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Pregnancy: Help and advice

He's ONLY hit me twice recently. But should I end this relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - My partner used to physicaly and mentaly abuse me. it became worse during my pregnancy , and i miscarried. After this he became better for a while and has only hit me twice in serious arguments. i still can't get over how he treated me and even tho...

B/f got another girl pregnant, he keeps contacting me and its driving me crazy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - i found out my boyfriend of over 4 years was sleeping around. i moved out and said i needed some space. in between that time he was still seeing another girl he forgot to mention and she called me to tell me she was his girlfriend when i ...

Can sperm go through an unbroken hymen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - hello everyone can virgin get pregnant if a sperm gets near her vagina? have there been any facts because many people say virgin can get pregnant even if her hyman is not broken but nobody has actually given any examples..... what i me...

Unplanned pregnancy, I don't want college b/f to deal with it. Should I go away, leave a note and say I'll explain later?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I am 17(and yes I graduated and I'm turning 18 in two weeks)and I have had the same boyfriend since I was a freshman and we have know each other since I was a baby because his family and my family were friends. He is also 3 years older than me ...

My boyfriend impregnanted another girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend impregnanted another girl he dated for 3 months.but he is telling me that he loves me he want to marry me.but however last year i got pregnant and he told me to abort because he was not ready to became a father because he is curently ...

1st time pregnancy questions

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Hi. Hadnt been here in a while so it kind of feels odd to be doing this after so long. Well i got married last year and i'm now pregnant for the first time ever. I wanna ask all the moms out there a few questions. First how do i deal with the ...

Any way to figure out a baby's father before the baby is born?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

27 April 2011 (?) - dear cupid, is there any possible way to figure out who a baby's father is before the baby is actually born??? or, do you just have to wait until after the baby shows up???...

Could taking a shower after sex somehow get me pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - i didn't get any clear answers from this last time, so im asking again, and making my question clearer, my boyfriend ejaculated onto my breasts and stomach. we did not have sex!!!( i want to make it clear, we didn't have sex, or use the "pull ou...

If we're both fifteen...what happens if we want to have a baby?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - What iF You're 15 And You And Your Boyfriend Want To Have A Baby?!?...

What are the odds of getting pregnant if we use a condom and he pulls out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - i know this isnt one hundred percent safe, but do i have a good chance of not getting pregnant if we use a condom, and pull out. i know the pulling out doesnt do much... i just want opinions, i know what is the safest. just answer the question ...

Could shower water wash sperm into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - my boyfriend ejaculated on my breasts and stomache, he then wiped it of using tissue. afterwards i took a shower; what im worried about is the shower water washing any remaining sperm into my vagina????(obivously i was standing up in the shower, and ...

He will not pay child support, but does not want me to move. What should I do? I still care about him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - my long term boyfriend broke it off with me ten months ago when i told him i was pregnant. i was desvasted. i had a melt down really coping with the fact i was dumped, later to find out he had been cheating, and that i was pregnant. well anyways ...

I don't like the idea of being married or having children anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

24 April 2011 (M) - i just wanna an advice , I'm married with a woman in another country now she is gonna have a baby and i don't like the idea neither being married any more i'm so depressed about having a baby and continuing being married , no sex no fun but i stil...

I'm afraid I might be pregnant and I'm scared to tell my parents!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - Hi, Im 14 years old and I have a boyfriend that is 16. Me and him had sex about a monto get h ago and I was supossed to get my period a week ago but it hasnt come. Im afraid I might be pregnant. We used a condom, but it broke. I dont know how to t...

I am pregnant with my history teacher's baby. Who should I tell? Cd I make out it's my Bf's baby instead?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - Hi everyone! So I finally found out I'm pregnant with my History teacher's baby and I don't know what to do. I'm 100 per cent sure I'm going to keep it and I don't know if I should tell him what's going on, or if I just should tell my boyfriend I'...

Heroin use during first 3 months of pregnancy... Should I abort?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - I am 9 weeks pregnant (my first time ever, and it was unplanned), and I have an abortion scheduled for 5 days from now. Up until today, I was positive I was not going to continue with the pregnancy and was for sure going to get an abortion. Because ...

Do fertility tests bought online actually work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - Hey everyone Does anyone know if these fertility test kits that you can buy online work? I know the dna tests work but do the fertility ones do the job My man wants to know if he is fertile but wont go see a doctor Thanks ppl...

We cant agree on when to have a baby.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - I'm nearly 26 and my partner is 28. I have a 9 year old daughter from a previous relationship but she rarely sees her dad so it's my partner who helps her with homework, takes her on days out and comforts her when she's unwell etc. He's such a ...

I think my boyfriend is shooting blanks

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Hey guys I need a little help... Me and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby for 3 months now and wev still not got pregnant Im 21 and already have 2 kids from a previous relationship and my boyfriends 30 and doesnt have any kids Iv been pr...

I want a child now. He's asked me to wait. Do you think he does not love me enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Hello dear cupid. I have sitution here with my boyfriend. We're not married but we live together for 4 years. He told me he want to marry me one day and have kids. He is 31 years old and I'm 23. I want to have kids now. I mean I love him.I do ever...

I don't know who the father is

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

17 April 2011 (?) - I am pregnant (8weeks), and there is a possible of 3 people who could be the father. I went to a party and had sex with a mate. The next morning I, again had sex with another bloke (random this time). The next day me and my bf had unprotected sex ...

I have a high sexdrive and my partner doesn't seem to understand my needs.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - me and my girlfriend of 3 years have not had what u call a perfect sex life. its been good 1 second next its cold for a few days. she dont moan when we have sex. she just lays there and looks at the roof. she just wants to lay on her back, n...

I don't like how my partner is treating our child..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - hi all, im 29 years old, got a little girl who i love more than anyone (14 months old) sometimes this is the problem with me and my girlfriend of 3 years. i dont look at her in the same way anymore. not because i dont fancy her or some...

16, pregnant, BF wants me to go in for an abortion...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - Im 16 and im pregnant i told my boyfriend about it and he told me to go for an abortion but i dont want to because just thinking about it maker me sad but i want him to be happy but yet i dont want to disapoint my parents plz help me what should i ...

Am I immature because I don't have a boyfriend, don't drink or I'm not pregnant or don't have my own house at 17, like everyone else???.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - A lot of the girls around here are doing what most grown up's do, like getting pregnant at a young age and having their own house while I'm still stuck at home with my parents. I'm immature because I don't have a boyfriend, don't drink or I'm not ...

After a month of ignoring me, now boyfriend is attentive to me in my pregnancy. Why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - I am at a state of confusion . I am 23 weeks pregnant on bedrest . The baby's father broke up with me a month ago and I hear from him rarely until recently . I was sent to the the hospital for possible term labor ( false alarm) mutal friends ...

Who is wrong here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - boyfriend cheated on me now he cant have any female friends. And im not supposed to have any either but on xbox live im new to it and a guy on there messaged me and said hey so i said hi. My boyfriend got pissed because i talked to a guy and hes not ...

Can you get pregnant if semen does not go inside the vagina??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - If cum gets on the outside lips or around my vagina can it go up into my vagina without being touched? Or does it have to be physically inserted for it to get in and pregnancy to happen?...

Want a baby but not through her having intercourse, thoughts??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - My wife of 8 yrs. and I (in a lesbian relationship) have been inseminating and our donor is my own 23 yr old nephew. He produces a sperm sample in a sterile cup and gives it to me to inseminate my wife with it. So far she hasn't gotten pregnant ...

I really need help with this problem. My Ob doctor is no help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - Okay , so I am having trouble with knowing who my unborn babys father is. And I talked to my Ob doctor and she did not help at all. My story ; Well me and my boyfriend broke up for 4 months , I had sex with my guy friend Sept. 10th 2010 ( he ...

Can I get pregnant from giving a hand job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - If cum gets on my pelvis area or above my clit while giving a handjob, how likely is it that I could get pregnant? Like can it drip down to my vagina and go up, or does it have to be inserted?...

What to expect at a 12 week doctors appointment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4975 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - i am about 12 weeks pregnant and going to the drs for my first appointment. i am supposed to get an ultra sound. what sould i expect? is there any tests or exams? any questions they will ask me? how do they do an ultra sound? please tell me what to ...

Hurt from the past still haunts my relationship. He won't talk about it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4975 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - i am so confused with the guy i have been with for 5 years, i love him so much. Part of me wants to let him go so i can be happy, i haven't been happy for awhile now from the way he treated me. 3 years ago he used to run around on me with all t...

Pregnant, in the military, and the daddy opts for adoption

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4975 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - So heres rhe deal...im in the military' 20yrs old and find myself pregnant.my boyfriend if u can call him that pcs'd to the other side of the country and weve been having problems here and there but now that ive decided to keep my child he insists ...

Mother's rights to unborn baby in Massachusetts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - im 16 and im 12 weeks pregnant. the father and i are no longer together. do i have to give the baby his last name? just because it is his baby doesnt mean hes goiing to be there and support it, id rather do it on my own. if he were to take me to ...

I had a dream that I was pregnant with someone else's baby - what does this dream mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I rarely remember my dreams, but I had one last night that is confusing me. I dreamed that I was pregnant, but it wasn't my boyfriend's baby. I didn't dream about who the real father was but I remember being happy to be pregnant but crushed that ...

Pregnant and BF doesn't want the baby right now. What do I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I am only 21 and at Uni Bf still has a year or so to go till he finishes. I have just found out im pregnant and wasnt sure whether to keep it but decided to. I thought It wouldnt be easy but possible. Bf has told me he doesnt want kids... not yet ...

I'm not ready for a child, but I don't want to regret my decision.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles I need some advice. I am 20 years old and just found out I'm pregnant and would really appreciate advice hopefully from people who have had or know of similiar experinces. I have a job that pays very well I make over $1100...

Is it wrong of me not to be happy that my married lover had a baby with his wife?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - My lover just had another baby with his wife. I am very sad and disappointed about this. Is this normal? I love the guy so much and he loves me too. We have been together for two years and has been married for three years. I have always respected ...

I am upset with my cousin for not telling me she was pregnant before we had unprotected sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - This is so wrong. i have been seeing my cousin for the past seventeen years, although we have both moved on and got married to our loved ones, ever chance we get like in family gatherings we still have sex. my wife is now not in town, i was with my ...

Am I crazy if I want something with him still?

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11 April 2011 (F) - I have a guy friend who ive known for a few years. We met last year in college and we ended up dating for only a few weeks last year. I came back from a trip and he told me that he still had feeling for his ex. We agreed to be friends, and i wasnt ...

Contraception and pregnancy. How far should one plan for the unplanned?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - When you have sex there is no guarantee you will not get pregnant, because even when you do use contraception you can use it the wrong way, and no contraception can claim to be 100 percent safe either. I do trust in the contraception I use, and that ...

I know now that childcare is not what I want to do. Need help with career choice.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Hey, a quick question, how do you know what you want to do in life if you have no ambitions and no idea on a career path? I had to quit college because i became pregnant, yes it was planned but it happened sooner then planned. The college cou...

My sister is a squatter. How can my parents get her to leave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - My sister got pregnant and my parents let her stay at home. now that the child is 1 year old now they want her to leave and get a house of her own. they have constantly told her to go cause all she does is causes hassle and fights with everyone. She ...

Pregnant by my ex who has another girlfriend, and I'm only 14! Should I keep it or give it up for adoption?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - ok so, i was with my ex for a year and 2 months, he currently has a new gf because hes 'trying to get over me' we had sex a couple weeks ago (yea i know im such a horrible person letting him cheat on her like that, blah blah blah) but the condom ...

He heard lies from someone else about me and now calls me a prostitute! To make it worse, I am pregnant with his baby and he wants to take it away from me.....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Hi friends , I am a 24yrs old university graduate, and 6 months pregnant, but the father of my baby has left me, he broke up with me over the phone and called me all sort of names. he even calls me a prostitute,..the relationship was a very smooth ...

How do I disappear with my little one so he can't find us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - hi everyone i need some help and some of you might think i'm a cow. but here it goes i have a 3 week old baby that the dad only saw 3 times since her birth. to me i think he is a dick he can't see her beacuse its messing with his new relationship...

I told her I had rights, but she said they went out the window when I dumped her 10 months ago!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - okay story is right i was with a girl 6 years right but i wasn't into her anymore so like i broke up with her and then she told me she was pregant but like i was seening a new bird at the time. so i told her to forget it if she thinks i was going to ...

Am I tricking myself into thinking I'm still pregnant, or did the abortion fail?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - in september when i was 2 months pregnant, i was more or less forced into having an abortion. ever since then i have still been having symptoms and every since the abortion i have regretted it and hated myself for it. i know its stupid, but i feel ...

Bf is not 'mentally attracted' to me though am pregnant with his baby - help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Im 14 wks pregnant and my bf just told me last night that he is not 'mentally attracted' to me. We are living together and I feel absolutely crushed by this. I told him last night I was highly concerned as there was no intimacy since I have fallen ...