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Archived questions from: May, 2011 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I never imagined I would end up here

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 24 years, and we have two teenage daughters together. I thought I married my best friend, and for awhile we were very happy. I don't really understand how things went so wrong, but over the years, our marriage ...

Why would he not be interested after we married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I am 22 and I have been married to my boy friend for 5 months now, we loved for almost 1 year and got married, but from the day of my wedding he is not normal, he is not interested in me any more, he doesn't care, doesn't share anything, not ...

Romantic boyfriend lost interest as soon as we got married!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I am 22 yrs old and have been married for 4 months, my boy friend who was extremely romantic pre marriage has lost interest in me immediately after few days of our wedding and not ready to tell me wat is his problem. I am unable to find the reason ...

Why did husband treat me like I didn't exist at this important event?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Why did he treat me like I didn't exist this one important event? He has always treated me well. This was my first time meeting his childhood friends at his east coast 50th reunion party. His ex gf came on very forward and acted as if he were hers. ...

Can a serial cheater stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4328 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I am seeking advice from men who have cheated repeatedly or other wives who have been married to serial cheaters. I have been married for 11 years and I have been able to prove and also receive confessions from my husband that he has cheated 5 ...

Husband left me for another woman. Is it just a rebound?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - My husband left me three months ago for a much younger woman (he is 32, she is 21). I am devastated, we have four children together and it is heartybreaking that every other weekend they are staying at her house. (he moved straight in with her!). He ...

My wife admitted to cheating, but she can't bring herself to end it with them!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - My wife and I had a loving marriage 8 years back. I love her very much. She is a very sexy lady and she has had a large number of admirers because of this. Now she is interested in them and sleeping with them when I am not around. When I caught her, ...

Can an abusive person change their ways?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I have been with my husband for 7 years and we have 2 young children. He is an abusive person - physically, mentally, emotionally. I must have known this for years but have chosen to ignore it but today, I am accepting that I am an abused wife. I ...

He wants to move towns to accomodate his child from his first marriage...should I accomodate his wishes?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - My husband wants to sell our house and move to another town to live in a rented apartment in order to free money to send his child from his first marriage to a prestigious school there. He is self- employed so will be able to work anywhere. I ...

110 guys before me??

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - how do i deal with the fact that my wife has been with 110 guys beffore me 107 all f buddys or one nighr stands and i know knew 20 of them? i feel like a fool. one guy did her in a bathroom at a party and never spoke to her.....

I'm wondering if this is all for nothing!

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29 May 2011 (F) - I've been married for 3 years and I thought we were doing okay. My husband's has issues with the way I raise my children two teenage girls whom has been with us for 4 years now. He is very emotionally needy for a Soldier. I do everything around the ...

No longer attracted to my wife

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - Im not attracted to my wife. i know it sounds shallow and i feel guilty as hell about it, but no matter how hard i try to look at her with the same affection i used to have for her, i just dont have it anymore. i dont like kissing her and i dont ...

My husband wont end his affair

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Hi, i was hoping someone could advise me on my heartbreaking marriage. 3 years ago i found out my husband was having an affair, he swore he would give her up but he never did. Throught the 3 years ive found upto 30 secret phones - i bin them but...

How to break up with the woman I'm cheating with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - I've felt been cheating on my wife for a few days now and I've just realized it is so wrong. I haven't done anything with the other girl yet. I just took her out for movie and coffee like 2 times. The thing is this girl is really into me, I'm scared ...

I am not attracted to my husband and I have a crush on my CPA. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I am a 40 year old woman in a marriage for almost 20 years. I love my husband, but I may not be "in love" with him. I'm not really sure what the difference is. I had other boyfriends sexually, but he was my first real emotional relation...

My husband promised to end contact with his female friend, but he didn't and now I am considering a divorce

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I have been married for 3 months and am thinking of getting a divorce, once the year is up. To answer my question I need to give you a bit of background information. My husband has had a female friend for nearly 17 years. I have met the lady on ...

I told my husband about my affair and now I know he will never be with me again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - So I told my separated husband the truth about the affair I was having during the split. I believe that it help but I know I lost him for good. There is a pregnancy involved that happen from the affair.i dont know exactly how I feel about my husband ...

Husband won't have sex and its driving us apart

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - my husband wont have sex with me and its driving us apart. we have been married for 5 years and in the beginning it was great. but for the last 2 years im lucky if we have sex once a month, and its always me who instigates it. ive tried talking to ...

My husband's sperm count is too low but he thinks the doctor is lying!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - hi,i have been trying for a baby for 7 years but nothing happened so the docter decided that we do some test mine was fine bur it turned out my husband cant have kids and theres nothing that can be done his sperm count is too low no treatment can ...

I married for love but I don't know if that's what I got?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

28 May 2011 (?) - Ok so I have been married to a woman for a year now and we dated for one and a half years b4 we got married. I think i love her but there are a couple of problems or more. She is very demanding, doesnt work, doesnt clean, very rude to me and doesnt ...

On husband's laptop found 5 messages written to different women! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I Need Hlp Plz Don't Know what to do=(,,,, I've been married for almost 7 years I've been with mu husband for 11 Years.well I've been through so so much with him and put up with a lot from his family causing problems to getting involved in our marr...

Whar are your views on divorce and committed marriages, is it right to be unfaithful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

27 May 2011 (?) - when married, there is a committed bond between 2 people, vows are taken into this relationship. Agreements are accepted and a journey with someone in your life thats to be fulfilled till death do both apart. But when 1 is unfaithful and n...

If I am going to break up with my husband what things do I need to consider?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - If I am going to break up with my husband. What things do I need to consider? I think I have enough reasons to do it. Do I have to go to a councillor before I can see a divorce lawyer? I am not sure how this works. Why do I think I have enough r...

His wife found out about our texting and he's broken it off with me. I'm gutted and don't know what to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - am gutted ....im married,my husband is violent and moody but we have a 5 year old boy which is the main reason i am here,plus i have no where to go ,last october i started talking on facebook to a married man who i added thru a mutual girlfriend ,we ...

My conservative wife wears low-cut tops that show her bra?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - OK, this is going to sound odd, because I certainly find it odd. My wife is in her 40s. She has always been very decorous. Serious professional, dedicated mother, married for 20+ years. A virgin when we got together. Very conservative sex...

Wife is angry because I'm not interested in sex anymore

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

26 May 2011 (M) - I don't know what is wrong with me . I totally lost my sexual self. I don't know ,if it is because I'm no longer attracted to my wife,or is this something else. She is very mad at me, because I can't keep an erection,and I rarely ever desire s...

My boyfriend's behavior changed after we got married!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - my husband was my best friend before our marrage,we use to talk hours n hours we discuss everything.but after our marrege he dont share anthing with me he want priwasy from me.even i think he dont love me any more,i want him in my life.. i was only ...

My husband treats me with no respect!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - i have been with my husband for 3 years. i think we married too soon after meeting. hewas the most amazing caring considerate person. would always think of me and look after me and i inturn did the same for him. however while i have not changed ..he ...

Should I leave my marriage or tough it out?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

26 May 2011 (M) - Hello, This is gonna be long. So if you don't have the time, you might want to click through this one, lol. My wife and I have been married for 12 years and together for 14 years or so. To start from the beginning, initially we got along...

I don't find my wife attractive anymore

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - Me and my wife have been living together for nine years and married for the last six we have two children the youngest is four years old throughout our relationship her weight and appearance has fluctuated. in the last few years I have found her ...

Married woman's marriage in trouble. Can I be there to pick up the pieces?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - Hey guys. First time here. Hoping you can help. I have feelings for a woman who is married. She is going through some hard times in her marriage right now and seems to be struggling about whether to stay with her husband. We have been having ...

I've lost attraction to my wife and fell for a co-worker

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - Ok so yes I know I'm a p.o.s. I've come to grips with that. Here's my problem... My wife and I have been having problems, some pretty major, but we are dealing with those. Ive lost attraction to her, which I hate, and again I'm trying to get over...

My husband cheated on me while travelling

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - Hi, I'd just managed to make my huaband of 15 years confess he cheated on me almost everytime he went on a business trip; almost 6 times a year. The hardest thing about this truth is that we had a solmen promise from day one to be honest to each ...

Is is ok for married people to be physically attracted to others?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - Is it acceptable or not for a married person to have sexual attractions to other people? I have been married to my wife for about 7 yrs. and she told me that although she is COMPLETELY happy with me sexually and I treat her right AND I give her ...

My wife has gotten so fat, I can barely have sex with her!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - When I married my wife she was smoking hot. I would say an LA "8". Everywhere we went cars honked at her, I couldn't take a piss w/o a guy taking my barstool and taking his shot. Even women hit on her So we got married. As the years ticked by ...

After years of a sexless marriage my eye is beginning to wander

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - OK, here's my situation. I have a good marriage of 12 years and a nine year old son. In the last 9 years my wife has not made love to me except for two times, even though every other part of the marriage works. Even after surviving SERIOUS cancer ...

Found naked pics of a guy on my wife's camera. I'm not sure how to handle this...

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - My wife and I are married 4 years this summer. Everything seems to be great, my problem is something from the past. I just bought my wife a new laptop and digital camera last Christmas. Her old camera she had when we met and was about 5 or 6 yea...

Husband hired a sexy escort to work for him!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - I really need some advice as I am in shock and don't know which way to turn. I dropped by my husbands office (he is 43) recently as he left his phone at home and walked in to find him drooling from his desk at his new receptionist as she was walking ...

How do I deal with a husband who ignores me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - How to deal with a husband who ignores his wife for a period of 2 months now? Basically, we did not consumate our marriage as I am working abroad and my husband is in our home country. My husband was my ex-boyfriend, but when I went on emergenc...

My wife's sex life before she met me, and her attitude towards sex now have left me shattered....

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4374 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - This seems to be a big topic here. I have read a lot of the responses from people and they are helping. What I notice is that there are two categories of people suffering from this. One is people who have had a lot of partners (maybe even more tha...

Our problem don't include infidelity, but everday is agony for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - How to deal with a husband who ignores his wife for a period of 2 months now? Basically, we did not consumate our marriage as I am working abroad and my husband is in our home country. My husband was my ex-boyfriend, but when I went on emergenc...

Can men and women be friends with the opposite sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

23 May 2011 (M) - I am a married man. Most of my friends prior to meeting my wife were women. Because of issues relating to jealousy and competition (on the part of my wife and on the part of my female friends) all of those relationships were lost. I have not repl...

I'm sleeping with a married man and he wants me to stay at his house. Should I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

23 May 2011 (M) - I am seeing a married guy 3 or 4 times a year we meet in cities away from home in Fl and or Ca I am 69 and he is 40. When in Ca I have dinner with him and his wifr, I am goig to Ca next and he suggested I stay at his home. Good idea ?????"??...

Can he stop me from moving?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - Hi, some advice please. I have an 11 month old son, I split from his dad, my husband due to him having an affair. Now I decided I wanted to leave the area to make a fresh start for myself and my son as they only live around the corner from me and I ...

Wife treated me badly for so long, I met someone else, but I want back what I used to feel for my wife!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

22 May 2011 (M) - My wife and I have been together for 6 yrs and married for almost 4. It was love at first sight, well at least it was for her because she fell in love with me when we met through work and I was still married (no affair, I never even knew about it ...

My husband wants a life away from his family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - I really need help as my current situation is driving me to despair: My husband is a Latin musician with a dream of selling millions of albums worldwide, going on World Tours forever and living the life of a rock star. Now, back to Earth – we are a...

Husband doesn't understand that I don't have alot of strength for sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - Porn is playing a vital role in runining the minds of our spouse. More than once, I found porn on laptops, emails, and mobiles. My husband claims that his friends sent them. I have come to find out that porn differs from real sex life. They actually ...

The way my husband acts I think he hates me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - I have had some problems with my husband and the problem is sometimes I feel that he hates me by his actions, when we first met he was the type to go out and party, but me, I was a homebody and I still am to this day, when we got together he stopped ...

Is it possible to just stop the sex with this married guy but keep the friendship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - Hi guys, I need some advice here...I met this married guy at work about a year ago. We both liked each other and became friends. We finally crossed the line about 3 months ago and we both knew it would happen. He has a baby with his wife but he ...

Whats the use of being married to this man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - i ask myself every day whats the use,i'm married to a man that keeps telling me things will get better,but they never do,sex is almost never and when we do have sex it always leaves me drepressed because all the man does is get it hard stick it in ...