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writes:me and my girlfriend have been together about a month now and we have had sex multible times and it was amazing. ive never had a problem getting hard for her even after having sex with her to go again. but my question is after the 3rd time of getting off i couldnt get hard for her again is this normal or do i need to go get checked? she tried everything that she could think of to get me hard and i just couldnt get it hard and shes thinking that she's not good enough for me just cause she cant get me up but this has only happend once. any feed back would be appreciated Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2011): ya.u need to rest.dont let her turn u into a sex machine.3 is enuf,4 God's sake...
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (30 September 2011):
 I've only know maybe ten guys in my life so far who could go more than 3 times in a single night. In proportionate terms, that is not a lot, i.e. it is VERY rare and even then, not something that they could do ever time either.
It's normal, nothing to worry about. After three rounds of sex what you need is a good rest.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (30 September 2011):
 REFRACTORY PERIOD. This means that you can't just go 24/7 without your body needing to rest and recharge. That means 8 hours of sleep and a good breakfast, Studly.
This girl thinking she's not good enough for you because you only went three times in one night and not four?? Good lord! At the fourth time, I'd be concerned about having rug burns in my vagina for crying out loud!
She must realize that there needs to be rest between rounds, and a lot of times that means sleep and nourishment! It's got nothing to do with her...simply that you need a recharge! Remember, a sex life is a marathon, not a sprint!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2011): thank you all for your feed back that has me at ease a little more now. now its just explaining that to my girlfriend cause she thinks shes not good enough for me anymore and it has really hurt her and i keep telling her that its not her. so does anyone have suggestions on how to tell her and make her believe me? thanks again for all the feed back all of it was very helpful thanks to all
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2011): my advice:1) time2) cut any porn out of your life3) drink lots of green tea + ginger4) try to get "emotionally" aroused and not "physically" aroused. Instead of her just sucking you off, try doing dirty talk. This has to be kind of spontaneous too. If you're trying too hard you will be focusing on whether or not your penis is getting there, and if you're focusing on your penis then the battle is already over.5) make the next round as spontaneous as can be and make it quick. Don't prolong foreplay and risk losing your erection.
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reader, MonksDaBomb +, writes (30 September 2011):
 Four times a night is a lot! You just need a break and some energy back (food and drink - not alcohol; alcohol doesn't help an erection). You're perfectly fine, just need a break every now and then.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (30 September 2011):
 sounds pretty normal to me...
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reader, JustHelpinAgain  +, writes (30 September 2011):
Sounds like you don't need to get checked. After 2 or 3 times you probably need a bit of a rest, some food, etc!! going down and give her a good orgasm with fingers and tongue usually invokes the desired primal response! Don't push it though, you can get sore!
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reader, unknown2u +, writes (29 September 2011):
My first thought was to ask if you're bragging -- but then I remembered what it was like to have the opportunity/desire for a fourth round.You're not a machine. Even guys in their 20s eventually hit a point where they need to recharge. The time to worry is when you consistently can't be there for round one. You have nothing to worry about.
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