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writes:My boyfriend has usually had a higher sex drive than me so I make a point to initiate sex or sexual activity about every second day so he won't feel neglected or unwanted. But the last few times I've tried to there's been absolutely no interest from him. I can't tell if it's because he's stressed and his body isn't physically reacting to me like he wants it to so it makes it look like he's not interested to save face or whether he's actually not interested snd its something I've done or something about me. I'm beginning to feel very uncomfortable because of the rejection and I don't know if I should take it personally or not. I try so hard to keep him satisfied. What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2014): I am not a firm believer in playing games but all you have to do is not initiate sex for a week or two no matter how much you are lusting for him,what happens is most guys enjoy the hunt,and when it becomes effortless they take you for granted let him sit awhile and he will eventually pursue you again
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (13 August 2014):
 Let him initiate the next time. You've been the thoughtful one all this time. When you stop doing the work he will soon realize what's missing. If he's stressed out about something he will tell you when he feels ready. Also sex should be more about meeting needs. He wants you to desire him and enjoy the act too. When he does initiate tell him what you want for a change. If nothing works then think if the relationship is going in the right direction.
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