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Archived questions from: July, 2014 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

She threatens to leave me and the kids if I ask too many questions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

31 July 2014 (M) - Hi.....i need some help.......i am married for 7years now and is hard broken... My wife is a lot on her phone and says talking to laddy at work or sister. But the phone keeps on kling kling every time...she blocks the phone i kant see allways hiding ...

Why marry me if I wasn't his type?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

31 July 2014 (F) - Why would my husband have married me when I was cjwarky not his type ? All through our marriage he would make little comments about my looks .. Implying that there were things about me that disappointed him . He was constantly looking at other ...

Is this cheating? My husband bought his female colleague perfume!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - My husband told me that he really appreciates his female colleague and bought her perfume for her birthday gift. Should I be worried? ...

Should I tell my wife that I'm considering a visit to see a prostitute?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

27 July 2014 (M) - Yes, this is a weird question to ask. However, my wife of 20 years will not have sex with me and has not for more than 10 years. It is something we have talked about many, many times but nothing ever changes. She doesn't want to divorce me and I...

I'm trying to forgive him and make the marriage work, but friends and family don't undertand why!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 7 years and we have 4 kids under the age of 5. A month ago he told me that he had an affair with a coworker. It happened in April and last three weeks, during those three weeks they were together 4 times. H...

If this marriage was so important to her, then why didn't she stop contacting her ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - I got married a few months ago, it was a rushed wedding, after barely knowing each other we married because she told me to get married because I was having trouble with my immigration status and it would give me a green card and working visa ...

How do I get my 73 year old husband to wash every day?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - How can I get my husband of 73 to wash everyday? He gets upset when I pull away from him as even a kiss makes me feel sick...he never brushes his teeth, I change pillow cases every day as they are smelly and greasy! We have single beds now...I ...

Non stop unresolved arguments

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

25 July 2014 (M) - For the first year or so of our married life was great but now we are plagued by frequent enflamed arguments which cannot be resolved. The rows often come out of the blue and the cause is unknown. I cool down after a few minutes and my feelings are ...

I don't love him any more .....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - I want a divorce but my husband doesnt agree, what can i do i dont love him anymore but we have a child. The fact that i dont love him anymore and everytime he asks me to have sex with him and if i disagree he gets mad and always doubted that i dont ...

What do I do ? Go back to a safe comfortable marriage with a kind man and be unhappy? Or try again with a new man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - I have been married for twenty years and although I love my husband there has never been the chemistry that I had before him in another relationships. Even at the beginning with my husband it wasn't there , yet I had been in previous relation...

I have a boyfriend but he doesn't know I am already married!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

23 July 2014 (F) - Dear cupid, im in totally mess right now, i hope you can help me more than i can help myself, im facing such a messy situation what can i do..My story goes this way, i had a boyfriend right now, we already knew each other for about a year i think ...

My heart is broken....I don't know how to fix this. Help me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

22 July 2014 (F) - My husband asked me to fulfill a fantasy for him. He wanted me to have sex with another man and video it for he and I to watch later. I am not as open minded as him and it took me a while to process the idea and agree to it. We did it this ...

The spark is gone from our sex life, will bringing in a third person help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

21 July 2014 (M) - Hi. My wife and I have been married for 23 years. We still love each other but the spark has gone from our sex life, although we regularly have sex. For many years I have always told her that the thought of her having sex with another well endowed ...

I'm married and have been chatting with a man for a year. We'll never meet so its harmless isnt it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

20 July 2014 (F) - Ok so where do I start. When I was on maternity, I spent long days in the house by myself. My husband has become rather un-attentive and has lost interest in most conversation. I was very lonely and restricted in money for doing activities...

I used to be happy in this marriage but now I'm just angry all the time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

20 July 2014 (F) - Hi I'm married been together for four years with a one year old daughter. I have a problem, I don't want to have sex with my hubby anymore, I don't like him touching me he has to initiate sex I'm really not in the mood so I can't enjoy it, i try to ...

Newlyweds and embarrassment of dealing with hair "down there"

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

20 July 2014 (F) - How do newlyweds deal with hair "down there"? I mean, doesn't it get uncomfortable with the roughness of hair growing back or the embarrassment of ingrown hairs? I'm getting married soon and have never been intimate with anyone before. I'm anxious ...

Am I over reacting? My husband's been having outburts that make no sense. It this the start of domestic abuse?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1993 days ago

19 July 2014 (F) - I have been with my husband for five years, married for two of them. He is usually helpful, polite, funny and affectionate. In the last three years, there have been outbursts that made no sense. In the first one, he started an argument when we ...

Husband has no interest in sex and has ED. Ten years of no sex. How can I address my need for sexual satisfaction?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

18 July 2014 (F) - I'm so sad, I don't know what to do. Me and my husband can't have sex , due to his lack of libido, and inability to get an erection . I just don't know what to do. I'm in such a despair , about this. Time to time, I feel I can't go on like this. I ...

How to control rage issues, that have cost me my marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

16 July 2014 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I have a big problem and was wondering if anyone can refer me to some good websites, or help me to find information on this. Basically, my husband and I got in a fight, and I hit him. This has happened before, and I went to ...

Married 50 years. What do I do now: start over or live the rest of my life like this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

15 July 2014 (F) - Well where do you start, I just reached my 50Th wedding anniversary, I said* reached( not celebrate) because my husband said if I take you somewhere you will just just start a argument, which is not true as I paid for a trip to Vegas and he didn't ...

How do I deal with my husband hiding his impotency!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 July 2014 (F) - after 20yrs of marriage i now know my husband had an impotency problem he hid it from me making excuses all the time, i beleived his excuse----how to deal with this please tell me how to deal with this...

My wife of 20 years invites a man to stay the night at our home? Is this weird?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 July 2014 (M) - Hi, Is it strange that my wife of 20 years invites another man to stay the night at our house? She apparently arranged this visit several weeks back, but didn't let me know about the plans, ask for my opinion, nor tell me until a few days bef...

I found a receipt for perfume purchased after I went out after a row!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

13 July 2014 (F) - can i have some advice please.i have been with my partner 5 years and we have a 16month son and i am 2 months pregnant with our second child. my partner is in the army so only comes home weekends, the last 2 weekends he has been so horrible to me ...

Is my husband gay? straight? or just curious?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

11 July 2014 (F) - I'm questioning whether to believe my husband when he says he's not gay or bi after I confronted him about knowing he watched/chatted with a couple trannies this one time that I know of. There were also females he watched/chatted with as well. He ...

I think my husband might be bi and I don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3785 days ago

11 July 2014 (F) - I am very confused and at a loss of what to do, think and believe . My husband and I have been together 3yrs and got married last november. I just found out the truth that my husband has been talking/flirting with other girls before and after we got ...

I don't want to flush 21 years of marriage but something's got to change!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

11 July 2014 (F) - Well, you've probably never heard this one before. My husband and I live next door to his mother. She's a lovely person but has the habit of being taken advantage of by her children, grandchildren, etc.. For years, like 21, I've had to remind him ...

Motherhood is sapping my self confidence.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3785 days ago

10 July 2014 (F) - I am a 22 year old, i use to have alot of confidence, was very bubbly, happy and had a close group of friends. Now i have a child and a boyfriend, and i am very happy with family life, but i just don't do nothing for myself anymore, i know being a ...

Is my husband mentally abusing me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

10 July 2014 (F) - Ok I don't know where to start if am honest in 21 years old and have a 2 month old baby. I've been with my husband 3 years and married for one. I am occasionally told from family I need to leave him as I'm getting abused. I have lost all my ...

I cheated on my husband but cannot bring myself to confess and I feel so guilty all the time

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

9 July 2014 (F) - Hi, I got married in 2012. During the first few months of our marriage, my husband remained busy with his friends, he had very little time for me. He made love to me on rare occasions. Then, I began to hang around with my boss, like fiends. One...

Haven't conceived after 18 months of trying ...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

9 July 2014 (F) - Hi guys, I'm feeling really low today and I just need to get this out. I'm 31 (and a half) and my husband and I have been trying to conceive for about 18 months. It took a long time before he felt ready for a family and then if only we'd known ...

How do I initiate affection despite my husband's efforts to "push buttons"?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

8 July 2014 (F) - My husband does this thing where he will act aloof, distant, angry. Then sometimes after a bout of that he will accuse me of being distant. He will say that I am the one that goes leaves the room when he is the one that leaves when I enter a room. ...

I feel I am constantly waiting for him and wasting my life away ...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3786 days ago

8 July 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for six years and we have a son together who is 3 years old. We all live together, my partner works 16 hour days, and he works nights. He only gets one day off but even on his day off i don't see him as he lays in bed ...

My inlaws have out stayed their welcome and my husband doesn't get it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

7 July 2014 (F) - My husbands parents live in canada, weve been together 10 years and they've only come to England once in that time (for our wedding). After the birth of our 1st child they said they were coming to see their grand daughter. They kept changing their ...

Does my stingy husband really love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3791 days ago

6 July 2014 (F) - Dear alls, Does my stingy husband really love me? I am 49-50 years old. He’s 69. I still want to have true love. My husband never spends any money on me. He said I making a lot of money. He retired and no income. Rental income pay for tax. He’s st...

I can walk around naked and he doesn't bat an eyelid!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3786 days ago

5 July 2014 (F) - Hi I'm new to this it's my first ever time asking anyone for help really, I feel you you as I am in a situation like it :-( I have been with my husband for 15 years he was my first boyfriend we have kids together and everything was ok really u...

I find myself wanting to spend less and less time with my husband. Is this natural after years of marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

5 July 2014 (F) - Has anyone experienced this with their husbands after many years of marriage? The thing is that I started to avoid being around my husband. We always had good relationship, never argued much, but lately about a year I caught myself on a thought ...

Will it ever get any easier getting over an ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

5 July 2014 (F) - hey guys i need some advice me and my hubby of 9 years split almost 18 months ago now as we wanted different things i was desparate to be a mum and my hubby didnt really want children things took a turn for the worst when we had investigations done ...

How do I handle his porn addiction?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

4 July 2014 (F) - This is another question about porn, but okay, here goes.. I'm 32, my husband is 34, been married since 2011, over the past few weeks he's been refusing sex. And it's all down to pornography. The "smoking gun" as it were, was a sign-up for a po...

Now I've got him why aren't I satisfied?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

4 July 2014 (F) - I've been having an affair with a married man for almost over 18 months now, he's been wed for about 6 weeks, has a 2-year-old son, and on Wednesday he announced he's leaving his wife for me. He said he'd told his wife "I'm leaving you, got a new ...

We drifted apart, now wondering if we should try again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

4 July 2014 (F) - I'm in two minds whether or not to give my relationship with my ex, and father of my kids another try. Part of me thinks it would be great for us as a family while the other part thinks it might ruin what we have now. I was 18 when I fell preg...

I feel foolish now that he has gone back to his wife

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

3 July 2014 (F) - I was seeing a separated married man for a few months. It ended a couple of months ago. He has since got back with his wife. I now feel foolish. He was already separated when we got together and had been for a year. At the time I was at rock bottom ...

I'm in turmoil. I love my husband, so do I stay with him or move in with my lover?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

3 July 2014 (F) - I've been having an affair with a co-worker for the past 6 months behind my husband's back. I'll admit, our marriage has become a bit stale in the bedroom department, all my husband talks about is bills, paying the next bill, financial st...

Should I move out of state with my husband and try to reconcile our marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3793 days ago

2 July 2014 (F) - My husband and I got married rather quickly after meeting and falling in love (within 6 months) and have been married for over 2 years now. We have a sweet one year old daughter. We are a Christian family, and I have difficulty considering divorce ...

Husband sulking over old school pal

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3794 days ago

2 July 2014 (F) - Hello Thankyou in advance for any advice..sorry it's so long I've been with my husband for a long time and we have a 8 year old daughter together and older kids from our first marriages, on the whole we've been happy, but about 6 months after we ...

Have you ever been called by your significant others ex-wife's name?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3795 days ago

1 July 2014 (F) - My fiancé has called me by his ex-wife's name several times and they have been divorced for 9 years now. We have been seeing each other for four years. He even gets our vacations together mixed up. The other night he remarked, when we were ...