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*ollyreeny
writes: Dear cupid, i had sex with this guy 2 days ago but he has never talked abt it. We talk n laugh abt other things but he has kept that subject at bay. Yesterdy he kissed me bt neva said anythng. Was he jus havin fun with me? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Mollyreeny +, writes (28 September 2011):
Mollyreeny is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGuys thanks for your feedback. This guy isnt my b/f just a very cloes friend for a very long time. We've been doing all sorts of intimacy except sex until 3 days ago. He doesnt have a girlfriend and I am also single. Today he smacked my butt. Am i just an object of his satisfaction? Help me reason.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (28 September 2011):
Sometimes, sex is just for fun. But sometimes, sex is a caring sharing of life. If he is still seeing you, it may hopefully be the latter, and develop into love.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (28 September 2011):
Is this guy your boyfriend, a guy you like?
Just because you have sex, doesn't mean you need to discuss the aftermath the next day. It's just natural to go on about your business the next day.
If he's still hanging around you and showing interest, then he's not using you for sex.
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