Why am I very very sexually attracted to my x brother in law?

A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I'm very unhappily married, I recently separated. I have an x brother in law, my husband's sisters x husband I have become very sexually attracted to. I fully intend to ask him for sex. Sex or the lack of really wasn't a problem for me until I met my x brother in law at a family function and talked with him for quite a while. He really is a good guy who took a lot of abuse from my sister in law. He's smart, funny and compassionate, nothing my husband is. My husband is a loser, unemployed, drinks too much and is abusive like his sister. Would it be all that bad just to ask him for sex once in a while? Has anyone had a similar situation with an inlaw? I know he's not looking for a relationship and neither am I. I just don't know why he makes me want him sexually, I can get sex if I want it but there's something driving me to have sex with him and I think maybe because it's considered forbidden. I feel so dirty about it because I think of doing kinky sexual acts with him and having secret sex dates at his house in the bed my sister in law shared with him. Am I a sexual mess? Why do I want to be a trashy whore for him, I want him to use me for sex. No man has ever made me feel like this, it's like I want to be his slut when he want's sex. I've never been over sexed, I had 3 lover's in my entire life ,now I want to go sexually wild with him and I'm confidant I could lure him into it.

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