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writes:My girlfreind says she cant have sex due to girl issues.But shes not on her period.What else could it be?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (29 September 2011):
 Did you ask her what it was? IF I told my partner I could NOT have sex due to girl issues he'd NOT take that for an answer.. he'd want to know WHAT girl issues and DID HE NEED to get me medical attention.....
If you are close enough to have sex with her you are close enough to discuss these things....
but like folks have said it's probably a yeast infection or maybe a UTI... and for some reason so many young women are ashamed of these things but they are perfectly normal.
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reader, LustyLisa +, writes (29 September 2011):
Females have a more complex genitourinary system and in addition to what others have stated, it could also be endometriosis, PID ( pelvic inflamitory disease ), BV( bacterial vaginosis), PCS ( pelvic congestion syndrome), all of which makes vaginal intercourse painfull and in some cases impossible until the flare clears up. The only way to know for sure is to ask her directly. While you're asking you can also show concern for her health and well being and find out if her "girl issues" need medical management by a physician or something less serious. Approaching her as if this could be a female medical problem rather than an "issue" that prevents you from having sex may help her open up and share what's really going on.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (29 September 2011):
 Why aren't you and her able to talk about it so you can ask her instead? It could be any number of things, but only she knows. So ask her.
It could be yeast infection.
It could be urinary tract infection.
It could be an upset stomach even.
It could be she's sore down there after too rough sex with you earlier.
It could be she actually does have her period, I mean how do you know she doesn't have it now unless you've been down on her in the last 30 minutes?
It could be she is PMS-ing because she will have her period next week, causing things like upset stomach, swelling, sore breasts, any number of things.
Just ask her, will you?
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reader, Eyespy17 +, writes (29 September 2011):
Probably just a yeast infection. I've had one and not wanted to explain to my boyfriend because I figured he'd be grossed out. No big deal. If it goes on for more than a few days though; ask again to make sure she's ok and it's not an excuse or a sign of a bigger problem.
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reader, sammi star  +, writes (29 September 2011):
 Why don't you ask her to explain what she means? If she doesn't want to then spare her the embarasment and just be patient.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (29 September 2011):
 It could be a yeast infection . Nothing dramatic, it goes away in few days.
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