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Archived questions from: September, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

He couldn't make me any happier..except in the bedroom

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I'm engaged to a guy that couldn't possibly make me any happier... except when it comes to the bedroom. It seems that my libido is much higher than his, despite the fact that he's only three years older than me.It seems unfair on both ends since I'm ...

Do we tell the parents of my son's girlfriend that we walked in on them having oral sex?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - My husband and I walked in on my 17 year old son performing oral sex on his girl friend who is 16. My husband and I disagree on what we should do. I think that we should call her parents and tell them what happened. My husband on the other hand said ...

How do we have sex with g/f is too shy to be naked?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

30 September 2011 (M) - I'm a indian one and my GF is a sri lankan girl. We are planing 2 have sex next week but my GF is sooooo shy. She is told she is shy to be naked in front of me. She is a sri lankan and because of her cluture she haven't even were a bikini. I don't ...

Have zero interest in sex with boyfriend of 4 years...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Hi. I'm 27, I've been with my boyfriend on and off, for four years. The first two years he turned me on so much, I loved sex with him. In year three we split up - totally unrelated to sex, but it had started to slow down a bit. Anyway, had a ...

I'm afraid I was boring on the date

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30 September 2011 (F) - Last night I went on a date with my boyfriend. At first it seemed kinda boring and I,m pretty sure i seemed annoying. But then we were all over each other and he was feeling me and I gave him a BJ but the thing was I never really gave a BJ Before...

How long before an erection feels normal after a circumcision?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4806 days ago

30 September 2011 (M) - I am 18 and have had tight foreskin all my life. Three days ago, I had a circumcision, recommended by urologists. I seem to be healing, but, like I was warned, erections are very uncomfortable at the moment. Anyone know how long it will be before an ...

My husband blames fertility issues on me being over weight! Couldn't it just as well be HIM that is the problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Hello all, I have been with my man for 5 years, married for almost three. We havent been actively trying to have a baby but we havent not been trying either. For years I thought my husband had issues downstairs, and I found out I have fertilit...

I kissed another man. How do I tell my husband, who has been away for work reasons. Should I tell my husband?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I kissed a man at a conference a week ago... I've been married for 7 years. My sex drive is WAY higher than my husband and this has been a struggle our whole marriage. Every four to eight weeks on average... And nothing while I was pregnant. I ...

Is he ready to call it quits? And can't tell me yet? should I continue down the same path and give him space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4807 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and I just can't figure out where our relationship is going and what it is that he wants. When we first started dating, things were so wonderful that I cannot even explain. We have so many things i...

He says he is falling in love with me but that he can't leave his family. How can I let go of him and end our work affair?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I need some advice. I am a teachers assistant at an elementary school. I have been working with the same man for the last three years. We are both married with 3 kids. We have formed a great friendship and seem like ideal mates for each other. W...

His sex drive is higher. I deny him probably 2 times a week, but how do I deal with him masturbating to porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I know this question has been posted a million times, but I was hoping for an answer on my specific situation: My boyfriend (he's 26 and I'm 23) have been together for about a year and a half, and have been living together for 10 months. Some...

Is it a stigma to be a 31 year old Male Virgin? And is my drastic solution the best one, in the circumstances?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - I don't know how to put this as a question: I just want to know if I'm not alone in the way that I feel? My story: I'm a 31-year-old guy and still a virgin. I am deeply pained - being a virgin at 31 feels like a stigma and to a large extent i...

Does Size Make The Man?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4795 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - I’d like to first thank Tennisstar88 for giving me the idea to write this article. Even though this is a sensitive topic to most men, my hope is someone will benefit from reading it. Enjoy! ------...

We're desperate for some 'alone time' to take things to the next level

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - Okay. To clarify- we're both legal and certain that we want to take our relationship to 'the next level', so please don't judge me -_- Basically, I live with my parents and sister, and he lives with his mom and sister. They never seem to be out o...

I can't get hard when we try to have sex for the fourth time in a night. Should I be worried?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been together about a month now and we have had sex multible times and it was amazing. ive never had a problem getting hard for her even after having sex with her to go again. but my question is after the 3rd time of ...

I have gotten back with my ex. How can I make our first date special?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - How do I show my boyfriend how much I've missed him? please help? My ex boyfriend and I got back together. We broke up for 6 months.. Cos he was going through family problems but he's all good now. We're still so in love. I love him so much a...

Her low sex drive is making me feel unwanted

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - hey every one hear goes. Me and my partner have been together for 7 years. Are sex life slowed awhile back as expected. Not so my part though. So its now the end of september and we havent had sex since july. I would never push for sex as why would ...

Irregular periods have me worried!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - hey friends. . I havnt had my period this sep. . I did have it twice last month. .earlier and month end. . Its irregular periods but why is it happening when i havent had sex since june? Please help. Any help would be appreciated. .thanx....

Can you get pregnant if a woman doesn't reach orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - Hi every one! I've been wondering and would like to know that can a woman get pregnant if she still doesn't reach orgasm? If yes how does it happen? Thanks for your time reading this and thanks for your answers in advance. ...

Does this make him gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - My bf told me that he is bi and likes me to use a dildo on him. Does that make him gay? I'm afraid I will lose him because he might want to be with a guy. He loves sex with me and I turn him on. He also tells me he loves me . He says he doesn't ...

GF lost all sex drive before our relationship became long distance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - My girlfriend left the country to study abroad for a year. We decided to go on with a Long Distance Relationship as I will visit every now and then, as will she. We used to have a very sexually active lifestyle before the news of her scholarship, ...

G/f says she cant have sex due to "girl issues", but she's not on her period. What else could it be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - My girlfreind says she cant have sex due to girl issues.But shes not on her period.What else could it be?...

Do all guys use girls?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - Why do all the guys i know say they like but just want to use me for sex? Then the guys i do like will like my friends or just stay long enough to get wat they want then wen they do they stop talking to me until they want something else? Are all ...

I had unprotected sex and am now afraid I caught something!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - I had unprotected sex with 2 different guys just 5 days ago. I was super drunk and didn't care for what I was doing. The next night I had unprotected sex with my bf for the first time. I know of his past, he has slept with a few other women. 2 ...

She saved herself for marriage, but we went too far! She's been crying for days!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 September 2011 (M) - I was an arse. I've been with this woman for a year and she has been saving herself for marriage. Last week, she asked me to let her experience only a bit of myself and I impulsively took her. She hasn't stopped crying for days. She says she lov...

What do I do? Would it be bad if I did have sex with him next time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - I met this guy online and we've been talking for a month now. We had finally met last week, and have hung out two nights since. The first night we met, he took me to dinner and we hung out at his house after. We were cuddling on the couch watchi...

What are the tell tale signs that two people are romantically involved?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - What are the tell tale signs that two people are romantically involved particularly are having sex. I think two of my close friends [male and female] are doing the nasty.... yet both of them are married to other people. I dont know if its all in my ...

Is masturbating a sin?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - I am a Christian (Catholic) girl and I have recently started masturbating myself, and I read lots of articles that says that masturbation is a sin. Is it true? Did God really prohibits it? P.S I am not using any toys or such....

Are my emotions after sex normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

28 September 2011 (M) - Is it normal for a man to feel gushy with a person he just had sex with? An is it normal to feel like things have changed after having sex with a person ? Or to view the person in a different light?...

We had sex 2 days ago but he hasn't mentioned anything since then!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - Dear cupid, i had sex with this guy 2 days ago but he has never talked abt it. We talk n laugh abt other things but he has kept that subject at bay. Yesterdy he kissed me bt neva said anythng. Was he jus havin fun with me?...

Nearly a year with him and he's never given me oral sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend nearly a yr and hes never given me oral sex!! he doesnt even talk bout it!! its the same old thing, nothing spontaneous we just watch tv go to bed, light goes off he gets on me does his business and says i feel better now ...

What would cause a man to lose all interest in sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - We are married 25 years ago. Our children are not living with us anymore, we have all the time, to have great sex. But instead of that, we have none. How a man can complete lose his sexual interest,like that? My husband says, he never thinks o...

I have been talking to a guy for 11 months and he has gone out and had sex with someone else. I feel betrayed

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - Hello i met this man on dating site we talked for 11 months, i saw him through webcam, i talked to his family through the phone he was supposed to visit me . But i told him that i will move to his country for study but then soon the war broke out in ...

Getting uncomfortable with my boyfriends increasing voyeuristic interests...am I make too much of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - I am starting to become uncomfortable with my boyfriend’s increasing voyeuristic interests. After many years of a sexless marriage, I am divorced and in an exclusive relationship with the greatest guy in the world. We are incredibly in love with ...

My sex drive is suddenly really high and I don't want him to feel inadequate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - So I have a question.. mine n my fiancees love life is great I think... We make love at least once a day but sometimes two or three times... Is it normal for me to be horny all the time to the point where I want to masterbate? I've never been Likw ...

How to deal with post sex mess?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - So this isn't really a question more a query!! I've just started having un-protected sex with partner (all checks done and accounted for!) I just wondered, how do other people deal with that post-sex-mess - lol I find it funny it goes f...

I'm shocked at how ugly I look in our home-made porn film

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - I know this will sound like a stupid problem, but here it goes. My boyfriend had an idea last weekend, to record ourselves having sex with his phone. He sent me the videos, because he said they were a huge turn on and that he loved them. But I ...

How much trouble would we be in if we have sex at a movie theatre and get caught?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - I am 19 and I have been with my bf Brett for 2 yrs. Our 2 yr anniversary is on wednesday and I wanted to do something special so I asked him what he would like to do. I was kinda shocked when he sadi he had 2 things he had always wanted to do the ...

I'm always horny and don't want to have sex again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - lost my v at 14 now im always horny.... i dont wana have sex again... wha can i do?? i dont have a vibrator?? help ...

Did she lie to me about being a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

27 September 2011 (M) - hi.. M 22yrs old n my g.f is 18.. She told me that she is a virgin but when we had sex.. She got such tight pussy but she didnt bleed but felt pain in another day.. She never played any sport nor cycle.. Is she lying to me? Plz tell me sm1.. Shall i ...

Usually I like being submissive. So how can I step up the face, to be more active, like he wantrs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - So here goes, my partner of 18 months says he wants me to take on more of an active role in the bedroom eg initiating sex more often and suggesting things I want him to do. The trouble is, I don't know how. Everytime I think about saying or doin...

What makes the difference between good sex and bad sex with a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - When having sex, what makes a girl a good lay and what makes her bad in bed? I hear that many girls get uncomfortable and in turn, turn off guys. Can anyone answer this?...

Why is it that when I have a chance to lose my virginity, I can't perform!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

27 September 2011 (M) - um so heres my problem. i am 16 years old, and a virgin. that isnt exactly the issue, but what is is that on a number of occasions in the past few years i have had the chance to have sex, and it just hasnt worked out. with the first girl we both ...

I'd like if she had a threesome!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - I'd enjoy if my wife has a MMF threesome but she doesnt know this fantasy i have. What do i do? Should i ask her? I think she would never does such thing like that but anyway i want this!...

Do you think he's using me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - I just wanted some advice, because I really feel like my bf is jst using me. We knew each other really well b4 we went on our first proper 'date' and by the end of it we were snogging. Since then we have had abt 5/6 dates and every time he just ...

How common is it for women to have sex because they think it will help "catch" a guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - I realize this is a very broad question, and every woman is different so there's no single "right" answer, but I'm curious what people's general thoughts are? To what extent do women have sex because they think it will help them catch a guy? I r...

We had sex on second date, now what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Hi.. Met this guy i really like, he's 33 yrs old. Our first date went really well and we enjoyed it so much. We kissed on the first date. He asked for another date which was last saturday to hang out watching movies at his place. So i came. We ...

I wish my b/f could have sex and kiss like my ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 2 years now. He's not a great kisser and the sex is pretty bad - he doesn't last. I have talked to him about the sex and kissing, even guided him through how I like it. But he slips back into the his bad kissing the ...

We didn't get along for 10 years and now we're sleeping together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - I know this guy for about 10 year we never got along until about 4 month ago and now we are sleeping 2gether why has it happend ...

She never invites me to her home any more. Why does she only suggest we "get a room"instead? What's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - Let's say you are in a relationship with woman where is has been off and on for years and have been to her place before, in the beginning. but now she moved and told you "she brought a house" and I live out of town but every time I come into town...