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writes:Hi. I'm 27, I've been with my boyfriend on and off, for four years. The first two years he turned me on so much, I loved sex with him. In year three we split up - totally unrelated to sex, but it had started to slow down a bit. Anyway, had a fling with another guy, and sex was great. 6 months later, got back with my bf and at first sex was really good, but it quickly slowed down - to the point where I really couldn't be bothered. Then we split up again. Met another guy had great sex, then got back with bf another 6 months later.So for the past 4 months, I just haven't wanted him at all. I don't even want to kiss him. And feel like I'm always trying to get out of having sex somehow. Last night we had sex, and I just couldn't get wet at all, and it was painful, and I was just thinking about stuff that had happened that day, making noises at the same time. I just wanted him to come asap. Thing is, porn still turns me on, sorry if TMI - but masturbated earlier, and was turned on - it's just him. I don't want him sexually any more... Anyone experiencing this...
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (1 October 2011):
Do him a huge favor, break up with him and do NOT get back with him, what you're doing is cruel and destructive. Let him go, heal and find a woman who can love him.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 October 2011):
To be honest, it just sounds like your relationship has gone as far as it can. You were seeing each other for 3 years, then broke up. Then you had fun with some other guys before getting back with your boyfriend, then broke up again, now you're back together. This relationship sounds like it's over. I don't see anything here other than two people who are now breaking up/getting back together for no reason at all. I think the time has come for you to move on.
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