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writes:hello everyone please help me. i just got married. i knew her from long time back but we werent keeping contact eachother untll we decided to get married. we are from same country but living in different countries. she lived in singapore and im living in uk. since we got married we spent only a month together.. everything was perfect. But i was notecing her some strange activities ... like role plays. we did couple of times and we enjoyed it. And one day she asked me to play call girl and she wanted me to pay her money for a night. For instant i thought it might be only her fantacy... but most shocking thing is i found out her on singapore escort girls website. when i left her there and came back to uk. i was shocked to death.. and i asked her and she told me everything. she tells me she loves me alot.. literally she fooled me.please tell me is it possible to spend rest of my life with her... while i really hate protistutes and im a man with dignity.. ... please i need your help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2014): hi every one thanks for ur kind words ,. it means alot to me.... um.. well how do i found her on escort website is..... i had never ever doubt on that. one day she asked me my fb password ... since i had nothing secret that i cant tell her i gaver her but she refused to give hers. But somehow she gave me one day and i was checking her archived massages ... i saw some strange nick names of her and i googled her and found out that is excort website.. i have hardly heard about escort girls... i have never met one in my life. but to be honest i have met some prostitues and i hated them.. i never had fun with them.. i found its just disgusting... i did it out of alcohol and friends influence.. but never knew abt escorts..
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (27 August 2014):
 I would be curious to know how you found her on this escort site as well...
since you hate prostitutes and are a man with dignity I suggest you consider ending the relationship since it was based on lies.
I am sure you can get an annulment (so you would not be divorced but never married) based on her misrepresentation.
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (27 August 2014):
 So do frequent escort websites and escorts ? Interesting how you stumbled on the website? Unless you suspected in a previous life she was an escort.
Fact is she deceived you. Like any escort she knew that if she came clean you would not marry her. Still does not justify her action. We cannot tell you what do as this decision you alone need to make. Can you accept she is a changed person and devoted to you. Can you honestly be a good husband to her without throwing her past in her face. Will the fact that she was a call girl always be on the back of your mind and you will never get past it. You need to decided what you can accept and move on. You to make a decision now and live by it or you and her will live miserably for the rest of your life.
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reader, Lonely 81  +, writes (27 August 2014):
WOW, what a messed up mess! She went a let you commit you heart and life to her when she didn't even tell you who she really was!It is so hard to even think about staying with her when she has committed such a MAJOR breach of trust?!?If you do want to stay with her there is only two things to think about. If you can love and trust someone that WAS a working girl or if you a really brave if you can love and TRUST someone that IS a working girl. Being an escort doesn't make you the devil or incapable of really lifelong love and it doesn't mean that you dont deserve to be love either. In the same way that her clients are not the devil. You wouldn't question someone who has had a morally questionable job before and there are lots of those. Escort just seem to have a lot of stigma around them.This is very sad, she must really love you, she just married you. But she really should have given you the choice. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2014): Well how did you find her on the escort site !!you must have been looking for a call girl .
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