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writes:Hi.. Met this guy i really like, he's 33 yrs old. Our first date went really well and we enjoyed it so much. We kissed on the first date. He asked for another date which was last saturday to hang out watching movies at his place. So i came. We talked after the movie the suddenly we started making out and somehow i stopped cos i didn't want anything leads to sex. Told him it was too early but we made out again i said again that i couldn't this this, not because i don't want to but because i think we need to get to know each other better. He decided to go out instead with me and we talked a lot of things for hours, till we finally hit back to his place and i asked if i could stay at his place cos it was already 2am and i couldn't possibly go home. He said no problem. Then at his house we talked again for hours and hours till morning. When we were talking he said that he really likes me and he likes the fact that i took him out of his comfort zone. He likes hanging out with me cause I'm beautiful, smart, independent and really fun to be around. he can talk about alot of things with me and really enjoy spending time with me. He told me that we should hang out more cause he wanted to get to know me better. he respects why i don't want to have sex with him. He said because I was trying to protect myself. He said he's a really passionate guy (He's a scorpion) and hope i could understand that. After talking for hours, We made out and things got hot and heavy, in the end we had sex. After having sex, we slept together like lovers do. We cuddled and he kept staring into my eyes and he always kissed me on the cheek or in my forehead every once a while till we fell asleep. He would caress my hair and starts looking into my eyes and just smiles. Even when he woke up, he began kissing me on the cheek or in my forehead. We just laid there on the bed and stared into each other's eyes.I left his place and when i got home , we started chatting again and told me how he had a great time with me last night.. My questions are: 1. Does he really like me and just not there for the sex? He told me twice that he really liked me. I just wanna make sure... 2. What should i do next? I dont want to be having sex all the time with him before we got exclusive. What should i tell him to make him understand this? I dont wanna be his booty call. 3. Does his action like staring into my eyes, caressing my hair, or kising me on the cheek and forehead mean something? 4. Should i play hard to get? I really like this guy a lot. 5. Did i make a mistake by having sex with him? is there any chance we could be exclusive even tho we had sex on the second date?Please help and thanks. appreciate it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2011): You don't know, not until you really get to know him. So far, you have a superficial relationship.
What will it mean?
Only time will tell.
But, you don't "play hard to get" if you want to be honest. If you like him, say so. Be honest, open, and willing to talk about your fears, life, emotions, etc.
Otherwise you are just playing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2011): If you are gonna judge people on their star signs, then already you are in trouble. Because it's complete crap.You judge a person on your experiences with them and trust of them.You two had fun? You like each other? Then keep seeing each other, star signs be damned.Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2011): Scorpios are also vengeful creatures, so if you do this, he will know how to play the game right back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi... thanks for the answer :)
What should i do next time i hang out with him? i dont want to keep having sex with him. I don't want to end up as FWB , i like him a lot. Do u think there's a chance for us to be exclusive eventho we had it too soon?
We chatted this morning, and i texted him at night but haven't got any reply yet from him. We always chat at night before. I know tht scorpio can be a lil distant at times, as what he would call it as he needs some space..
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHI.. Thanks for the answer :)
What should i do next time we hang out? I don't wanna keep having sex with him cause im scared that he will think im his booty call.. Do u think by having sex with him too soon, we could still have real relationship as in being exclusive?
We chatted this morning , and i texted him at night because we always chat at night but i haven't got any reply from him and before this happened he always replied to my text. I know that scorpio can be distant in some ways, as what he would call it he needs space.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2011): Hi.. Thanks for the answer! :)
So what should i do next time we hang out? Should we just keep having sex or what? I don't wanna do it because i might end up as his booty call. By having sex with him to soon , do u think we still have a chance to be in real relationship ?
Today we chatted in the morning, at night i texted him because we usually chat at night but i haven't got any reply from him. I know that Scorpio can be a little distant as what he calls it he needs space.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2011): Scorpio here.
You definitely made a right move. Scorpios are very sexual and passionate people.
If he is looking into your eyes deeply and doing those relationship type things, he definitely sees you as a potential mate.
I wouldn't recommend playing hard to get because scorpios can see right through those kind of games. Scorpios are also vengeful creatures, so if you do this, he will know how to play the game right back. If that is what you want, to create more confusion and mystery, then you will definitely get it because scorpios can be very mysterious and secretive, sometimes to the extreme; "shady".
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