's not into sex but now seems to want a relationship. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

26 August 2014 (M) - I have known this woman for 20 years. We are now both divorced. We've been dating basically just to get out of the house and we enjoy each others company. The first date we went out on, she stated she's not into sex out of no where. I thought gee I ...

Is there any way to find out whose baby I am carrying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3729 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been trying for a baby its been 3 years now i had an affair with another guy we did not use a condom and 2days apart i slept with my boyfriend and only to find out that i conceived on the day that i slept wit my boyfriend is ...

What is best in giving oral sex to a man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3729 days ago

25 August 2014 (F) - I hope that my question is appropriate to be posted. I edited it and re submitted it but i don't understand why it is being said that i am asking a new question. I am again asking the same question. My question concerns giving oral sex to a man. I ...

My ex will give me money but only after I have sex with him. I need the money but don't want the sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3662 days ago

25 August 2014 (F) - I have been trying to start a business since last year, since i am unemployed but lack of capital has been my biggest challenge. Lats month i met my ex, who is financially stable and he promised to sponsor my business. So he wants to give me this...

Why does my b/f keep masturbating to porn when he knows how much I hate it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

25 August 2014 (F) - Okay, literally I have caught my boyfriend of one year masturbating to porn countless times. Every time he's doing it he's had the option to just have sex with me but chooses masturbation instead. I assure you that we have a sex life and a great one ...

Can I get sick from doggy style anal sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

25 August 2014 (F) - hi everyone plz help me n my bf we meet in 3mnths ago we madly in luv but everytym we hv sex (dogstyl) we do it in my ass n it painfull sometimes i cnt even seat for dayz becouse off the pain im feeling when i tell him he said he enjoys the dogstyl ...

How do I know if this girl had sex before me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

24 August 2014 (M) - hello, I have a girlfriend. last month i had sex with her,this was my first time.after did the sex lot of confusion created. according to my girl friend she was also first time but during sex i seen her membrane had already broken and vagina is lo...

Everything was going good until he suddenly cut me off1

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

24 August 2014 (F) - I have hung out with a guy for the past month. Honestly, i had messaged because i felt that i would be able to get a kiss out of him. we hung out, and he did kiss me. Later that night i admitted to him that i didn't like him. i had told him before ...

I am constantly being used by guys!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

24 August 2014 (F) - Hi there, For some reason, I'm constantly being used by guys. It all started when my boyfriend had slept with me then cheated on me with another girl. Ever since then, I've had no self confidence and doubt myself a lot. I thought it was time for...

Is it normal for an aged man to like Barely Legal Porn

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

22 August 2014 (F) - My husband is 56 and his porn preference is the Barely Legal porn. He also likes to have us watch it when we make love. I don't want to be a prude or sound like I come from the Victorian era, but is it normal for a man of that age to want to look ...

Social priorities are just garbage now! Why have people become so messed up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3735 days ago

19 August 2014 (M) - Hello aunts and uncles, forge here. I have realised that in society today, things between men and women are getting very ridiculous, and I want to know why. These are some points I think are good, and I'm sure someone out there will agree. This is ...

He said he would help, we had sex, and now, no help!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3737 days ago

19 August 2014 (F) - A fee days ago I asked my ex boyfriend if I could borrow some money from him to invest in my business. He is a millionare so I knew he could spare it. We broke up 2 years ago and we hadn't spoken in 5 months since the last time we met up- mainly ...

He said his ex was better than me and then said he only said that in anger! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

18 August 2014 (F) - I met a guy via facebook 1 and half years ago. he becomes friend with me .almost from the first he wanted to do phone sex with me. He said he had no girlfriend. we met few times. then one day he told that he had few time did sex with a girl with ...

Our marriage is growing apart and I think he may want a younger woman.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

18 August 2014 (F) - My marriage is falling apart i have been married to my husband for 5 years and the last 18 months we seem to have grown apart there is no sexual contact if he kisses me to say goodnight or goodbye its like he doesn't want to kiss me on the lips i ...

Boyfriend hardly wants sex anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3739 days ago

18 August 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months now and lately I feel our sex life had already gone downhill. When I first started dating him, I made him wait to sleep with me after a couple weeks and once we did it was amazing, he told me that ...

We agreed to be exclusive, she says sex with another woman doesn't count!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

18 August 2014 (M) - I've been with a woman for about a month, we just recently had the talk and decided to be exclusive but not official. Deciding to take things slow. Last night she decided to attempt to see if she could do anything sexually with another woman. She ...

My boyfriend isn't bothered by the difference in our body sizes, but as a bigger girl I feel awkward about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - Hello, I am a 30 year old virgin and have recently started dating an older man who is 34 and I suspect he is also a virgin. My main worry is that I am a UK size 22 and he is very very skinny and only a couple of inches taller then me. The whole ...

I want to hate my boyfriend so I can leave him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid Im with my current bf for past 4 years. Its been 6 months since we actually had a good talk, went on a romantic date.... I just come home from work, cook dinner and wait for him, he hangs around with his friends after work, come home ...

The swinging lifestyle destroyed our perfect relationship :(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - I am in serious need of advice! I have been in an extremely happy, carefree, fun, loving relationship for the last 7 years now. He has always been aloof since I've known him up until the last 3 years. He has opened up to me, not so much with words ...

Momma's boy's Momma found my panties!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and I recently spent a couple days at his place. He's a bit of a mommas boy so of course his mom goes over to clean his apartment and finds my underwear in his sheets. I'm completely mortified! ...

I hooked up with a friend after a break up and now am worried I might be pregnant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3715 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - I just recently got out of a relationship with a man I was with for a year. He didn't break up with me formally. We had our last date then he ignored me and gave me the silent treatment until I realized (a month later) that this was his cowardly way ...

Why does my LDR girlfriend seem so interested in sex until we are together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

17 August 2014 (M) - Hi everyone I'll keep it as brief as I can. I've been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for 2.5 years. we can see each other every 6 months or so. When we are apart, she talks about sex often, how much she wants it next time w...

I have trouble climaxing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

16 August 2014 (M) - I am having a sexual problem. Basically I can't cum when I have sex. Condom or no condom. This is over multiple partners over about two years of being sexually active. So far I've never been able to cum with a partner. I'm not sure if it's a ph...

I haven't had a real relationship since leaving my abusive ex-husband, and after learning I have genital herpes I'm wondering if I should ever try for one at all

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

16 August 2014 (F) - Two and a half years ago I left an almost decade long relationship/marriage to a morbidly jealous psychologically abusive man - he always accused me of cheating, but I never did. I stayed too long, and left at the last minute, before he could suck ...

Is it too late for us to fix things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

16 August 2014 (M) - I have been in my relationship for over 5 years now and now we are engaged. The problem I am having is we argue constantly. I screwed up in the past and had this front where I was very sexually experienced, which was false I was a virgin. She never ...

Sex with my partner is so predictable I can't bring myself to do it anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

16 August 2014 (F) - I've been with my partner for three years and at first our sex life was amazing. We would do it every night in a variety of places and positions.... Of course I expected that it was begin to calm down but it has got to a point now when I literally ...

No kisses from my boyfriend! He just starts sex. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

15 August 2014 (F) - I have a problem with my boyfriend, he doesn't like to kiss me down never. I do for him everything but he doesn't. When we start kissing or hugging he just start the sex. He doesn't kiss my body. I feel I'm sad each time after sex. I don't know why ...

Why am I so uncomfortable with one of the most natural things out there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

15 August 2014 (F) - Okay so this might get a little lengthy but I have to share it because it's bothered me all my life and currently I can't sleep at the moment because the thoughts won't leave my brain. I do have to give some background about myself but to su...

What does it mean if my gf gets horny for me when I'm not around, but not so much when I am around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

15 August 2014 (M) - We're in a long distance relationship and get together a few days each month. The week leading up to our visit, she'll express how turned on she is for me and can't wait to mess around. But when we do see each other in person, her hornyness is not ...

I'm questioning my sexuality but yet I love this girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3742 days ago

15 August 2014 (M) - Sorry for the long post, but I have a lot of details to add. If you read the whole thing and respond, I would greatly appreciate it! I am a 20 year old male. My girlfriend of about 7 months and I recently broke up, mostly because of me questioning ...

I have herpes and had sex with my friend, he says he feels burning down there and is going to the doctor. Does anyone have experience with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

14 August 2014 (F) - My bestfriend and I have been best friends for 3 years. Recently we've found out we have these new found love feelings does eachother. I have genital herpes. He's known since the day I found out in June. He's my best friend so of course I told him. ...

How do I feel more comfortable with my penis size?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

14 August 2014 (M) - This is a usual thing for some blokes but how do I feel more comfortable with my penis size? guessing the main answer is to sleep with more women and hope they are really nice lol One issue is because I don't like my size it holds me back as I fee...

I've researched about STDs and how they are transmitted! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3743 days ago

13 August 2014 (F) - Ok, I don't want to catch any STDs so I've researched alot, but I want feedback from people with real experience: Fingering, Mutual Masturbation, Dry Humping with underwear on, and anything through clothing, no STDs can be transmitted right? Also...

We had sex and I didn't feel anything!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3744 days ago

13 August 2014 (F) - Hello. I really cannot figure ouv what is the problem. I recently had sex ith a new partner. When we are having sex with a new person, we dont know the other person's body, we dont know what he likes etc. It takes time to learn how to please a ...

Is using the services of a prostitute OK?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

12 August 2014 (M) - I've been separated for years, I find sex is hard to get with out being in a relationship. I don't think it's fair to get into a relationship until my divorce is final. The only sex I had any chance of getting was with 2 married women, I won't have ...

Are there any diseases I can give my girlfriend? We are both virgins

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3743 days ago

12 August 2014 (M) - Me and my girlfriend never had any sexual relationship before(or anything on the side). We were both 100% pure virgins. Now, my question is -- is it safe for me to perform oral sex on her? Are there any diseases I could get or even give her, wh...

Am I wrong to want a more exciting sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

12 August 2014 (M) - I don't want To come across as another loser guy who only cares about sex because I'm not. I've been with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years now and I love her to bits.... But. Am I wrong to want a more exciting sex life? This has always been an ...

Lately he hasn't been reacting sexually to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3744 days ago

12 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend has usually had a higher sex drive than me so I make a point to initiate sex or sexual activity about every second day so he won't feel neglected or unwanted. But the last few times I've tried to there's been absolutely no interest from ...

How do I confront him about his lies?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

11 August 2014 (F) - Im 21, nearly 22, and have been getting to know this guy since May, but have been speaking since February. We were both at university (far apart) so we used to Skype every day, talk on the phone for hours and text throughout the day for 3 months...