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writes:How do I show my boyfriend how much I've missed him? please help? My ex boyfriend and I got back together. We broke up for 6 months.. Cos he was going through family problems but he's all good now. We're still so in love. I love him so much and I know he's crazy about me too. He's so sweet and kind.Am seeing him tomorrow and I want to make love to him cos I've missed him so much. Do you have any tips on what I should do tommorow, you know what to wear and do.Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2011): Maybe the first date of your new relationship shouldn't involve sex. Getting to know each other again is very important. Six months is a big stretch and many things could have changed. Also, relationships never pick up from where they left off without change. Dinner or a movie may be the better date for this time.
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (30 September 2011):
Hi there. Even though you are back together, because of the 6 month breakup, it's now a whole new episode.
You need to get to know each other all over again.
A lot can happen in 6 months.
Even though you still really like each other, you are not the same two people you were before the break. The situations in his life during that time, would have changed him a bit, and you not being with him for that time, has also changed you.
So because of that, perhaps you ought to take it a little slowly at first just to see how well you get along with each other now - 6 months later.
You might regret it otherwise, and it could all backfire on you. Be really careful and don't rush things.
This is almost like you just met each other for the first time - because of the 6 month break - so you don't want to mess things up.
This could be an opportunity of a lifetime for you both.
Take it one step at a time. You don't need to rush into sex too soon, you could spoil what you have.
If it happens - naturally - then go with the flow. If it doesn't happen, no big deal. What I am saying here is, don't try and force it to happen. The timing might not be quite right. Everything in good time.
Good luck.
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